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First, a summary of life:

Man and environment interact with each other. People should live in the world dialectically and deal with problems with the concepts of dynamics and movement, connection, contradiction, change and development. The cooperation between individuals and society, that is, the beneficial and effective cooperation between individuals and national social groups, can promote the rise of people's happiness index. The goal of life is nothing more than this. Therefore, on the one hand, we must understand that it is not enough to rely on our own efforts, but also the functional guarantee of social groups and political parties.

(A) Physical exercise and training awareness

1). Is it first important for people to have a healthy body? Good health is the foundation, and the body suffers less. Health is indeed a kind of happiness. There are many books about health preservation methods for reference.

2). People's consciousness can be expressed by "IQ" (including IQ, IQ and EQ), and there are many books to read, which can be briefly summarized as follows:

a)。 Exercise IQ:

Without a scientific mind, it is still difficult to become an outstanding talent who knows how to innovate and create scientific development. Including the ability to feel, perceive and represent things, as well as the ability to judge, reason, analyze and summarize concepts.

b)。 Sports quotient:

That is, people's will qualities, such as determination, consciousness, self-control and tenacity, have always had noble courage and fighting spirit, strong will and know how to persist. More people should inherit this excellent quality. It is difficult for people with low will and quotient to undertake big tasks.

c)。 Exercise emotional intelligence:

Emotional quotient (EQ) largely determines the success of one's family and career. Whether it is relatives, friends or strangers, people have to experience many different partners in their lives. Why are some near and some far? Of course, it also includes self. It includes emotional reflection of value, emotional memory, emotional strain, emotional sensitivity and emotional rational thinking. Of course, there is also a very important point: love for mankind, love for the motherland and love for society. Without this feeling, being a man is first and foremost inferior (you can cherish and care for your family and friends, don't other people's family and friends and everyone's family and friends deserve your love? It is equally worthwhile and equally important. )

(2) Protecting the environment

Even if we do a little bit, we can protect society, protect the country, protect the earth and protect mankind. Environment is where people stand, and its foundation is nothing more than skin.

2. Be a man, specifically:

1, be a man with a plan. A man without a plan is like a puppet with a elm head. Life lacks autonomy and is given to others.

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Arrange and manipulate. Of course, there is no harm in scheming here, not calculating other people's hearts, not playing tricks and cheating. To be an upright person, there is no room for a little haze in your heart. Such people are pure people. On the contrary, people who specialize in politics and deception will eventually suffer the consequences.

Have a little ingenuity and draw wisdom from life. Never experienced the baptism of society, never experienced the tempering of life, such people are always simple and natural, without the slightest intention. Being wet in the world for a long time and having more experience will naturally produce scheming, so scheming is also the concentration and refinement of life.

It is also the need to protect yourself from harm to keep a little scheming in dealing with people. The scheming is not used to harm people, but to protect yourself. As the saying goes, harming others is not good for yourself. Human feelings are warm and cold, the world is cold, and things in society are complicated. In the face of such a world without any hidden secrets, how can we properly safeguard our own interests?

2. Be principled. Be a man of principle. A gentleman does something and doesn't. It is difficult to be a person, and it is even more difficult to be a good person, because being a good person has principles and moral standards, and requires patience and modesty. Principles can be the starting point of self-improvement in life, grasping moderation, not seeking the best, just seeking better, being happy in continuous progress and making contributions to society.

3. To be a responsible person, you should have a sense of responsibility, shoulder morality, and take due responsibility for work, friends and family; The same is true of financial management, taking other people's money,

Eliminate disasters for others. No matter what "wealth" you earn from part-time and full-time, you must pay a decent return and have a clear conscience.

4. Be a person with plans and goals, have plans and goals, know how to correctly analyze yourself and analyze the future; The same is true of financial management. You can't make money and spend without a plan. There is no "moonlight" if you have a plan, and you will not be empty-handed if you are white.

5, will choose friends, be honest with people, understand that a hero has three gangs, and friends have many ways. Once you choose a friend, you should carefully cultivate and be honest with each other; Just like financial management: don't put all your eggs in the same basket. Funds, stocks, government bonds, securities and gold are all "friends" who can accompany you all your life. You should be accurate and patient.

6, be a man, enough is enough, don't be eager for quick success, don't be hot-headed, and shoot when it's time to shoot; The same is true of financial management. Don't compare with others at will, curb blind consumption, live within your means and don't waste money.

