It's been six years, 0 1. She's gorgeous.
I met Su Xin seven years ago. At that time, she opened a health pavilion next to my community. I wash my hair and press my back occasionally. For a long time, we have become nodding acquaintances on the sidewalk.
At that time, she wore a long ponytail. Although I opened a health pavilion, my face was a little yellow and I wore loose clothes, so I couldn't see any figure. She told me that she had a three-year-old daughter and a one-year-old son.
A year later, she said that she would go to her husband's toy store to work, continue to run the health pavilion herself, and hire two beauticians to do it.
So after that, I never saw Su Xin again. There are two young beauticians in her health center.
I still like to go to her health center to wash my hair, press my back and do facial care, but I never saw her again. .......
Yesterday, I went for plastic surgery again. As soon as I entered the door, I saw a beautiful and elegant middle-aged lady sitting in the health care center.
Seeing me go in, she smiled and said, "Yes, long time no see."
I'm a little surprised: do I know her? It seems that I have never seen her in my mind. How did she say it's been a long time?
Seeing my blank face, she brought me a glass of water and smiled: "I'm Su Xin, the boss here, remember?"
Oh, my God, is she innocent? I haven't seen her for six years. She looks younger than six years ago. The yellow and dim face six years ago is now white and red, and there is no lack of elasticity. The back slightly arched six years ago is now straight, and the whole body above high heels is wrapped in exquisite long skirts; Six years ago, those gloomy and sad eyes are shining now; Six years ago, my voice was weak and resentful, but now it is crisp and confident. ......
I thought to myself: She has changed a lot in these six years. What has she experienced to make a mother with two children so elegant and beautiful? ......
"You are so beautiful. You have changed so much that I don't recognize you. " I smiled.
"In recent years, I opened three hospitals in Beijing and never came back. I came back this time to transfer the two health centers here. " There is still a smile on her face, a confident and warm smile.
"How did you get to Beijing?" I'm a little surprised.
"I got divorced and went to Beijing." When she talked about divorce, there was no sadness or nostalgia, just like talking about other people's affairs.
She made a face for me and told me about her years as she did it. .......
She worked hard and took good care of her baby, in exchange for her husband's infidelity.
Su Xin told me the story of her marriage.
That year, my daughter was three years old and my son was one year old. When she came home from the health center to help her two children sleep, and was ready to clean up the room, she received a photo of her husband and another daughter lying in bed on QQ. ......
Behind it is a provocative and ostentatious line: Your husband is with me now, and he doesn't love you for a long time. I advise you to divorce early.
At that moment, she felt her blood washed up on her head and her whole body was hollowed out. She stumbled on the sofa. ......
That night, her husband stayed up all night, and neither did she. .......
The next day, her husband went home to change clothes. She showed him the photos and words sent by her daughter and asked him what was going on.
My husband was shocked to see the pictures and words. Maybe he himself was surprised how this woman got her wife's QQ. When was the photo taken? ......
"I was drunk at dinner last night, and I didn't know what happened until this morning." My husband's eyes are blurred and he dare not look directly at her.
She forgave her husband against her will, saying that the matter was over and would not be mentioned again. I hope her husband won't do this again.
The husband said, "Good!"
However, from that day on, they were never close again. My husband goes on a business trip every ten and a half days, and every business trip lasts at least three days.
During the period, the woman who sent the photos defiantly sent photos of herself and her husband from time to time. ......
She deleted it every time she finished reading it. After crying alone, she dried her tears, went on working and took care of the children's housework.
Three months later, she decided to work in her husband's toy store. She wants to be closer to her husband to save the family.
My husband pays her 5000 yuan every month. She is an employee and he is the boss.
In addition, her husband no longer takes money from home, because she has a health center and income, and she pays her own salary, so she has money.
Once, her mother was ill and went back to her hometown for half a month. As a result, her husband only gave her 2500 that month. Sounds good, but her heart is starting to hurt. He really only treats her as a shop assistant. ......
