These political parties lack basic humanity. But the more people you know about these anomalies, the more you will find out why they are inhuman. A big reason may be that they have been neglected since childhood, or that they have been deeply hurt themselves. It's hard to be kind to others without kindness!
Professor Li Meijin believes that all social problems are people's problems, and people's problems are early problems.
Nowadays, many people's thoughts are abnormal because we are in the process of social change and the environment for people's growth has changed greatly. Because of the high turnover of people, for example, there are many left-behind children who have parents but are not around. Children in the city may live with their parents, but parents have very limited time to accompany their children and even have little time to eat together. Maybe I just sleep with my mother at night, and my mother disappears during the day, and the children are given to the elderly or nannies or kindergartens. In this way, parents have less time to educate their children, especially in the first six years. When this growth environment is destroyed, human nature will be chaotic, and it is useless to go to education later.
A healthy life requires both health preservation and heart cultivation. Especially when people are young, they need psychological support more.
In early childhood, children actually have a kind of "natural emotion" like advanced animals. Eating and drinking Lazarus needs the help of caregivers, and people's emotions are formed in the interactive process of false needs and satisfaction. This process needs a stable caregiver first, and it is also a kind of physical contact. If you just put her on the bed with a bottle in her mouth, such a person will never be close to others when he grows up, because it has no intimacy with human body. When we were young, we always liked to let our mother hug us, because being close to people would make us feel happy. In addition, if the child's caregiver is always changing, it is difficult for him to have a fixed physical memory.
Humanity and human emotions are cultivated.
Children before the age of six need psychological support most.
In a responsible attitude towards the next generation, please consider the following questions before becoming a parent:
1. Do you have enough time to accompany your child to grow up?
If both husband and wife are career-oriented and the mother fails to breastfeed, it is best not to have children. Otherwise, your career will be successful and your children will become strangers or black sheep. Children must take care of themselves before they are one year old. /kloc-Don't let your child leave you until you are 0/2 years old.
2. Do you have enough patience to accompany your children?
If a couple is still dependent on the care and help of others, impatient or unwilling to do their own chores, it is best not to be parents. Children's attachment always exists before 12 years old. Your dedication and companionship to him is very important, and it has little to do with how much money you earn and whether your career is successful or not.
Do you know the basic knowledge of children's psychological development? If you don't know whether you are interested in learning at all. Don't be a parent without advice. Because as long as the psychological support is not in place, then the TV network will educate him. When we find all kinds of problems with our children, it's too late to act. Therefore, children's psychological development is a critical period. Parents are advised to read Developmental Psychology and Child Psychology.
In many lectures, Professor Li Meijin mentioned that people commit crimes not because of some stimulus, but because of the accumulation of long-term psychological problems. For example, if a 13-or 14-year-old child has problems, it can basically be concluded that there is something wrong with his upbringing before he is six years old. A man in his twenties commits a crime, and his problems probably appeared before 18 years old. A man in his forties has crazy behavior, which is largely related to his personality. Therefore, most crimes are related to the psychological problems of the parties.
Psychological education is extremely important for children. With good psychological education, children's future life may be much smoother.