My mother is a very ordinary retired housewife, and she answered without thinking:

"Because of transfer!"

As soon as the noun came out, I began to be shocked because I thought her answer might be classic.

I quickly asked again: "Turn what?"

She blurted out: "To transfer my love! My love has no outlet, so I transferred my love to flowers and plants! "

I keep my eyes open! It turns out that my sensitive heart may really inherit my mother.

I quickly reflect on myself!

My mother expressed her true feelings very bluntly and unobtrusively. At this time, I reflected on myself: Did I give her too little love or communication, so she transferred her surging feelings to other life forms?

In fact, it is similar to keeping a pet and giving your love to these living things.

People with love in their hearts need a container to accept their love: some people choose cats and dogs, some people choose fish and birds, and some people choose flowers and plants.

For example, people are old and don't like big moves, but they also need a container full of love, so planting flowers and vegetables is a natural choice.

Now that I think about it, my mother is really an emotional person. The flowers and plants on the balcony are glossy and full of vitality.

In fact, doesn't this also symbolize her own vitality?

I don't understand psychology. Look at some neighbor's flower box racks. Many of them are planted.

Personally, I feel that planting slows people down, so don't worry, it is suitable for the elderly to be slow and steady.

I only have two boxes of aloe flowers now, which bloom every year. One pot of chlorophytum is grass, and there is already one downstairs. I planted mimosa for several years, but I stopped planting it because it was poisonous. Lotus was planted for two years, blossomed and then died. Geranium blooms for two years and then dies, which is also poisonous. Hupilan has been buried downstairs for three months this year and has taken root. Pitaya has not blossomed for five or six years. Not this year. I sent it downstairs. Plant towel gourd flowers every year and collect towel gourd tendons to wash dishes in autumn. Hemerocallis have opened 32 smallpox this year. The cypress tree didn't blossom and seed. A dozen peach blossoms have been in bloom for five or six years, and loquat has been eaten by birds for three years. Only one mulberry has dozens of soybeans, all of which have been eaten by birds. There are more than a dozen ginkgo trees, the first one is more than ten years old, and the rest were planted last year and this year. Narcissus and Lycoris radiata have been planted in China for more than ten years and have been in bloom for nearly ten years. The honeysuckle planted in 2004 has only been in bloom for seven or eight years. Most of the plants are downstairs, on the 30-square-meter platform that the greening group is not responsible for. I have a ladder to go up.

When people are old, many people really like to grow flowers and vegetables. There are many reasons:

First, planting flowers can cultivate sentiment, make life colorful and pleasing to the eye, and the fragrance of flowers makes people alert and bright, bringing spiritual happiness and health.

Second, growing vegetables can not only eat organic vegetables, but also reduce the cost of living. At the same time, it is more important to bring spiritual pleasure to people. It is very happy to have a sense of satisfaction with hard work and harvest.

Third, planting flowers and vegetables can make people feel calm like water. When people are old, they need this kind of dullness and moisture.

Fourth, some old people grow flowers and vegetables to meet their children's needs. Children can eat safe food, and the old people can rest assured. It is also a kind of family happiness.

Fifth, in order to avoid loneliness, watch the seedlings grow, grow, blossom and bear fruit. People live a full life and have expectations every day.

Sixth, planting flowers and vegetables can make people more elegant, love life and look forward to the future.

Preference has nothing to do with age, but I have more time when I am older. When I was young, I also liked to spend money. However, there are too many things at home and the children are still young. Now that the children are older, I will do something I like.

People are old and like to grow flowers and vegetables. I think it's to keep myself busy. As long as they are busy, they won't think unhappy things. Besides, when they see flowers and plants, colorful and fresh air, they will feel happy. In addition, through my own labor, the environment has improved, and I have eaten my own vegetables, which is healthy and pollution-free, indicating that I am not old and can support myself. They must be very satisfied and have a sense of accomplishment.

The above is my psychological analysis of the elderly who like to grow flowers and vegetables. Immature point of view, I hope you can give me more advice.

Not only am I old, but I also like growing flowers now. It is no exaggeration to say that planting flowers is a kind of psychological self-healing.

Planting flowers can make people focus, let people see their own value, let people know that they have the ability to take care of others, and they will soon see beautiful results.

And the elderly will feel lonely more or less. Planting flowers and grass can cultivate self-cultivation and make people love life more.

People are old, old, experienced more things, and finally live more clearly. Planting flowers is close to nature, cultivating self-cultivation, and dealing with flowers and plants every day is much more relaxed and enjoyable than dealing with people. And pay a return, to ensure that you will not encounter villains and baiwenhang.

Why do the elderly like to grow flowers and vegetables? First, they can find something to kill time at this stage and have their own hobbies and interests, so that sitting at home will not be so boring, especially for hard-working old people. You can't expect them to stay at home well, even if they are sweating like a pig. Because of this, when they were 80-90 years old, they were never sick and supported by crutches.

Not only the old people like it, but also many young people like it. Old people like planting flowers, drinking tea and keeping dogs, which should be an awakening after vicissitudes. Life is only once in a hundred years, and all fame and fortune are ultimately for planting flowers, vegetables, drinking tea and raising dogs, so that they can feel at ease.

Dealing with people for most of my life is too complicated and my heart is tired. When I am old, I just want to be simple, have something to give and gain, and feel the true meaning of life.