1. People and things that have heard and witnessed positive energy are not as excited and heartbroken as before. Seeing some advanced and typical reports of selfless dedication, they lost their sense of reverence, lost the motivation to think strangely, and even lamented "stupidity", "unworthiness" and "individual efforts can't change the big environment".
2. Material desires become strong, especially when their consumption desires do not match their consumption ability, or when they meet old classmates and friends who get along well, their inner inferiority and frustration are strong to an unnecessary extent. I lament that my income level is stretched in this era of high housing prices, and I am depressed because I can't afford to drive a BMW or buy a genuine LV. I want to do some financial management all day and open up some legal income besides salary. When I go to work, I switch the red-green curve of the stock trading page from time to time, and my heart is like fifteen buckets of water-seven ups and downs.
3. When going to and from work, I began to step on the point to come and go, began to haggle over overtime, and it became very casual to leave my post. I am no longer willing to devote myself to my work, and I begin to care too much about the boundary between "public" and "private". My values are becoming more and more realistic, and I start to lose my mind if I do more but get nothing in return.
4. It's easy to get distracted at work. Brush the phone for a while, eat snacks for a while, chat with my little sister and brother for a while, and study the children's exercises for a while ... It has been divided by too many things other than work. After working for a while, I can't help but wander off, and then I have to deliver the work results. All kinds of "too late" shouted loudly.
5. Stop learning and accepting new things. Lack of interest in understanding new concepts, new formulations, new knowledge and new technologies, and lazy thinking. I began to be satisfied with routine repetitive work, and I was no longer willing to undertake innovative and challenging tasks. I just want to stay in the comfort zone. After receiving the new task, the conditioned reflex shrank back and pushed it out desperately. "I haven't done it", "This is not my responsibility" and "The conditions are not ripe" have become the mantra.
6. Speaking began to become casual and the style decreased. I have become fond of talking about my parents' shortcomings and telling people right and wrong behind their backs. Even in front of the younger generation, they don't pay attention to the influence, complain a lot, and have a lot of "theft". They lose their lives in society from time to time. When they see some social hot news, it is easy to interpret it from a negative perspective.
7. Work began to be satisfied with "done" rather than "well done". The idea of "Long live 60 minutes" is on the rise, the manuscript drafting is no longer carefully scrutinized, the grassroots research is no longer in-depth and meticulous, and the work style has become grandiose and perfunctory. Things can be put off, but things can't be put off. As a senior doyen, after assigning tasks to young people, he does not follow, guide or supervise. It is annoying for young people to ask more questions and put forward their own ideas and suggestions.
8. The documents on the desk and the documents on the computer desktop began to pile up and get messy. Even if I have time, I don't want to tidy up a little. It takes a long time to find something, or even lose important documents.
9. Pay too much attention to health and beauty. Bring a teapot to work and make health tea in the office, and get together to discuss yoga, Chinese medicine and slimming. After work, no matter whether there is something urgent to finish, you should take a step on the spot and run to the beauty salon and gym. Occasionally, you get nervous and look for advice everywhere.
10, I don't want to talk about my work with my lover, relatives and friends anymore. When people ask, they are also perfunctory. "Nothing to say, that's all"; "Don't bother, don't want to talk, do some thankless work all day!" The "I don't want to say" in my mouth reflects my inner "disapproval", which means it is difficult to get the motivation to continue to grow in my post, and it is difficult to get a sense of value and happiness in my work.
What about you? Do you live such a life, relying on short-term pleasure and virtual satisfaction, and often influenced by your negative emotions?