After reading your post, I really feel that my family is ok. There is a 90-year-old grandmother in my family who came to my house in June this year. Although I am not young, I have no intention to be filial to her. I think it's right to say that people change their hearts. When I was a child, because I was a girl, my grandmother didn't love me and my aunt didn't love me, but I lived very well, because I had a good mother who had no worries about food and clothing, so that the only male grandson in our family could only look back on me. My mother has been fighting with her since she was a child, and all her eyes are angry that our family is doing well and in a mess. Although the father is not ignorant of filial piety, he can't escape his son's obligation to support the elderly and die. My aunt lied that she was mentally ill, kicked my milk out of their house and refused to go back. An aunt is in Shanghai and an aunt is 65 years old. My father is the youngest in the family, so she came to our home. Fortunately, my grandmother doesn't make trouble in my house. Just like your grandmother, she can defend herself, be selfish and never say hello to her family. How can my mother be willing to wait on her after what she did to my mother before? What am I better than you? My dad hates my milk, too, but there is no way to keep her. So we don't talk to her much. I don't think there is any treasure in my house. As you said, we haven't seen each other for ten years, and our living habits are different. How can we merge? The problem now is that you can never move out with your mother or yourself, which makes your grandmother successful. You must stay in this home and take good care of your mother. I thought she was broken. You should recover well, and you can't leave sequelae. It is your mother who is guilty. If you leave, your mother will be more angry. Since your grandmother can't leave, you have to face it. You said she scolded your mother in the bathroom. Why do you want to tell her that if this happens again, don't bear to listen to her scolding, just turn around and leave, go back to the house or go out, ignore her and bask in her. Don't be angry with her. She was not in pain when she was ill. Please be kind to your dad and stop complaining about the old man, because your dad doesn't know what to do, but he can't leave and just waits for death at your house. Your family is dead. If you are unhappy, let your mother tell you that you can't add fuel to the fire. You should clean up your mother and tell her that no one wants to break up the your family. You should make your mother happy, buy her beautiful clothes and delicious food, and help share the housework. You are always happy in front of grandma, just angry with her. Don't talk to dad when he is not at home, and don't talk to you or your mother. Sun her, but not in front of your father, but not very good, just muddle along.