To put it simply, I think a person's temperament refers to the external expression of a person's inner self-cultivation or self-cultivation. Temperament is an unconscious exposure of the heart, not just superficial kung fu. If there is no ink mark on the chest and it is used in gorgeous clothes decoration, this person has no temperament at all, but will give others a superficial feeling. Therefore, if you want to improve your temperament and achieve outstanding temperament, you must not only dress appropriately and speak appropriately, but also constantly improve your knowledge.
1. A person's temperament is the sum of internal cultivation, external behavior, speech ~ ~ ~ attitude towards people, etc. Elegant and natural temperament will give people a comfortable, friendly and easy-going feeling ~ ~
Temperament is not learned, but cultivated. As a woman, I can't say too much, but I should know everything. You should study more and read more books at ordinary times. (Not reading eight magazines) Learn to dance or exercise if you have nothing to do. Learn more about communication.
3. Taste determines temperament
4. The so-called "those who are near Mexico are black, and those who are near Zhu Zhechi are black" is very reasonable. You can get close to some people with good temperament and change things unconsciously ~ ~
5. Read more books and think more. Temperament can't be changed in a month or two. It will take a year or two or even longer. Many people finish college, and people who haven't seen her for a long time say that she has changed. In fact, it is cultivated by campus life. It is always good to read more books. One more thing, you can be friends with whoever you want. A friendship between gentlemen is as light as water. After a long time, your temperament will naturally.
6. Reading is the most basic.
Reading less books and practicing more are still boring ~ Besides, reading more books will make your eyes brighter ~ After all, your eyes can't make up ~ Some girls are beautiful, but looking at your eyes is empty ~ Full of sadness ~
7. Do ballet yoga or something. Hepburn's temperament was cultivated by practicing ballet.
8. Have a good living environment and a good attitude. In order to cultivate good temperament.
9. Temperament ... Although makeup can change appearance, temperament still depends on internal cultivation. If temperament is expressed by external things, it is affectation.
10. Different environments will bring up different people since childhood, and a person's experience and knowledge will have a certain impact on his temperament.
1 1. Temperament is also divided into many types, such as publicity, spirituality, charm, and nobleness that is more difficult to achieve. Temperament is basically manifested in dressing, words and deeds, and every move is not out of line. It's hard to master! Some temperament is innate. If you are not born, you can only rely on your own ability to cultivate. First of all, you must know what type you are, and then you must have your own opinions and create a perfect temperament for yourself ~
12. Temperament does have a natural influence and is cultivated by acquired education. However, in the short term, natural factors and educational background cannot be changed. You can try to cultivate self-confidence! A confident person will be beautiful, but he can't lose his modesty! Here is a girl's walking skill, such as holding out her chest and abdomen. Secondly, when she starts practicing, she can put two books that are not thick under her arm to ensure that her upper arm does not swing when she walks, and pay attention to her shoulders (that is indecent). If she practices more, she can take off the book under her arm, put it on her head, and put her arms on the back side of the human body seam (as far as I understand, this will make the lines of her shoulders more beautiful). Don't deliberately leave when she leaves.
13. Who said that temperament is innate and cannot be cultivated? /kloc-Maggie Cheung 0/0 years ago, 10 years later, as jm said above, I should always remind myself that I am the most beautiful and elegant. The most important thing is to have confidence.
14. A woman's temperament beauty is the full expression of her beauty. Temperament beauty will make men ignore appearance and stay beautiful forever.
A girl with a beautiful temperament, even if she is ugly, people will not say that she is ugly at all. The beauty of ignorance lies in appearance, in fact, it is difficult to print the beautiful mark on a man's heart. The former is elegant and the latter is tacky.
A woman who cultivates temperament to make herself beautiful has a higher spiritual realm than a woman who beautifies herself with clothes and dresses. The former makes people live a full life, while the latter makes people carefree. And the most perfect is the combination of the two. Temperament beauty at least includes sincerity and kindness. A hypocritical and vicious woman, it is hard to imagine what she has. Almost all women are eager to attract others in character and appearance. So, how can we cultivate a good temperament? Knowing how to exert your strengths and overcome your weaknesses will greatly increase your charm.
