These unscrupulous businessmen cheat the elderly under the banner of free. Because you said to pay, some old people spend their whole lives managing their homes diligently, subconsciously tightening their pockets. It's no use asking for money I said it's free. Sometimes old people feel that they don't need money anyway, so just try it.
Let's talk about the first one, free lecture. For example, several people in white coats go to a community, go door-to-door or in a social activity room to tell everyone about health knowledge, how to live longer, and how to treat chronic diseases, such as diabetes and cerebral thrombosis. It's hype anyway. These old people want to give lectures for free. Just listen to what he has to say. This man began to fool and brainwash.
Now there are many such health experts who specialize in fooling the elderly. This free lecture lasted for a long time. What is his final purpose? He sells medicine to you. I have a medicine here and brought it to you today. This is the ex-factory price. We just made this medicine, which is convenient for every elderly person; We'll give you a 50% discount, five for ten, and how much for twenty. Bluff. In front of him, brainwashing the elderly through lectures and imparting so-called health care knowledge, often with some bizarre theories. Some old people have no health care knowledge and are closed to the outside world. He couldn't get more information, and he was fooled in a daze. What is superstition? I just believe it in a daze. He trusted the health care expert and bought some medicine from him. When I started talking about free lectures, I was actually selling drugs to you.
There is also a second type, free physical examination. There is also a man in a white coat in every community. Don't think that they didn't prepare in advance. He has thoroughly studied your neighbor. Which old people have money, which children are not around, how many old people there are in the community, and sometimes even hire an old man as a trustee to publicize that I have a lot of this disease, as long as I eat that one, everything will be fine. Then several people in white coats gave the elderly in the community a free physical examination, free of charge. Under the banner of neighborhood committees, "send warm" or something, said that he was a quarantine station, and used various names to bring the old man and the old lady together. Take a look at the free physical examination first, and then refuel. During the physical examination, he threatened you: Oh, you have never had this disease before. I'm telling you, there is a possibility of cerebral thrombosis, and a stroke will pass. You scare him first, then buy his things.
These two are still the first way to fool people. Some advanced ways to cheat the elderly, the first is called free travel, which is also a community organization, and several people in white coats come; I don't know. I thought we were all on the same team. Why do you want to organize the elderly together? Get you a bus and let's travel to the nearby mountains for free, saying it's an activity organized by the community. Is it organized by a club? Sometimes, it is organized by this neighborhood Committee. Why? Merchants found the neighborhood Committee and said that we let the elderly play for free to ensure their safety and avoid eating and living. The neighborhood Committee thought about it, and it happened that all these old people were fine here. Let's have an activity. People don't want money yet, so why not? Okay, where did he take you? It is often a place with mountains and water in the suburbs. For example, here, there is a honey factory, a protein powder factory and a health food factory. When you come to this place, you can even travel. You can stay here for one night, stay in a small hotel in the factory, or entertain you for dinner and then surround you. Actually, I want you to buy his nutrition. Some people say that it is not over to cover your pockets. That's not there. You have no idea how gullible these people are. For example, if there are more old ladies, he will send a few boys. There are many old men, so send some little girls. Wandering back and forth, opening your mouth, a grandfather, grandmother, uncle and aunt, so sweet! He lied to you that uncles, aunts, grandparents all want to buy this health care product. Why? Think about how hard you worked and how much you contributed to your country when you were young. When you get old, you have to worry about your children. Now that you are retired, you should consider yourself. This thing is not expensive. How good is it to buy it and prolong life? This is particularly good, and it hit the old man's idea at once. Yes, I owe myself too much in my life! It can be said that our parents really suffered a lot in the past, and it was not good to catch up with the national economic situation; In recent years, the economic situation is good and the conditions are good. Just think of me and don't lose yourself. One more thing, many old people say that I am better and many people are sick? You said it was a disease, it was expensive to see a doctor, and the children had to come back to take care of me. I keep myself healthy, isn't it also reducing the burden for others? Spend less money. When a person is bluffing, he may be deceived by this.
This is a free tour, and there are many ways to harm people. Sometimes, these little girls and boys just tell the truth: Auntie, I have no achievements this month. Look, you can buy two boxes. Many people think that the children who serve me before and after will make my bed and pinch my feet at night, and so will my sons and daughters, some of whom are not as good as them; It's pathetic. Just graduated, haven't found a job, need to achieve something. Well, it's not fake anyway! Buy some, be kind!
So this tour is said to be free, but it often costs thousands of dollars, so it is useless to buy a bunch.
One of the most hateful things is the free experience. This fool is too cruel. Because it cheated you out of money. Not at all. For example, someone inexplicably has a physical therapy bed at home. When asked about the price, it is generally more than 10,000, 20,000 or even 30,000. Is it useful? It's basically useless. What does it say to hold this gem or something? You go to the Institute of Physics for testing. Stones are not good for human health, and lying down is not bad.
Are some rich people willing to buy these physiotherapy beds? Not exactly. Many of our elderly people have a small monthly pension, only one or two thousand dollars, or even hundreds of dollars, and are willing to pay for this physiotherapy bed; If you have no money, force your child to buy it. What happened? It's especially difficult to fool people. For example, people who sell physiotherapy beds say, "Come, come, come in, and experience for free." Speaking of free, old people lie down. Almost all salespeople at this time are like this. They don't call their uncles and aunts. They just called their parents, rubbed their shoulders, served tea and poured water, and they were very attentive and attentive. When you go home, people know your phone number and call you: "Are you okay? It's cold today, so put on more clothes. " Some elderly people can't help but fool: this person is really good to me. He continued to brainwash you. How come? For example, if you are lying on a physical therapy bed, "Is Grandpa better today? Don't you have a backache? " ? Is it much more comfortable? "That's your waist. After a while, you will definitely feel much more comfortable than usual. Another one, if he presses it for a long time, which part of you is hot, you will feel better.