7. Be a man if you want to be able to afford it. Don't be timid and worry too much. The same is true of financial management: the money that should be spent needs to be spent. The key to financial management is how to use and allocate money to make yourself happier, instead of being too frugal and stingy and suffering from kindness.

8. If you want to work hard, you must know how to use the resources around you and strive for a broader space for yourself. After all, individuals are weak, of course, you should also learn to use various "relationships" to achieve great things. So is financial management. We should seize every opportunity, pay attention to the details of life, and constantly explore the potential power that can bring extra income or harvest, so as to turn small money into big money and small profits into big profits.

9. Be open-minded, be open-minded, be informal, and have a broad vision; Financial management should be aboveboard, don't be careful about others, and don't hurt everyone's kindness for petty gain. You know, intangible wealth is more important.

10, a man should know how to give up, know how to give up, give up, don't let yourself get stuck, understand that letting go of the past and always grasp the present and the future; Financial management, but also feel at ease, "spin a thousand silver, all come back!" Those who can win must also afford to lose. To understand that there are gains and losses in business, there is no need to punish the confidence of today's efforts for yesterday's investment failure.

1 1. Good at coping with changes. In fact, for a person, there are too many changes in life, work and study, and changes happen all the time, that is to say,

Change is eternal, whether we are afraid of it or not. Don't feel sorry for the broken glass, and we don't yearn for the "cheese" in memory. It will only be the helplessness and wishful thinking of the "White-headed Maid Xuanzong". What we need is to find a way that suits us, get rid of comfort, transcend fear and move at random. Life will not depend on someone's wishes, change will come at any time, so we should face it positively. If we can adapt to the change as soon as possible, we can do better. When we face changes, we will be afraid and at a loss, which is normal. As long as we can treat fear seriously and scientifically, it can even help us avoid real danger. We don't have to refuse change. We can completely change our attitude towards change, enjoy change in change, embrace change and welcome change.

12, be good at seizing opportunities. We live in such a fast, changeable and innovative era. Everyone may face a completely different situation from the past, so people often feel that their goals are changing. All kinds of external strong changes and internal conflicts interact, which makes people feel at a loss in all kinds of changes. First of all, ask-what has changed in my goal? Then I was at a loss because I was not used to the new life state, and I couldn't handle it correctly and fell into confusion. If you are always immersed in the pain of "loss", the dilemma of "decision" and the helplessness of "disappointment" in all kinds of sudden changes, then life itself will become an obstacle. Life is a big maze for us, and you will stay in a corner and settle down. After a long time, as you get older, you will be "too lazy to change" or "have no courage and passion" to change and pursue. We should pursue our goals in real life. Goals do exist and are constantly changing. We should actively create harmonious interpersonal relationships and sincere cooperative partnerships with full work enthusiasm, positive and optimistic outlook on life, strong sense of competition and service, and strive for a better tomorrow!

With the rapid development of social science, our competition is becoming more and more fierce, and competition is everywhere. Our current goals may be removed at any time. How can we keep our current goals? Only by adhering to the ideological line of emancipating the mind and seeking truth from facts, finding the goal of keeping pace with the times and constantly innovating, doing a good job, constantly learning and understanding new knowledge, mastering new technologies, meeting competition and challenging the future, can we not be eliminated.

13, keep a low profile

When we are alive, we often have the idea of explaining something. However, once explained, I found that anyone's explanation is so pale and weak, and it will even get darker and darker. Therefore, being a man needs no explanation, so he becomes a wise choice. So in today's society, getting along with people, I think the key is to learn to keep a low profile!

Being low-key is a character, a gesture, a demeanor, a cultivation, a mind, a wisdom, a strategy, and it is the best gesture. People who want to succeed must tolerate others, and then be accepted, appreciated and worshipped. This is the foundation of human existence. Being a low-key person is an excellent gesture to strengthen the foundation of the world in society. Being a low-key person can not only protect yourself, blend in with the crowd and live in harmony with others, but also make people accumulate strength, sneak quietly and achieve a career without showing signs of dew.

Learn to be a low-key person, that is, don't be noisy, pretentious, insincere, involved in right and wrong, suspicious and jealous. Even if you think you are brilliant and better than others, learn to hide others. Complaining that you have no talent is only superficial.