Accept your face.
Everyone has his unique temperament and advantages in personality or appearance. Knowing how to give full play can increase attraction.
Trust and care about others.
Enthusiasm and concern are one of the most attractive qualities. Caring and understanding others will be rewarded in the same way. Others will be moved by this temperament.
Dignified and confident.
A woman with free and easy steps, full of energy and confidence can attract others the most.
Keep a sense of humor
A person who knows how to smile or laugh at the right time and place will be welcomed by others.
Don't be afraid to show your true feelings.
No matter what kind of joys and sorrows, tenderness and sweetness, they should not be hidden. A woman who often suppresses and hides her emotions will be considered indifferent, and no one will like to associate with icebergs.
When you are in trouble, you should ask your friends for help.
Friends will feel their importance because you ask them for help. Not only will they not despise you, but they will become bosom friends and love you more.
Don't haggle over every ounce.
In communication, women should be open-minded and generous, and never be narrow-minded. Don't lose your temper, haggle over every ounce, or even embarrass everyone on many occasions, which will be very annoying.
Don't be conceited.
Women should not think highly of themselves. In social communication, don't show impatience or look down on others because of your different temper and identity. Of course, they can't be too humble because their positions and status are inferior to others, or because they look ordinary and dress poorly. They should be natural and graceful, neither humble nor supercilious.
Don't show off your cleverness
Everyone has his own self-esteem and something to be proud of. Showing off is a sign of lack of education. Of course, women are generally more thoughtful and meticulous than men. If you show your thoughtfulness and carefulness in front of that careless man, he will attach great importance to you. Don't think it's smart, it's a sign of thinking in place and a woman's delicate mind.
Don't ignore the instrument
As a woman, in social occasions, we must pay attention to dignified and tidy appearance. In social activities, proper decoration and dressing are appropriate. Don't be tired and careless.
Do the above points, plus the following points, your temperament will be better cultivated, and naturally your temperament beauty will become more mature.
Read the most beautiful poems;
Listen to the best music;
Choose the most beautiful magazine;
Read the best books.
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Read more good books, and the book is elegant from the inside out.
Learn more manners and so on.
How to be a man with culture and connotation? Read more books, travel more, and talk to people more. Of course, you must learn to distinguish between people. Politeness is the most basic point.
How to be an educated and connotative girl? . Hello, the answer is for reference only!
First, cultivate temperament
1. Stand: stand up straight, hold your head up and abdomen in, don't look up at the sky, don't hold your chest out, and everything should be flat. This is the minimum standing posture, and no matter where and where, as long as you stand, you must keep this form, and over time you will form a habit. If you say no, I can't stand that effect, then go home, put your heels, hips, shoulders and back of your head against the wall, put your hands down vertically, and put your legs in the cage and stand at attention for half an hour, every day. I can't believe you can't stand that effect.
2, sitting, sitting posture must be elegant, the upper body should be straight, the hips only sit one-third of the chair, the legs can be placed on the left or right side in parallel, or one leg can be placed on the other leg, and the legs naturally droop. But don't spread your legs or tilt your legs on the chair. If you are not used to it, take advantage of the rest time to exercise yourself.
3. Go: Use the word "stand" first, hold your head up, chest up and abdomen in, and don't always count your toes. Walking on the road regards the road as your home and your own runway, but it doesn't mean being overbearing. You should walk like everyone else, look around, get out of your own momentum, don't run to the meteor, and don't walk because you are afraid of stepping on the ants on the road. Slow and steady. The rest is the walking posture. You can twist it. The twist of the hips will show the waist posture more, but don't move with the upper body, giving people a sense of levity. Keep your hands vertical and swing back and forth gently, especially in military posture or forehand. Be natural.
4. Another thing to pay attention to in appearance is clothing. It doesn't have to be a famous brand, but it must be suitable for your age, figure and personality. Good clothes are good for others, but they may not suit you.
Now that we have looks, what we need now is self-confidence, self-confidence that we are the most beautiful and excellent. Do not put it on your lips. You must be modest. Smart people are always praising others. Don't advertise yourself online like this. The greater the hope, the greater the disappointment when others see you. Hide it in your heart, radiate it from your heart and show it on your face.
