A netizen shared his story below the post.

He said, as a child, I think sometimes what hurts my mother the most is,

Is to argue with her in front of right and wrong

The netizen's mother is over 70 years old.

I often queue up at the supermarket early in the morning to buy some free eggs.

But my mother has arthritis. When she is tired, her legs and feet hurt. She often has to wait in line to see a doctor.

? He loses his temper every time he takes his mother back from the hospital.

How much are a few eggs worth? How can you toss and turn?

? Mother is also superstitious.

He always likes to forward some false health articles in his circle of friends. Every time he sees them, he will count down.

Mom, these are all fake. Will you stop embarrassing me?

? Until one day, my mother came to ask him cheerfully.

"I spent 500 yuan on the Internet to buy a set of brown hair.

Can you help me see if my white hair is a lot less? "

He was about to say it when he looked up and saw his mother's white hair.

Yes, the secret recipe for black hair bought for 500 yuan is useless.

On the contrary, my mother has more white hair on her head.

? But just then, he suddenly realized,

There's nothing wrong with mom. She's just old.

The ideas used to educate him as a child now seem out of date.

The man who held up half the sky for him as a child is now left behind by the times.

He seems to suddenly understand his mother.

? "It turned out that she wanted to save some money to buy eggs, thinking that she could get more protection.

She is superstitious about those health products, in order to be healthy and not drag down the children. "

But as children, we always understand too late.

We can always easily find out the faults of our parents.

Tell them exactly what they can and can't do.

We won the truth, but in the end we got the silence of our parents.

In the Book of Rites, it is said that "raising a dutiful son" must first "please his heart".

When we think and argue about right and wrong,

It never occurred to us that all parents need is care and companionship.

Many parents' ideas and behaviors,

In our eyes, it may be outdated and pedantic.

But it was cast in their previous lives.

Instead of arguing, it is better to put yourself in another's shoes and see the limitations of your parents.

Be considerate of their vulnerability and inclusive.

It is the greatest filial piety to children.

Author | Insight

Source | Insight (ID: ID:DJ00 123987)