People depend on themselves all their lives.

Reality tells you that money makes the mare go, but no money makes it difficult to move. Old people without money have a hard life and will be rejected wherever they go.

Eating and drinking, being ill in hospital and visiting relatives and friends all cost money. So many people will prepare a deposit, their own house and pension when they reach middle age.

In traditional thinking, raising children can prevent old age. Especially in rural areas, every family wants to have a son. When I get old, I can move to my son's house.

However, no matter how much money you earn, you should be careful not to spend it; No matter how good a child is, it depends on his face. Spending one's old age involves many factors and needs comprehensive consideration.

Only by finding the following reliable strength can we continue to improve our lives in the future.

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First, rely on a good attitude.

I think people who are old should adapt to the life of ascetic monks.

First, birth and death are bitter; Second, loneliness and helplessness are bitter; Third, being confused in life is bitter. If you feel it with your heart, there are still many painful places.

Circumstances are born from the heart, and life is made by oneself. Whether a person is bitter or not is actually a state of mind, which is related to real life, but life is not the decisive factor.

When I was a child, my family lived in the countryside. The house is built on the mountain and lives by the water. When I walked out of the gate, my mother was worried that I would fall into the river; When I went to the back hill, my mother was worried that I would meet snakes, insects, mice and ants.

Father said that if you fall into the water, you can learn to swim. When you meet snakes, insects, mice and ants, you will feel scared, and you will know how to avoid it next time.

From then on, my mother stopped worrying and let me go anywhere.

Father's words tell us a truth: worry is unnecessary, and both good and bad are good.

Maybe it's because my father has a good attitude. He is still eating and drinking when he is old, and he doesn't feel how hard life is. The night before he died, he drank a small glass of wine.

Birth, old age, illness and death are all natural laws, just like falling leaves. Don't worry, living is happiness.

If you have a good attitude, you can live a full self.

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Second, rely on neighbors.

It seems that everyone in the city has started the mode of "not socializing".

Lonely people are very powerful; Give up useless socializing and you will be free ... you really don't have to be bewitched by these chicken soups for the soul.

When people are old, it is necessary to eat, drink and socialize. Since ancient times, you can't do without wine. How can you "deepen your impression" by eating a few mouthfuls of rice?

By eating together, traveling together and dancing together, we can make many friends and take care of each other when we are together.

As the saying goes, "A distant relative is better than a close neighbor."

No matter how kind your relatives are to you and how enthusiastic your friends are, they can't take care of you if they don't live near you. Especially in case of emergency, it takes a while for relatives and friends to come from afar. This is a sign of "beyond the reach of the whip"

Learn to blend in with your neighbors. On weekdays, everyone has no contradiction and can visit each other. If something happens in the future, it will be easy.

Neighbors will help the old people live a more practical life; Neighbors are kind to you, and the living environment around you is much better.

No matter where you live, you should enjoy it and don't treat the people around you as enemies. It is fate that everyone lives together.

A community is actually a big family. Although there are many fights, it is not without mutual help. Remember the good of others, and don't forget the hatred of others.

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Third, rely on the wife around you.

"Young couples always walk together" is a cliche.

No matter how many times a couple quarreled when they were young, as long as they were not divorced, they were "best partners" when they were old. In this life, two people created wealth and raised children. The most important thing is that after all the lows, the bitter days have not driven away the feelings.

There is a companion around, you can chat, someone is in charge when you are sick, and you have to rely on each other.

In fact, no matter how good the relationship between husband and wife is, we must face the pain of "leaving first and then leaving". Few couples die on the same day in the same year. Those who leave later still have to face a lonely life.

When you get old, if your wife leaves first, you should face romantic love correctly.

If you meet the right person, you can fall in love and spend the rest of your life together. Of course, don't blindly look for a new partner. After all, the relationship between husband and wife is not so strong on the way, and some people collect money everywhere under the guise of love.

Don't turn a romantic love into marriage at will. Respect children's opinions and properly handle family property. If you fall out with your child because of love, that's not a good thing.

Couples can be reliable halfway, provided they have a good personality.

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Fourth, rely on the wisdom of providing for the aged.

In this life, it is never too old to learn.

No matter how old you are, don't give up progress. Only by keeping up with the development of the times can we enjoy the "wealth" of the times.

For example, the elderly can't use smart phones, and there will be obstacles to travel. Shopping, showing your action track, communicating with friends and relatives, and connecting all over the world are all inseparable from mobile phones. If you don't want to learn, you can only communicate with the world with old machines, and there will be obstacles.

One of my cousins, who is seventy-two years old this year, still insists on practicing calligraphy and reading. Granddaughter went to junior high school and didn't understand many courses. Cousin is answering questions.

Cousin said that with the progress of the younger generation, he also returned to his youth.

When people are old, only by wisdom can they live a quality life.

Reading, writing, cultivating correct values and learning health knowledge. The greater the progress, the brighter the life.

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Concluding remarks.

Life and death are life, and wealth is in the sky. No one can control the future, and no one can keep the past, but we must make progress forever.

The older you get, the more you have to live. Try to do something, but don't find fault with the result.

"It is better to rely on others than on yourself" is a life attitude, not a reality. Don't stubbornly "walk slowly alone" and find the strength you can rely on.

It's good to enjoy the cool under the big tree. Depend on others, you will live a down-to-earth life. If you rely on others, you will live a valuable life.

When people get old, they should feel beautiful with their heart and love others with their heart. Maybe this is rich support.

Author: coarse grains in cloth.

Pay attention to my words and walk into your heart.

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