Ward is sleepy.
Because there are three boys in the family, the old people in the family especially want a girl. I can't ask, so I have to dress up Xinyue as a girl, put on fancy clothes and shoes, and tie a braid for him. From then on, he had another nickname, "Two Girls". Xinyue still remembers going to the store on Qianmen Street when he was a child, and the guys in the store would call him "Hey, two girls are coming!" " "
Xinyue is 72 years old and comes from Beijing. When I was a child, his home was across the street from Qianmen Street, which was very prosperous. Xinyue comes from a traditional big family, including grandparents and mother-in-law.
The Xinyue family has three brothers, and he ranks second. Some people say that in a traditional big family, the eldest is the eldest son and will be loved by everyone, while the youngest will be spoiled, but the second is neither too big nor too small, and no one loves it. The same is true for Xin Yue, and he feels the same way.
Because there are three boys at home, the old man especially wants a girl. I can't ask, so I have to dress up Xinyue as a girl, put on fancy clothes and shoes, and tie a braid for him. From then on, he had another nickname, "Two Girls".
Xinyue's time as a "second girl" is very short. When he was in primary school, the school asked him to be a boy, not to wear fancy clothes and shoes, and to hinge up the pigtails that had been tied for many years. Xinyue remembers that he cried many times when he was twisted into a braid.
However, changing back to a boy's appearance, Xinyue was different from other boys since childhood. He doesn't like all the toys that boys like to play with, such as rolling iron rings, making foreign paintings, holding triangles and playing marbles, and he doesn't play with boys. He knows all the girls' toys, but he doesn't play with girls either.
He said he was introverted and liked to stay at home. At that time, the house at home was bright and dark, with a bright living room in the middle and bedrooms on both sides. When a guest comes to his house and asks where the "Second Girl" is, the family will point to the bedroom and say, "He is lying on the kang!" What are you doing on the kang? Xinyue said that he likes to fiddle with sewing and mending thread grates, and now he can still do so. At that time, he was like a girl in a boudoir at home, with the front door closed and the second door closed.
At school, he is also different from other students. He never goes out to play with his classmates after class. He just sits in his seat and doesn't even go to the toilet. With the growth of age, Xin Yue stepped into the society. At that time, he couldn't think about his different thoughts and behaviors, so he had to go with the flow and get married when he was old enough to get married.
When the unit organized a literary propaganda team, Xinyue was good at playing the Hu Qin, while her colleague Lengrui had a voice of "Yun Zheyue" and could play Li Nainai in The Red Lantern. Both of them joined the propaganda team.
After being set up by a colleague who plays Li Tiemei, they are talking about love. But at that time, love was serious, let alone kissing. Little finger at most, I picked it up together at work.
After two or three years of love, 1970 got married. At this time, Xinyue was 25 years old and Lengrui was 23 years old, which was considered as a late marriage at that time. Three years after their marriage, they had an only child, and they gave birth late. Life goes on quietly like this. In 2000, both husband and wife retired and prepared to enjoy their old age. In the next ten years, the couple traveled all over the country like many retirees.
In the new century, computer networks are becoming more and more developed. After retirement, Xinyue also bought a computer and learned to surf the Internet. Later, with the popularity of smart phones, he began to use mobile phones to surf the Internet. It is the Internet that has opened the long-closed inner world of Xinyue. He likes to visit various post bars, such as places where netizens with similar ideas and voices gather. He had thousands of friends in a post bar, and when he was in a bar, he discovered that he was not the only one with similar ideas-he had the urge to be a woman, and this idea became stronger and stronger.
At first, according to the practice of netizens in the post bar, Xinyue bought some hormone drugs to eat, how to eat them, how to feel after eating them, and began to try it herself. After eating, he felt that his blood vessels were very painful, his veins seemed to be blocked by something, and his liver, kidneys and other parts were not very comfortable.
He did all this behind his wife's back. It was not until later that he decided to have sex-change surgery that Leng Rui understood.
