This involves a cost issue. For a simple example, it costs a lot of money for a man to marry a wife. I married a daughter-in-law and spent all my money. If one day you tell me that this daughter-in-law is divorced and then marries another, I'm afraid I may not have the financial strength in a short time.
For middle-aged men, everything needs stability. In fact, marriage is not a simple love belonging for men. Men with a little emotional intelligence know that marriage is the guarantee for their stable life for the rest of their lives. Is the only way for every man to get married and have children. If some fresh elements break into our life in this process, then we will not easily destroy the original family, and everything should be stable.
When people reach middle age, they have to soak Lycium barbarum in a thermos cup. People who have this awareness of keeping in good health are all smart people. They know that their health is getting worse every day. One day, we will grow old because we can't escape the laws of nature. When we get old, no one will wait on you. This is a very sad thing for a man. Divorcing your wife and choosing a half-husband and wife is very risky. You can't completely trust a woman who is married for the second time.
Because of this, middle-aged men are afraid of divorce, and often take divorce as the last step, and they will not divorce easily unless they have to.
Take a friend around me as an example. After he divorced his ex-wife, he married a younger woman. I didn't expect this woman to be a fuel-efficient lamp. Not long after staying with him, he divorced again, which took away a lot of his property. It should be said that the loss outweighs the gain, losing the wife and folding the soldiers. From then on, he decided to live alone and never trust any woman again.