6. Speaking of faces, talk about facial expressions, smile, remember to smile, don't be stupefied, and don't laugh. If you can't smile without grinning, then gently raise your mouth. The most important thing is your eyes. When you listen to others or talk to others, you must look at their faces. Don't look around. I remember a book saying that a woman's eyes are a door to her soul. Make good use of it and show your confidence.
Well, everything is ready, no matter whether you are tall or short, beautiful or ugly, give yourself a little confidence, believe that you are the most individual, show your confidence and add more temperament to yourself.
I almost forgot that the most important thing is that you should have cultivation and connotation. Don't talk about others behind their backs. That man looks very elegant, but he is full of dirty words. Remember, no matter you are a beautiful woman or a person with temperament, don't swear, because that will ruin all your images. Temperament is from the heart, so keep a pure and kind heart.
A woman who cultivates temperament to make herself beautiful has a higher spiritual realm than a woman who beautifies herself with clothes and dresses. So, how can we cultivate a good temperament? Knowing how to exert your strengths and overcome your weaknesses will greatly increase your charm.
First: accept your face, everyone has his unique temperament and personality or appearance advantages. Knowing how to give full play can increase attraction.
Second: Giving others trust and care, enthusiasm and care, is one of the most attractive qualities. Caring and understanding others will be rewarded in the same way. Others will be moved by this temperament.
Third: A woman who is dignified and confident, free and easy-footed, full of energy and full of confidence can attract others the most.
Fourth: keep a sense of humor. A person who knows how to smile or laugh at the right time and place will be welcomed by others.
Fifth: Don't be afraid to show your true feelings. No matter what kind of emotions, feelings and feelings, don't hide them. A woman who often suppresses and hides her emotions will be considered indifferent, and no one will like to associate with icebergs.
Sixth: Don't haggle over every ounce. In communication, women should be open-minded and generous, not petty and petty. Don't lose your temper, haggle over every ounce, or even embarrass everyone on many occasions, which will be very annoying.
Seventh: Don't think too highly of yourself, and neither should women. In social interaction, you shouldn't show impatience or look down on others just because they have different tempers and identities. Of course, you shouldn't be too humble because your position and status are inferior to others, or because you look average, but you should be generous and supercilious.
Eighth: Don't neglect appearance. As a woman, we must pay attention to the dignity and neatness of appearance in social occasions. In social activities, proper decoration and dressing are appropriate. Don't be tired and careless.
Do the above points, plus the following points, your temperament will be better cultivated, and naturally your temperament beauty will become more mature.
Read the most spiritual poems; Listen to the most beautiful music; Be your best self.
To improve their temperament, girls should not only dress appropriately and speak appropriately, but also constantly improve their knowledge and moral cultivation.
1, read more books
2. Practice ballet and yoga more.
3, how close to people with good temperament.
4。 Create a good living environment.
Secondly, I have independent thoughts and understanding of Fengfu.
Although a woman's appearance is very important, it is untenable for a real woman to dress herself up just by her appearance. There must be a convincing temperament in her connotation. Femininity is the supreme charm of women, which is always associated with noble, warm and exquisite temperament. A woman is a gorgeous ornament, an elegant mood, a noble life and a charm that never fades. There is nothing wrong with a woman not being beautiful, but it is her own fault that she has no connotation. If a woman only has a beautiful appearance and no ideological connotation, youth is their only capital. What else can they have when they are old and young?
How can we make women have elegant temperament, pure heart and independent thoughts? For women who want to be better, more beautiful and more attractive, I think they should read more books when they have nothing to do. Books make women's life full of brilliance and make women have correct thoughts; Books can make women purify their souls. Therefore, women who study are very educated, and that connotation can last a lifetime. Don't make irresponsible remarks with a few women, so good women will become gossip over time, and even the most beautiful women have no taste and self-restraint.
