This is a social occasion, and leaders should also socialize. If you, as an aide to the leader, completely refuse, it is impossible. If it's just a general party or dinner, you can refuse it completely. However, after refusing, we can't drink any more. We should stay away from alcohol and only drink drinks or boiled water on the wine table. When someone makes a toast to you, you must never drink it. It can be said that she is allergic to alcohol, and if she is a woman, she is pregnant. As long as you don't drink, never drink, and keep your word, others will believe you, and you can give up drinking completely.

It's normal to persuade each other on the wine table. Don't persuade others if you don't drink it yourself.

You can find many reasons not to drink, and you are about to drive. For special reasons, the driver can't be found. Because of something, you have to drive back, and others generally won't embarrass you.

If you drink, you'd better have an acquaintance to speak for yourself. You said you would be allergic if you didn't drink. As long as the acquaintances around you prove themselves, talk about your ugly behavior after drinking, such as losing your temper after drinking, even hitting people, throwing up everywhere, or looking ugly.

What I fear most is that the leader gives himself a toast. If you really can't get rid of it, you can have a drink. When the leader is away, spit the wine on the ground and don't swallow it. Like cigarettes, alcohol is addictive, with a smile on your face. Thank you for your toast. Both male and female colleagues should learn to refuse the toast of the leader artistically. Don't be afraid to offend the leader, as long as the reason is sufficient, the leader will never embarrass you.

What I am most afraid of is that some colleagues, especially those who like to play pranks and show off, must buy you a drink, or they will be sorry for their brothers and friends. Don't take his words seriously. Most of the words on the wine table are lies. Don't take it seriously Use water or drinks instead of wine at most, and you can politely refuse. Don't be afraid to offend anyone. The wine table is just a form, and the real kung fu is reflected in your work.