To be a low-key person is to look at everything in the world with a peaceful mind. Practice to this state, you can from beginning to end, not only can make people happy when they are humble, but also can make people suffer when they are prominent.

14. Adjust the role

Being a man naturally plays a certain role, first of all, children, then teenagers, young people, parents/husbands' wives, grandparents, other people's friends, some roles in work and so on. We must first understand the rights and obligations of each role, even if it is superficial activities, and then clarify our real identity and strive to be a person who conforms to our identity. Of course, role identities usually change by leaps and bounds, or are mixed identities and occasions. We must know how to distinguish it in order to make it appropriate and appropriate in different space and time.

15. Concerned about current affairs and politics

Don't be blind. You should have a clear understanding of your environment, such as the collective, society, the world, the universe and what happened. If you don't understand, you must learn. People are inseparable from their surroundings. Only by interacting with the environment scientifically can we settle down first and then develop.

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No matter your family, collective or society, caring for the environment makes your living space clean and sanitary, reduces pollution and ensures health, which is also the happy enjoyment of being a human being. Interaction with the environment includes concrete (actual resources) and abstract (information). Without resources, people can't meet their normal needs; Without information, it's like a blind man touching an elephant, not bad.

Resources: Resources are precious, otherwise, we don't need to transfer water from South to North, build factories to develop manufacturing industry and keep doing research ... Non-renewable energy has been in crisis, so we must save on use and prolong service life, even though the country is still developing new energy sources, such as solar energy. If nuclear fusion energy is realized, the energy crisis can be fundamentally solved.

Information: The people who read this manuscript are those who understand the importance of information and those who search for information. Not everyone is born with knowledge. If he is ignorant, even the best material will be buried. Relatively speaking, knowledge is also a kind of information, and the treasure house of knowledge is extremely rich, depending on whether you have studied it or not. There are also current politics, surrounding things, logical relations and so on. It is better to consider and weigh the decision comprehensively. For military wars, information is analyzed in time.

17. The small bureau obeys the overall situation.

As long as people have needs, there will be differences, contradictions and unfairness. People, people and groups, groups and groups are inevitable phenomena. Some friends above explained how to protect their own interests. There are always big and small interests, and there are differences between the local and the whole. In this way, if the ministries fight for each other or retreat and do nothing, it will inevitably affect the overall situation. The late Qing Dynasty is an example, and the indecent and unreasonable journey continues. There will be no peace in a country that is constantly at war. Of course, there was no understanding at that time, and only a few people were willing to sacrifice their own interests and were still arguing about the state system. In today's society, it is extremely wrong and will not succeed if we can't recognize the problems of the overall situation and the small situation, evade responsibility and fight internally. Such as how to survive in the company?

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According to what you need to learn, you don't have to be appointed by any company or individual to do your own work. The society needs every screw, and it is also trying to organize, coordinate and maintain the normal, orderly and good operation of the state machine. If you don't get on the bus, you will be left behind. When you become a successful student, you can't just take advantage of yourself, enjoy the moon and have fun. Some people in society are actually very capable, but they are either for themselves or passively isolated. The geese leave a voice, and someone leaves a name. Why don't talented people try to get ahead or die? For young people, conditions are much better now. Even if it is of great use and small use, we should give full play to our abilities and find a point for ourselves.

19. Love peace and feel life

This is not empty talk. China has also experienced many wars, and each time it was miserable. At present, the world is not very stable. Conflicts continue in the Middle East. If we live there, why should we worry? The contradiction between big and small in other parts of the world is increasingly apparent because of differences in national interests. Therefore, peace is very precious.

Here, you can chat leisurely, relax, study, work, eat a good meal, have time to educate children, exercise, watch the news, buy lottery tickets, do business, have a place to reason, have friends to help you, have the internet available, and have the opportunity to read this manuscript. ...

In short, there are many ways for people to face everything in the environment, their specific reactions, behaviors and interactions, that is, scientific summary and theory (you can refer to many books), but it is true that the world is vast, profound, great and unknown, and the successful people will be buried in the long river of history, and the unsuccessful people will still be individuals. Anyway, in the long river of history, everyone first has his own position and has a certain contribution. Different positions reflect different values. We are only trying to reduce the reaction that prevents the society from moving forward, but on the contrary, we are pushing the society forward, because the descendants of mankind, including you and me, must not stop abruptly and stagnate. We are born as human beings, and life is priceless. It is the greatest pride for human beings to persist in developing into the present world.