To be honest, there are such friends in my circle of friends. They have a good relationship, so they are also very concerned about their usual update status. If you don't like others, you should also give her an evaluation. If you can't, give her a compliment.

She is usually cheerful, so she has many friends around her, but she always says that we don't know her. She said that only in the dead of night is her truest state. She often sends some sad words in the early hours of the morning to show her unhappiness.

Whether it's her own or about her husband, in short, I sympathized with her at first and cared about her from time to time. At the beginning, I asked, "What's wrong with you? Tell me if you are unhappy. " She immediately sent me a private letter and sent me a lot of things that made her sad. I still chat with her patiently.

Later, as soon as I commented on her status, she immediately sent me a private letter and the conversation lasted for more than an hour. Sometimes I am so sleepy that I can't open my eyes. Later, I stopped commenting for the first time, but she would take the initiative to send me a message "Are you asleep, dear?" "Are you there? Are you there? " "I saw your status updated today. Why didn't you talk to me for two days?" So I can't ignore it, but I can't help talking.

I'm sure your friend must be very similar to mine, and become very verbose about the trivial things in life. My opinion is to solve the problem fundamentally. First of all, tell her to the point and persuade her to face life positively and optimistically. Always worried that small things would damage her health.

Of course, the premise is that your relationship is similar, and you should persuade her to relax. It's not worth living for these things. If the relationship is not good, don't worry about it. It's not that we don't take others seriously, but that they take us seriously. Have you considered our feelings? Is it useful to tell the big things over and over again and persuade them over and over again?

Since so many people go in one ear and out the other, don't waste your feelings on each other. It's best to ignore such people, because as long as someone is fucked, they can't get rid of it, and then they just wait and see. If she sends you a small window on her own initiative, you will say that you want to sleep, and I will call you next time, or ignore it. Be a little careful and I won't call you next time. If she continues to ignore it, then you can turn a blind eye and delete it if it doesn't matter. Anyway, I suffered a lot.