Leng Rui laughed and laughed at his wife's thoughts for the first time, which was more shocking and even doubted whether his wife was "mentally ill". So, she took her wife to the hospital to see a psychiatrist, but the psychiatrist could not solve her problem. Once my wife came out of the hospital and cried, saying that she "didn't want to live and let the car kill her."
Xinyue has a clear idea, but she can't get his wife's understanding. At first, she was also in a panic, and her heart was always uncomfortable. Every night when she comes home, she will hang out at 10. She always feels that if she doesn't do what she wants, it won't be good, and she feels like she has depression.
Seeing that the lover is so uncomfortable, Leng Rui can't help it. Finally, she decided to support his wife's happy idea and help him with the operation.
After completing orchiectomy, Xin Yue took estrogen for two years. In order to prevent the lesion from affecting the prostate, the hospital performed orchiectomy on Xinyue from June 2065438 to June 2005. Before the operation, the doctor told him, "You can think about it, and you can't recover after it." After the operation, Xinyue felt that people were "relaxed for dozens of pounds" and their mood became better.
June+10 this year, after nearly two years of stability, Xinyue's heart was disturbed by new ideas-he wanted to have a thorough operation and become a real woman. Under the contact of the doctor who operated on him that year, Xinyue and Lengrui came to Huizhou.
While waiting for the operation, Huang Qiuping accompanied Xinyue to a hospital in Shenzhen for a necessary preoperative psychological examination years ago. At that time, the doctor took out more than 1000 questions in the computer for Xin Yue to answer. The answer is yes or no, it is a trivial matter. Some questions were repeatedly asked, but Xin Yue was always sober and finally got a high score of more than 90 points. The doctor's final conclusion is that Xin Yue's psychological evaluation is normal and she can have sex-change surgery.
On February 13, the day before Valentine's Day, Southern Reporter first met Xin Yue and Leng Rui in this hospital in Huizhou. 70-year-old Leng Rui has gray hair. Comparatively speaking, Xin Yue, who is two years older than him, looks younger. She looks only in her fifties. Her face is very white and her eyebrows have just been trimmed in the hospital, which makes her look even more delicate.
They have been in Huizhou for a whole month. Starting from 65438+ 10 month 10, they contacted the doctor. On June 65438+1October 12, they couldn't wait to go south to Huizhou, just in time for the Spring Festival. They stayed with the doctor in the hospital for a year. In addition to making necessary inspections, accompanied by Huang Qiuping, director of the Plastic Surgery Center, they went to the West Lake in Huizhou to see lanterns, and also went to the seaside in xunliao bay, Huidong. "The air in Huizhou is good, and there is no smog in Beijing," Leng Rui said.
However, there is no heating in Huizhou's room. Xinyue sat on the sofa with a thermos bottle in her hand, and Lengrui covered her leg with a thin blanket. "I'm not used to eating. We like pasta, and we always make pancakes at home, "said Xin Yue. Cold-baked pancakes are delicious.
The relationship between Xin Yue and Leng Rui is very good, and the doctors can see it. Because of taking hormones, the happy stomach is not very good. When he is not feeling well, Leng Rui always massages his abdomen for hours. At noon, when Beware Yue slept in the afternoon, Leng Rui stroked his arm with his hand and cared for it. Usually when it comes to sad things, if the heart is happy to wipe tears, Leng Rui will definitely wipe tears at the same time. Similarly, Leng Rui shed tears, and Xin Yue will certainly cry with her.
While waiting for the operation, Huang Qiuping accompanied Xinyue to Shenzhen Kangning Hospital for necessary preoperative psychological examination years ago. At that time, the doctor took out more than 1000 questions in the computer for Xin Yue to answer. The answer is yes or no, it is a trivial matter. Some questions were repeatedly asked, but Xin Yue was always sober and finally got a high score of more than 90 points. The doctor's final conclusion is that Xin Yue's psychological evaluation is normal and she can have sex-change surgery.
Xinyue also knows that in India, people like him are called "Hajilas". Before the operation, he said that he would buy more women's clothes in the future, but now, he intends to change from the inside, not the appearance.