When you always sincerely admit your mistakes but don't change them again and again; When he is worried and sad because of him, he doesn't want to understand and complains to you that you don't understand him; Sometimes promises are made again and again, and they are not fulfilled. At those times, I felt strange, at a loss and angry.
I met him in a game. He is the kind of boy who will make people fall in love at first sight. Later, after he chased me madly for three months, he agreed to stay with him. Most people will probably be confused by appearances at first.
After being together for half a year, we moved in together, which was just the beginning of a nightmare. When he came to my city and began to look for a new job, he was dissatisfied with everything and wanted nothing but to be a top white-collar worker.
Then I felt that my salary was too low. In fact, I didn't have any ability or even much social experience, which was later known. I have been looking for a job for four months, during which I went out to hang out during the day and played games at home. In order to reassure me, I picked me up after work. At that time, I didn't care much about myself. I thought it would be nice if both sides had a good impression. Money and bread will come slowly, he will mature and grow up.
Maybe I was too naive in love until something happened after living together for half a year, which made me collapse. People with all kinds of small loans have all kinds of dunning, not 12 thousand, but hundreds of thousands. At that time, he panicked and kept crying at me, but did he ever think about my feelings? I don't think there is such a selfish person.
None of this has been told to me before. I pay the daily expenses of renting a house outside, and I borrow money from time to time. I can only comfort him all the time, and then I told his family about it and forgave him. He said he would turn over a new leaf and start over.
Of course, the final result is futile. He hasn't reformed. He also made up all kinds of lies again and again, asking me to lie to his parents with him. We also began to quarrel over all kinds of trivial things. After the quarrel and reconciliation, things have been shelved and not solved. After a long time, the cold war began, and we seldom share the trivial things we encountered with each other.
Because of the knot in my heart, I feel it is difficult to even talk to each other. Later, according to the arrangement of his family, he went to another city, called me and told me that he would come to me and stop doing that job, so that I could lie to him again. The mood swings at that time and the problems accumulated before made me end this relationship.
How can I put it? In terms of affection, friendship and love, the most important thing is mutual frankness. Lies and disrespect will lead to the breakdown and non-healing of the relationship between the two sides.
I also hope that everyone can get to know each other well when they get along. You can have no money, regardless of sex, but you must keep changing for each other and keep up with each other. The feelings of men and women have responsibilities in addition to feelings, and they are responsible to both sides. There is still a long way to go, ok, and cherish.