He always asks you this question. If you ask a long question, one day you will answer: better than before. Then he began to strengthen your consciousness, for example, he made up a jingle for you. We know that there is a kind of health care bed called "Xilaijian", which has fooled many people. Some people call it "rotten cheap", but it is not "cheap" at all, and the prices are all above 10 thousand yuan. He fooled you: "Come on, read it to me. I will see you every day and miss you if I can't see you. " The old man followed "See you every day with Xilaijian". What does this process do? Just like pyramid schemes, it keeps brainwashing you.
In the long run, you get to know the shop assistant, and watch him celebrate more than his own children, so as to promote this health care for you. Lying in bed, let him fool: "Ah, I feel much better." After a long time, I took out the money in my pocket and bought the bed back. Therefore, the free experience is very cheat people, which not only swindles the old people's money, but also destroys the feelings between the old people and their children. Many old people can't afford this bed, so they let their children pay for it. Some children are knowledgeable outside and say it's a lie. Old people don't believe it! On the contrary, you, a child, are not filial and don't want to spend this money on me. You are so stingy! Often the feelings of both sides are still stiff.
Why is this happening? We all need to understand the mentality of some elderly people. Note that such an old man has two characteristics: first, his elders don't need his care, and they don't have grandchildren, so they are relatively idle; Second, his children don't live with him and he feels lonely. After retirement, he has no sense of identity. So he went to this physiotherapy shop to help people sell, and people waited on him, shouting "Mom and Dad". He found that feeling.
It's the feeling of being cared for and valued.
He even took this physiotherapy bed as a career, but is he stupid? He is not stupid. Many old people understand that there are ways to deceive people here. But think about it: I think you lied to me, but you created this atmosphere for me, which made me very comfortable and satisfied my psychological needs.
So why can these old people believe this thing from the beginning? Our radio, television and other media have played a role in fueling the flames to a certain extent, but also played a very bad role. We used to turn on the TV, and many TV stations were broadcasting it. This health care product and this medicine have worked. Now many young people know at a glance that hype and deception are behind it.
But some old people don't think so. Why?
In their time, TV represented government agencies, and what was said on TV was what the government said. So many old people think, can TV still deceive us? Television is the spokesman of the government. How can TV lie? So when he said it on TV, he believed it.
In the last two years, the government has caught this matter. Now we see that many people have stopped selling medicines, and instead hold a health expert first, and then sell medicines and equipment through his mouth. Besides, I switched to the platform and started broadcasting on TV. Now turn on the radio and listen. An expert's voice is loud, euphemistic and sweet. I tell you: Old people must pay attention to their health. It is not good to take medicine every day. Drugs have side effects. Some old people have been taken in. People talk nonsense, and then the nurse called the radio station and said that it would be fine to eat two pairs. What shall we do? You have another session. Finally, the old people were tricked into buying this thing. In fact, you don't know that these projects are all one, and they are all childcare. I have worked in radio stations and know how they work in this process. These people who make phone calls there are all nurses. When to call in, how to say it, and how much to pay ... there is a precise division of labor.
What should be done to prevent the elderly from being deceived by these unscrupulous businesses?
First of all, as children, each of us should care more about our parents, let them feel the warmth of life, and don't let them be too idle all day. If people are too idle, there will be problems. More or less let the elderly have an activity and something to do. Sometimes, if you take your children with you every once in a while and let them accompany the elderly, this loneliness in his life can be greatly alleviated. Just don't let the old man be too lonely. Loneliness can easily lead to information occlusion and credulity.
Secondly, China's current pension model should gradually transition from children's pension to community pension. For example, sending them to a nursing home seems to feel that the old man has gone to another world. But in the community, he will feel very cordial if he does not leave his original living environment. The advantage of providing for the aged in the community is to organize the elderly like a big family. The community is responsible for instilling some new information into the elderly, preventing them from being deceived and making them independent individuals. The liar comes, without a certain amount of information and the help of friends, it is easy to be deceived.
From the reality of China, community pension is a necessary measure. At present, our pension system is not good enough. The elderly become empty nesters, live an isolated life, and are eager for family ties, which will give scammers so many opportunities.
So how to convince the elderly that some health care products are deceptive?
It is not only a topic of health preservation, but also a topic of providing for the aged. In addition, I also remind my friends to pay more attention to their old people and not to blame their old people and parents blindly.
I've talked about Zhang Wuben before. What does this actually reflect? Now that family conditions are good, the elderly pay more attention to health care. The market demand in this field is too great. Nowadays, many elderly people have huge health needs, and the medical care market is chaotic, so the elderly often become victims of medical care confusion. Now some bad businesses are mainly for the elderly. I once talked to a man who sold fake drugs-he was later punished-and he told me that it is difficult to take a penny out of the old man's pocket now. They are reluctant to eat and drink, and they are not as afraid of spending money as young people! But selling fake drugs can cheat them out of their money. Why? You are afraid of death, so you want to buy it.
Don't think I am alarmist. It is hard for some elderly people not to be deceived because of information occlusion. Think about the old people at home, such as parents or relatives. How many people haven't bought any health shoes, health pillows and physical therapy beds? What kind of health food is this? What kind of medicine is that? What kind of capsule is that? How many elderly people have not been exposed to relevant sales promotion? Maybe these deceived things I said are also happening to the old people around me.
Nevertheless, we say that parents and children are harmonious and beautiful. If we really want to be filial to the elderly, we should consider his spiritual world as well as his material enjoyment. Only in this way can you fundamentally solve the problem you asked.