Nowadays, the streets are full of women, and there are many beautifully dressed women, but not many people look impressed, indicating that there are few women with connotation. Some women have a poor eye for clothes. What is the reason? Mainly because of her poor cultivation, lack of connotation, and her aesthetic concept can't keep up with the form. Some women walk in the street dressed in strange clothes and think they are beautiful, but in fact they are just creating an alternative. There are also some women who pay too little attention to their image. No matter what clothes you wear, you can run all over the street and even go out in your pajamas. Clothing is also the main place to reflect the connotation of women. Therefore, when choosing clothes, women should choose and treat them carefully, and match them reasonably according to their age, figure and professional characteristics. I think it will give people a refreshing feeling.
Clothing is very important to women, but what is more important is what women say and do. As a woman, everything she says and does is the embodiment of her inner self-cultivation. As the saying goes, "Laugh without showing her teeth" and "Sit and wait, stand and wait". I think this is for women ... women should be polite in public and behave generously without losing elegance. With reasonable clothes, you must be a very elegant and feminine woman.
Women should tap their inner potential, read more books and newspapers, and improve their literacy. Make yourself more feminine and become a more elegant and connotative woman.
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How to be a woman with connotation? Steady, don't show your emotions easily.
Look at things and think a lot.
1. The most important quality of a woman should be kindness, and all virtues are filial first. I wonder, how many bad men are suffering from the splint between their daughter-in-law and their biological mothers?
If I am a man, if a girl who is going to be my daughter-in-law dares to ask me, "Your mother and I fell into the river, who will you save first?" I will definitely send her away. Not a person at all!
2. Virtue, which is an eternal female virtue.
3. Being knowledgeable and polite is the requirement of the new era for women to keep pace with the times. A woman's temperament and upbringing is a manifestation of rich connotations, and it is also a place to really distance herself from others.
4. Have thought and taste. Thinking made her disdain to interfere in other people's gossip. She has always been an insulator. Good taste enables her to express her style creatively. I can't stand that my wife can't walk when she sees anything. It's not that I'm poor and don't like her!
5. sensible. The most important thing for a man is dignity. She can attack me at home, but she cannot satirize or laugh at me in public. A woman who doesn't know how to protect her husband's dignity doesn't matter.
6. Complete trust and relative freedom. In fact, it is human instinct to like the new and hate the old. No one can guarantee that he will only have a crush on one person in his life.
Advise all women who are going to get married in the world to study medical psychology attentively, fully understand her husband's hobby of staring at pictorial and beautiful women on the web, and don't be picky because of these subconscious behaviors. Otherwise, it will push the marriage to death. He wants to be alone for a while, don't ask questions, just send a cup of hot tea and close the door gently.
7. Have a stable income. Only when women live independently of men can they be independent and self-respecting. There is not much material desire. This is very important! From frugality to luxury since ancient times. Besides, her complacent and optimistic nature enabled her to continue her youth. Excessive vanity often makes men who are not "rich" nervous and even at a loss.
My daughter-in-law should be able to ride a BMW and a bicycle. Stay in a five-star hotel, don't dislike camping tents, and you have to suffer a little to be the host.
9. Reject luxury and don't be too enthusiastic about the opposite sex. She has a good habit of living. Smoking and drinking all night will not happen to her, nor will she kill time in bars and nightclubs.
She knows that her value is not to please the opposite sex, so she won't take the initiative to talk to other men. It's Chun Xue.
10. Naivety is a bit childlike. If a man really likes a woman, he should take care of her innocence to the greatest extent. A woman who has not lost her childlike interest can make her long and boring eyes enjoy it relatively.
1 1. Like reading and music. Like reading is not reading colorful fashion magazines, and like music is not a pop ditty that you forget after listening to it. Classic books and music can make the triviality of years and life leave no trace in her mind.
12. Strong working ability and skills. Working women obviously don't have much time to doubt. Having a skill will make her enjoy herself and control her emotions well.
13. Of course, you must not be ugly or too beautiful, but the more you look at it, the more you like it.
14. Good health, knowing the way of keeping in good health and basic medical knowledge.
15. It is also very important that married life is a colorful, interesting and dynamic world. It is hard to imagine that a woman who is not romantic and interesting is a good wife.
The above 15 standard should be complete. With such a woman, even if the sun and the moon are cold and the mountains and rivers are exhausted, the light of marriage can still burn warmly at the beginning of memory, in any corner that is visible and unknowable.
