Young parents and old people must have different ideas about educating their children. How to coordinate this? This should also be handled on a case-by-case basis. Many old people nowadays are also knowledgeable and literate. Unlike earlier years. Old people have no education. There must be a lack of ways and means to educate children. Even some old people spoil their children blindly. But now. Many of them are educated old people. They also know how to educate their children correctly. But even so, children are inevitably spoiled.

In fact, the most important person in charge of educating children. It should be the parents of the child. Not an old man. Therefore, parents of children should try to communicate with the elderly. Only in this way can we achieve the goal of educating children without hurting the hearts of the elderly. As parents of children. With the old man. Communicate often or find some related video materials. Books, materials and so on. Communicate well with the elderly, how to educate children? Letting the elderly take care of their children also plays a certain educational role. Old people also have some bad habits. We should also tell the elderly to pay attention to it at any time and change it if possible. Of course, sometimes old people will say. That's how you were brought up when you were a child. Don't you look good? At this time. Pay attention. Don't break the old man's heart. At the same time, it can inspire the elderly to educate their children. Maybe the old man is angry and won't help you with your children. Young couples are in more trouble.

I think the best way. When young parents go to work during the day. Give the child to the old man for help. This was before I went to kindergarten. Then at night, young parents take their children to take care of themselves. Don't live with old people. In this way, the old man and the child are separated at night. So young parents can use the evening. Cultivate some good habits of children. While cultivating children's good habits, children may not adapt. He will cry. If you live with an old man, the old man cries as soon as he hears the child. I will reprimand the children's parents immediately. So it's a dilemma. But if you live separately. Only parents and children are together at night. Then there wouldn't be this problem. Then children must be sent to kindergarten when they are old enough to go to kindergarten. Let the old man help pick up and drop off. But there are still parents at night. Take care of the children alone. As long as the child leaves the old man's tutor, many of his habits will follow his parents.

In short, on the issue of educating children. The best way is for parents to educate more. Participate more. Otherwise, the child is really watered by the old man. Once the habit is formed. It's really hard to talk about change.