Even if you are an only child, what you bring to yourself is not easy, and the inequality of social resources has also formed some obstacles in your life.

People who are about to retire or have already retired must change their life creed and not follow the old path of a generation.

You might as well try to arrange your retirement with a new life creed. If the sky doesn't fall and the ground doesn't sink, learn to do the following things:

1 Don't expect the children to come back.

First of all, don't expect your children to give you the same feedback.

Pay and return are not proportional, only under the wind, the lamb is still sucking your milk, it can't feed you.

There are fewer and fewer filial children, so save your own milk to support yourself.

2 Enjoy it early.

When your teeth are healed, your legs are healed, your body is fine, and your mind is awake, you can taste the delicious food on earth and see the great rivers and mountains.

Take a walk and turn around, and don't waste the afterlife. Don't blame yourself if you can't walk. There is no regret medicine.

3 children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren.

Children's lives should not be taken over by others. Children and grandchildren have their own blessings. They are their life, and the road is what they want to go.

You must give up what you should give up, and let them be independent, so that you can let go of the burden.

Cultivate interest

Cultivate an interest while you are young and prepare for an old empty nest. Once your children leave home, you won't stare at the wall all day.

Without their own spiritual sustenance, it is inevitable that idiots will come to you.

Feel sorry for yourself

I feel sorry for my children and myself at the same time. No matter how filial a child is, you have to catch a cold and have a fever, and no one can replace you.

You think children are your meat, but they will never think you are their meat. These are two concepts.

Willing to spend money for yourself

Give yourself what you should spend, and don't squander it. Your expenses for the rest of your life are limited, so there is no need to be stingy with yourself and you can't save it.

No one will build a memorial arch for you even if you save it. Only you can save yourself.

Don't worry about eating radish.

Don't worry too much about children's things, that is, things still exist without eating or sleeping.

There will be no river that can't be crossed, and the sparrows in the world will not die of hunger. Don't worry about eating carrots.

8 don't compare, don't care

At the age of listening, if you don't compare, most of your life has passed, and everything is a cloud.

Your presence is the best, and stretching your legs and feet will not take up one or two meters. Contentment is the present, reduce and suppress your desires.

Step into old age and look at the mountains and water. Nothing unusual for you. Don't let others fart, your throat itches, you can't learn anything.

9 release yourself and enjoy yourself.

Find one or two intimate friends, relax, say what you should say, sing what you should sing, release some of your depression and enjoy your happiness. Why not go crazy for a while?

No one can restrain your spirit, so why not? The reserve of youth can be swept away.

Seek great mental relaxation, natural relaxation is the only magic weapon for your body to function normally, and it is not easy to get sick.

10 Don't go for it.

Even donkeys have to rest after a long grinding. Nothing is difficult when you get to the flowers.

Don't say uncomfortable, thinking about the poor decoration of the children's home, there are still things to do, to worry about.

When the rope broke, something went wrong in the thinnest place. As long as you don't feel well, rest or see a doctor. Don't insist.

1 1 Let nature take its course.

The road of life has gone more than half, and everything is a cliche. Sometimes the concept of truth is not necessarily recognized by many people, so there is no need to fight for it.

The edges and corners that should be ground are worn away, and it is too late to catch you again. It is really stupid for someone to catch you again.

This is not tact, this is liberation, this is not wily, this is age, this is happiness.

12 it's better to eat supplements than three meals a day.

Don't believe those health-keeping tricks. There is no tonic better arranged than three meals a day.

Sour, thin and thick, find your own feelings, and don't let others have the final say. Even if you eat all the genetically modified concept foods, you can't erase your old face.

You have the natural laws of all animals. Take a medicine and spend money on unnecessary places. You can't live forever. It is better to eat more delicacies and take care of yourself.

Stick to exercise

Any exercise is gradual. In the flower season, exercise is a relative pastime with a certain entertainment nature.

Appropriate consumption. Don't think you can still compete with young people. You will be the last person to fall, and there is no reward.

Try not to get angry.

Don't be angry. You've been angry enough in your life. If others are angry, try not to be angry yourself.

Qi is a tiger, scratching the liver hurts the stomach. Think of it as fart. It's comfortable to let it go!

Don't take something to heart. When you get older, you should learn to be thick-skinned and not afraid to talk, discuss or talk behind your back.

And don't be wronged. If you meet some unreasonable people, it doesn't hurt to shoot a few shots in a fog.

Who dares to kill you when you are not wronged?

I don't think he has the guts. Even if he blows his beard and stares, I'm still me. I walked away happily, still not angry, with a little spirit of hob meat.

15 has its own life creed.

Life is empty, he who sees through everything is bright, and tomorrow's sun and moonlight will be vast, so he might as well live a proud life!

A hundred years of life is just a process. If you want to be chic, you must have your own life creed.

Being unmoved by others and pursuing a relaxed and natural life is the wonderful road of your life, only you know it!

Living this life after retirement is the most essential day of life. Say these words to yourself and give them to your friends! I hope everyone can live the best life!