Author: Zhou Yao
The ancients said:? The house is rich, virtuous, broad-minded and fat. ? A good mood can strengthen the body and prolong life, and people need to broaden their mood.
Emotion is a person's emotional state, characterized by anxiety, depression, calmness and pleasure, which varies from person to person. Being moody, changeable and unstable is not conducive to self-cultivation. Some people in life feel that the sun is shining when things are smooth, but when they are frustrated, they feel stagnant, disheartened and waste their lives. On the other hand, some people rejoice when the spring breeze is proud, face difficulties and bumps, overcome themselves, open their minds and face life with a smile.
Believe it? Every man for himself, and the devil takes the hindmost? People are certainly not enlightened. This kind of people are dissatisfied with everything, full of complaints, too fat to eat meat, too crowded to get into the car, trying their best to collect money, with low interest, narrow-minded, greedy for fame, corrupt, cunning, deceiving others, caring about self-interest, jealous of others, and finally suffering from mental depression and mental torture.
Open-minded people behave gracefully. Tolerance, generosity, frankness, warm and polite manners and elegant and noble qualities are the common sense that sages taught people to be human. Manners are related to the success or failure of things. Elegant manners will bear the fruits of success, and rude language and bad manners will be full of obstacles. Open-minded, elegant, from kindness, noble personality. They will not neglect humble people, flatter powerful people, tolerate people with different opinions and live in peace with jealous people. I always respect other people's ideas in my life, never insist on uniformity, try my best to control my emotions, listen to other people's opinions with an open mind, not make harsh comments easily, be tolerant, be polite to people, have noble feelings and excellent quality. Happiness depends on an open mind, optimistic personality, modesty, friendliness and elegant manners.
Zheng Banqiao and Yuan Mei were both great writers in Qing Dynasty, and they were both brilliant. What's in Zheng Banqiao's poem To Yuan Mei? I'm not poor if you have a wizard. A beautiful sentence. It is not uncommon for ancient literati to despise each other. Zheng Banqiao not only didn't envy Yuan Mei's knowledge, but also put his? Wizards regard themselves as role models and wealth. This kind of openness and tolerance is admirable.
Read about it in a book? Hehe, Erxian? When you ask and answer, you can't help feeling suddenly enlightened. ? Hehe, Erxian? That is, Hanshan picked it up. A holy monk in the Tang Dynasty, with a high poem title, was respected for his merits. Hanshan asked me to answer it before: Some people in the world slander me, bully me, humiliate me, laugh at me, despise me, be mean to me, hate me and cheat me. What should I do? Answer: just put up with him, let him go, avoid him, be patient with him, respect him, ignore him, stay a few years and meet him. ? Although the language is humorous, it is meaningful. The key is to be open-minded, sincere and tolerant. No matter how deep and thick the misunderstanding is, it will melt away with time.
Open your mind, calm down, calm down to cultivate one's morality, and calm down to be healthy. Faced with unpredictable changes and tangible and intangible pressures, people are easily upset and distracted; Anxious to get angry, at a loss; Non-stop, exhausted; Put all your eggs in one basket, the larger the foe; Go with the flow and muddle along. There are also superficial scenery, inner hesitation, immature appearance, vicissitudes of life, hard-won achievements and frequent depression. What is more important is to broaden your mind, calm down, calm down, treat everything calmly, not compare with others, not be jealous, not show off, not feel inferior, not arrogant, in order to forget fame and fortune, forget resentment, pay attention to life, and be healthy physically and mentally.
Lu you said:? Always wash away the thoughts of the world, there is no bright moon on the balcony. ? The road of life is not straight, people will inevitably encounter troubles, setbacks and misfortunes, but we should pay attention to adjusting our mentality, try not to be influenced by the outside world, and always maintain a calm and open-minded psychological state. Get rid of vulgar tastes, selfish distractions and live an aboveboard life, and your mind will be open and your life will be happy.
Selected Essays with Tea Fragrance: Life without Obstacles.
That year, my heart seemed to be crushed and torn by the heavy wheels when the train started, and I came to this young city. At that time I began to realize that my childhood was coming to an end. Because when I set foot on the society, it means that I am an adult, and I have to face and accept everything faced by the social environment independently. Along the way, this bumpy life, where will you go, let me get in touch with more life journeys. Life is a beautiful scenery of life, and I have the honor to pick it all the way. Today, my heart is broken and my face is full of tears, but I no longer have that kind of heartbreaking cry. I know this is the law of nature, the necessity of life and unacceptable.
I have been in Pengcheng for 12 years. Yesterday at noon, I passed Ma Jialong, where I often go. At that time, many past events came to mind, and life was ups and downs, and things were unpredictable. Only human nature still exists, living and communicating are mostly for the benefit, and life meets for the benefit.
I remember those days when three friends and four friends were like a boat. Today, I am ashamed to say that I know the ugliness of human nature, and I am only deeply pregnant with one or two people. You don't know friendship until you die all your life, and you don't know friendship until you are poor and rich.
Today, it carries half-life rings, but it lingers on the path. After repeated consideration, there is still plenty of time in spring and autumn, so it is not appropriate to rush into it. The sky is divided into four seasons, the sun and the moon have morning and evening, the melody is divided into high and low, and the bowstring has Zhang Chi. Is anybody there? A gentleman is calm without thinking, calm without worrying.
The cross-flow of the sea shows the true colors of men. The truth of the life I experienced, as always, until the dusk of my life, I don't regret what I did today.
Today, between people, affection or friendship or emotion, no one will feel guilty for anyone. Guilt comes from discovering your inner conscience. When there is inexplicable melancholy, the heart is unreal, and anxiety becomes complicated with the mutual speculation between life.
It is true that one person can control another person's heart. A person's life is a strategic test, and all spaces have limits. A person's life is full of invisible hidden dangers, and sudden and accidental events sometimes make people hard to prevent. The plan can't keep up with the change, and it will be chaotic as soon as it changes. In this process, you should keep a clear head and not ruin yourself because of a temporary impulse and anger. It is completely unnecessary to be an unworthy person, that is to say, no one in the world deserves you, and the most worthy person is yourself. Imagine, if you don't know how to cherish yourself, how can you be worthy of others?
Today, you can't change anything, you can change a mood. Love life has gone far, but it is so deep. It seems that people, no matter how high their knowledge and ambition are, also have an inextricable knot. Yes, when emotions are crying and there is no turning back, you can only get what you want. There is a saying that if you send a gentleman to Yangguan Road, you will take another Yangguan Road. You can't stay in life, wave and smile.
I have been idle for many days and have some ideas. Assess the situation and make decisive changes. Let's not talk about those years now. Cruel facts and reality push life to the last stage step by step. You have no choice but to work hard and rewrite the footprint of life.
Today, life doesn't care about gains and losses, and we can't weigh anything. From now on, we must turn the tables. Regardless of the hero, success or failure is crucial. What this process needs is a state of mind, telling yourself more and showing yourself.
The conversation between people seems to be a very simple thing, nothing more than a casual or hidden conversation, which can make a person learn many directions to enrich his life. Perhaps this is the real life.
What to do, towards this decision. How to do it depends on the length of the time pendulum.
Today, life is so beautiful. There are no obstacles in life, only those that can't get through.
A person's endurance is actually far beyond our imagination. Strive to extend your potential and life to the extreme of life.
Life, others can do it, and I can go.
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