1. It's natural to pay back debts, but it's really irrational to do something unnatural because you don't want to pay. On New Year's Eve, when everyone was preparing to spend the New Year at home, a man surnamed Liu asked a family for debts. He said that 6,000 yuan is more than enough, because at the current living standard, almost every family can pay 6,000 yuan, and some urban workers may earn more than 6,000 yuan a month. But because of this money, a family of six lost their lives.
This family includes two old people in their fifties, a son and daughter-in-law in their prime, and a pair of grandchildren. The youngest child is only four years old. Unfortunately, he didn't see the richness of the world clearly, and he lost his life because of the debt problem of his elders.
Nowadays, people may be psychologically very fragile because of various pressures of life. In addition, there may be some verbal friction when you ask for the bill. At that time, they were angry and made irrational things on impulse. According to news reports, at that time, five people in a family of six lost their vital signs, and the sixth person was sent to the hospital for rescue and died, which was very regrettable. I feel that it is not worth losing six lives because of 6000 yuan, and life should not be so cheap.
Second, the man surnamed Liu committed suicide on the same day after causing great losses to the other family. I believe that this person is also very regretful and afraid after making such fierce behavior. He committed suicide on the same day, and lost seven lives because of 6000 yuan, which is amazing.
What is the reason why this man surnamed Liu is so impulsive?
What is the reason why a family of six can't return the other party 6000 yuan?
Now that the two sides are dead, the world can only guess more, perhaps deliberately not paying back, or perhaps the words when asking for the bill are too fierce, causing verbal friction and mutual resentment between the two sides, which eventually leads to this result. Imagine that the family of this man surnamed Liu must have been uneasy in this life, and his heart will be shackled.
His family and children will certainly be criticized by the villagers. If there are underage children, I believe that the future marriage will be blocked by this matter, and no one will want to marry a murderer's child. People will think that there is violence in his family and worry that it will spread to their own families. Although there is no factual evidence, as ordinary people, most people always have such concerns.
Third, this man named Liu ruined each other's family and ruined himself and his family. Nowadays, many families put their children's cultural knowledge education in the first place, because it involves future exams and further studies. However, with the increasing emphasis on education, students' learning pressure is increasing. Even friends around me have seen in the news that children are depressed because of the embarrassment and burden of learning. On the one hand, it may be really stressful to study, on the other hand, it is because of inner fragility and depression because I don't know how to relieve my emotions.
The importance of emotional management makes us more aware that the education of children should not only learn knowledge and culture, but also teach them how to deal with their emotions. Reminiscent of Linyi, this man, it is precisely because of emotional management problems that he made such irrational behavior when he was angry, which caused both sides to be hit hard.
As parents, seeing such social events, we should also reflect on ourselves. Attention should also be paid to the emotional management of children. If we have something on our mind, we should help the children get rid of it in time. When children's emotions are out of control, we should also accompany them to tide over the difficulties, so that they can learn to be strong and learn to handle things in a reasonable and correct way, rather than violently resisting.
Written at the end: seven vivid lives have disappeared, which makes people feel more sad than sorry. After all, they are all young adults, even children, and their lives should not end because of 6000 yuan.