A woman's external beauty will fade with the passage of time, but her internal beauty is timeless and charming. No matter how beautifully you dress, it is only to attract men's attention, and when you are not young.
How to be a woman with connotation! A woman's external beauty will fade with the passage of time, but her internal beauty is timeless and charming. No matter how beautifully you dress, you just attract men's attention. When you are not young or old, do you still have the capital to attract men like this? A beautiful woman dressed only by external clothes and cosmetics, without ideological connotation and temperament, sometimes makes people feel vulgar and can't attract men's hearts. Many women, because of their wisdom and talent, are elegant and decent, and suddenly shine because of their inner qualities. Such a woman often has a suffocating charm that overflows from her heart. Only by deeply exploring these connotations and characteristics can women better show their charm.
A woman with connotation must be kind and have a pure and transparent heart, so that people can see at a glance and need not be on guard. "All rivers run into the sea, with great tolerance" is the purpose of this kind of woman. She accepts all beautiful people, things and things with a clear and tolerant heart, lives in peace with others, and helps those who need her help selflessly and sincerely with her kind and pure nature. Her eyes are always full of kindness and wisdom, and there is a personality charm between her gestures.
A woman with connotation must have rich knowledge and accomplishment. She will listen carefully to other people's conversations, will not show off herself, will not make noise in public, and will not brag about her personality when there are many people. Her cleverness and self-restraint will standardize the scale of her works, know how to advance and retreat, and show a demeanor of everyone, which makes people appreciate and admire.
A woman with connotation must calm down and know what to say and do. Even if you meet friends who are really difficult to get along with, you will never abuse them after breaking up. Don't judge others behind their backs and spread gossip about others. Will not intrigue, will not harm others by hook or by crook for personal interests, and will not choose revenge for others' intentional injury.
A woman with connotation should also live a real and simple life. She will face the people or things around her with a indifferent attitude and be good at finding the advantages of others to make up for her shortcomings. Can clearly understand the meaning of the essence of life. Let yourself live happily and bring happiness to others.
A woman with connotation rarely cares about the overwhelming cosmetics in the shopping mall, because she has found a cosmetic that is more suitable for her-books. When others are busy with entertainment and revelry, she will gently open her favorite books under bright lights, so that she can learn to look at the world with a calm and rational eye in a quiet situation, learn to accumulate beautiful qualities such as calmness, modesty, self-esteem and self-confidence, and become a special cosmetic that others can't take away and learn. The passage of time will not only ruin her beautiful face, but will add new charm to her. And this inner beauty is as fascinating as old wine. The more delicious it is, the more respectful it is to women, the more attractive it is to the opposite sex, and everyone who has been with it is moved.
Yi Shu once said, "A woman with real temperament will never tell others what books she has read, where she has been, what clothes she has and how many jewels she has, because she does not feel inferior." Temperament is from the heart, so keep a pure and kind heart. Temperament is inseparable from connotation. Thank you for the books you have read and the struggle, introspection and optimistic life course. Temperament cannot be faked. A beautiful face can make a woman beautiful for 20 years, but good cultivation and elegant temperament can make a woman beautiful for a lifetime!
How to become a woman with temperament, accomplishment and connotation? ? A woman with connotation is the balance of life perception and the self-cultivation of China culture. With the light of the world, we can understand the world, and only with purity of heart can we have foresight.
A woman's accomplishment is not that she will dress up and go out to give her husband face, but the most important thing is the quality and self-cultivation in all aspects. Self-cultivation is the ultimate feeling of life experience, the ultimate calm of life experience, and a simpler and purer mentality. Self-cultivation is the highest realm of China traditional culture.
What can I do to become a woman with culture and connotation? Personally, I think mentality is very important. A cultured and connotative woman should not only look comfortable externally, but also be rich in connotation. Behavior habits can show a person's accomplishment. Knowledge is the connotation of women, not the higher the education, the more connotation. Read more books, expand some fields, and be knowledgeable when interacting with people. I don't know famous brands and cosmetics every day. When it comes to other things, you are basically a loser.