Speaking of the difficult twelve years of my daughter and wife, it is really a pain in my heart forever! When my wife and I got married, we were still teaching in Ganxian Normal School, which is more than 100 miles away from Xianyang, and we didn't have our own house in Xianyang. At first, we could only fight guerrilla warfare between parents and parents-in-law. 1988, I transferred back to Xianyang, just in time for the housing allocation of the unit. Fortunately, I was assigned a set. Although the orientation is not good, the two are still ecstatic. So, from then on, I put my "nest" in the Finance College. It is convenient for me to go to work, but it is difficult for my wife. At first, I went to work by bike. I had to climb a big slope between Cai Xiao and Daobei Railway Middle School. My wife is afraid of heat, and when she comes home in summer, she breathes every day, and she can't breathe for a long time. 1997, it is time for my daughter to go to preschool. We decided to let our daughter and wife go to school in Daobei Railway and share a yard with the railway. In this way, it is really difficult to take my daughter back and forth to work by bike, so after my repeated persuasion, my wife agreed to buy a Mulan motorcycle. From then on, my daughter sat in the back seat of her mother's motorcycle and began a long student life.
Sunny weather is easier said than done, but the most difficult thing is the harsh weather of severe winter, hot summer and rain and snow. In winter, when my daughter comes home, her little hands are always cold. In the hot summer, my daughter's face is red and she is sweating. On rainy days, despite wearing ponchos, the trouser legs of two people riding home are always soaked by rain. In the first few years, because I was too playful, I often went out to eat and chat with my friends after work or dug a hole to play mahjong. My mother and daughter often stay in an ice pot when they come home. Whenever I think about it, I feel ashamed.
Later, when my daughter grew up, she had her own judgment on things. I remember once, I was addicted to playing again and didn't go home until midnight. My wife was very angry and scolded me for my poor quality. How can I be like a scholar? ! Obviously a gambler. I argued that I don't smoke or drink. What's wrong with playing cards? In this way, two people quarreled and woke up the child. Looking at my daughter's pathetic appearance, I regretted it and had to "surrender" and promised my wife that I would never come back late again. The next day, my daughter left me her first letter before going to school. Dad must take care of himself and don't play. Mom is very hard, don't make her angry. Sisi (daughter's nickname) should have a good learning environment, and dad should be considerate of his mother when he loves Sisi ... Looking at his daughter's considerate words and thinking about her actions, my heart was shocked! I am really ashamed, really ashamed to be a husband and a father!
After that, I gave up my hobby and went home early after work to do logistics for NianLia. Others always tell the academic affairs office to arrange the class more intensively and finish the class. I'm the only one in the whole school who asks to arrange classes, once in the morning and once in the afternoon, and it's best to arrange classes in the first and second periods in the morning, so that I can buy food and cook in the last two periods. My daughter studies very hard. My biggest wish is to eat delicious food when I go home every day and have a little rest after dinner. Therefore, two meals a day has become an important task for me every day. Sometimes I wait by the window after cooking, and my heart is full of expectation and happiness. Day after day, my cooking has improved greatly, and my daughter loves to eat more and more. Occasionally, when I have something to go out, my wife goes into battle, but my daughter says "it's not as delicious as dad's cooking." I am so proud! So proud!
Now whenever it rains, my first thought is that NianLia will suffer again. After work, she will go home early and take the car cover out of the basement to save her wife the trouble of going home. It's cold in winter, so it's hard to start a motorcycle. I went downstairs to start the motorcycle preheating ten years in advance to prepare for them to start on time; On snowy days, I ran to the intersection in advance to call a taxi. ...
After my daughter went to high school, the pressure of homework and further education became more and more serious. Sometimes she makes up lessons with her classmates, and she sits behind my motorcycle in the wind and rain. It's cold in winter, and it's often because the car in the tutor's place is not smooth, so you have to pick it up. When I come back late at night, I don't trust my daughter to take a taxi alone. I often have to wait for two hours in the cold wind. My daughter felt sorry for me and asked me to go home several times without waiting for her. After the tutorial, she will go home with her classmates. Besides, I told my daughter to ask dad to wait for you, and when you finished the exam, dad couldn't wait.
This winter, Xianyang brought unit heating into central heating, and the heating temperature was extremely low. My daughter is afraid of cold and her feet are always cold when she sleeps at night. Therefore, I have another task: to put a warm water bag on my daughter to warm her feet every night. My daughter didn't sleep well because of the pressure of homework. That day, I took my mother-in-law to Yangshengtang for pedicure. When chatting, the technician inadvertently told me an acupuncture point for treating poor sleep. After returning home, I immediately gave my daughter a test and massaged for 20 minutes every day, which improved her sleep.
In this way, my daughter grows elegant, considerate, lovely and sensible day by day in the back seat of her mother's motorcycle. My daughter will take the college entrance examination next year. I have been busy for my daughter for so many years. I really don't know if I can adapt to my daughter's absence! ? But no matter what happens in the future, I have been rich for more than ten years, and I have a good time despite the hardships. It is my great honor to be busy for the two most important women in my life. This decade will be my best memory!
Postscript: My daughter didn't meet our expectations. In 2009, she took the college entrance examination and won the first place in the liberal arts college entrance examination in Weicheng District, Xianyang City, and the first place in the single subject of mathematics in Shaanxi Province (full marks). She was admitted to the School of Management of Zhejiang University with an excellent score of 622. After graduation, I worked in Vanke in Xi 'an and was promoted by the company one year later. In 20 16, she was admitted to Georgetown University, Notre Dame University and University of Southern California respectively. At present, she has chosen the University of Southern California, which has given 654.38+million dollars (full scholarship) and will go to the United States for further study and complete her studies.
The college entrance examination is just around the corner, and I think of the years when my daughter went to school. I wish the students who participated in the college entrance examination this year, and wish them to play their normal level, achieve excellent results and be admitted to their favorite universities.