Once my husband was going on a business trip. Before leaving, he said to his mother-in-law, "Take good care of the money, don't let her take it ..." When she heard her husband's words, her heart was completely cold ... In her husband's eyes, he was already an outsider.
The days of disharmony between face and heart, the provocation and insult of the third party, and the mother-in-law's indifference and no objection to her son's affair made her completely give up any hope for this marriage. ......
So she filed for divorce, and her husband readily agreed.
Since the house is the husband's pre-marital property and the car is the husband's name, all the marital property was transferred to a third party at the moment when the husband heard of his divorce. .......
The divorce procedure was quickly completed. She has only two children and nothing else. Fortunately, she also has her own health center. ......
After the divorce, she took two children to rent a two-bedroom apartment near the children's kindergarten, and started a fitness club in partnership with friends near the kindergarten. From then on, she began to be herself, and began to work, study, maintain health, beauty and fitness. .......
Three years ago, I went to Beijing to study, participated in the study of a female entrepreneurial story, and saw the market of medical care in Beijing. So I took my two children to the north, opened three health centers in Beijing within three years, and went to a university to study EMBA.
Originally graduated, she worked nine to five in a company. After marriage, she started a fitness club to take care of her children. I didn't expect my career to be good now. ......
Only by being worthy of yourself can we be worthy of life.
"You know what? Now the successful men chasing me line up ... "There is confidence and hope in her smile.
"Congratulations." Seeing her change now, I am really happy for her.
"Although I am divorced, I have always believed in love. In marriage, women must not wronged themselves. The more wronged you are, the more wronged your husband is, and the more wronged your family is. Women must be good to themselves first. " When she said these words, there was no resentment or cynicism in her eyes, only indifference and sentiment after her experience.
She said that she could never understand why her husband was so hardworking, loved his family, loved his children and was good-looking, but cheated on a fat woman who wore heavy makeup and colorful clothes all day. A year after the divorce, she understood, because those women who are willing to spend time and energy to dress up themselves love life very much. She didn't lose to that fat woman, she just lost to not being good enough for herself and not loving life enough.
She gave all her love to her children, her husband and her family before, but not to herself. So she became a "yellow-faced woman" in her husband's eyes who only works but does not live. ......
"I'm getting married again. He is an executive of a listed company, five years younger than me. " She is a little shy and afraid to show me her happiness. When it comes to her new boyfriend, her face is a little shy. From that girl's shy face, I know that she has found true love. .......
Since the divorce, her ex-husband has never paid alimony, which is the condition for her to win custody of her two children. From the day she went to Beijing, her ex-husband never went to see the two children again. The ex-husband thought she would come back to beg him regardless of everything, but he was disappointed. ......
This time she came back and met her ex-husband and a third party at a friend's dinner. The ex-husband is old and decadent, the third party is fatter than before, and her face is full of anxiety and fatigue. She appears in front of them like a goddess. .......
The ex-husband and the third party were surprised at the moment they saw her, and she was also surprised. After a few years, her ex-husband is much older and her hair is half white. The thick powder on the third person's face can't hide her deep wrinkles and loose skin, and her face is full of disappointment. .......
Afterwards, a friend told her that her ex-husband regretted her divorce for more than a year. Business has been bad in recent years, and the toy store has closed. He and that woman have another daughter, and they quarrel every day. ........
After the divorce, she was not only able to support two children independently, but also studied EMBA in Beijing and opened three fitness clubs. Now she is going to marry an executive of a listed company. My daughter is very good at learning and versatile, and my son won the prize in the national logical thinking competition. ......
Sunshine is always after the storm, please believe there is a rainbow! Love yourself, love life, believe in love, life is not easy, the sky that needs women's support is getting bigger and bigger, and the requirements of society and life for women are getting higher and higher. These are all based on: women should love themselves first and live well first. Only by being yourself can you achieve others better.