Remember, it is not easy to be sincere when you neglect your health in order to maintain your feelings. A healthy person has the confidence and assets to pursue perfect and fair love. Otherwise, no matter how good you pay, you won't get the other person's love. Love yourself first, then you can get other love and keep other love.
So is it selfish? Actually, it's not. To love yourself is to know how to cherish yourself and cherish yourself. Selfishness means never seeing others' kindness to you, in other words, ignoring each other's complaints and only using each other. There is a kind of person who only sees money. In order to get money, he can give up many things, including his true feelings. They believe that money can bring them everything and realize their desire to think of everything. They think they are good to themselves, but in fact they are consuming their blessings and satisfying their greed.
In this life, besides good health, the most difficult thing is to have close relatives. But many people don't care, perhaps because it is too easy to get and no longer feels precious. Chen Bo is such a person. He is very rich. He once thought that he could command someone with money, but he forgot that all these people who could command were for his face. This is a simple interest dispute, and he can't feel warm. For an old and sick person, this is not necessarily a desolation.
No matter how rich you are, you will be lonely and desolate without your close relatives: once he had close relatives, but he didn't cherish them. At that time, in his view, if you have money, you can get better relatives, and you will only be bored with the wife who didn't abandon him and married him. He admits that his wife is good, but he is no longer worthy of him. He needs not only a wife to make him face, but also a son. After that, he already had one.
After divorcing her predecessor, she finally got her wish, married a beautiful young wife and gave birth to a child, as if she were a big winner in life, but all this went up in smoke after he was diagnosed with cancer. My wife thinks that she is still young and her children are still young. She can think more about herself and her children and concentrate on making him write his will as soon as possible. She said that it was not hard for her to imagine that once they left, her wife would marry someone else. As he thought, after he wrote his suicide note, his wife seldom came to the hospital to see him. Only now does he understand that the most rare thing in life is not capital, but relatives who never leave.
He thinks that money can get everything, but he doesn't know that when a person chooses money and gives up his true feelings, only money is left, and all he gets is a dispute of interests. People's life, and who they become relatives, are all fate. Only by cherishing can they last for a long time. Once they don't cherish it, they will never have it again. Feelings are * * * experiences, emotions built through ups and downs, and not connections based on money. It is human nature to pursue perfect capital, but in order to make their capital more and more self-centered, those who leave their true feelings behind will inevitably be lonely and desolate. The practical significance of everyone's efforts is to make you happy, have a warm home, and not be a self-centered person. If you give up the foundation, your efforts will be worthless for most of your life.