Senior three students stabbed senior one students to death six times on the court because of an argument; Shantou 16 teenagers formed a robbery gang and killed 3 people in 8 days;

16-year-old boy asked for whoring money, and his mother was forced to take poison because she had no money. ......

Such incredible and shocking cases actually tell us that these tragedies could have been avoided, but many people ignore that the important thing in raising children is not material support, but psychological support. You know, to raise people, you must first raise your heart!

This book is written by Li Meijin, a famous criminal psychologist, a member of the China Committee for the Care of the Next Generation, vice president of the China Youth Crime Prevention Research Association and executive director of the China Family Education Association, and tells how to raise children's minds. Professor Li Meijin has been engaged in the research of criminal psychology and adolescent psychological problems for a long time. Through more than 30 years of teaching and research, she found that people's psychological problems are closely related to early education, and put forward that people's education should pay attention to early psychological education. This book expounds from multiple dimensions that psychological support is more important than material support, and personality is more decisive than ability.

After reading this book, I gained some nourishing experience in raising children.

First, accompany your child to grow up in person.

It is mentioned in the book, "Time cannot go back, and human growth is irreversible, just like the growth of a tree. There are stages in children's growth, and each stage has its own tasks. Once you miss a certain stage, if you want to make up for it, you need to pay twice the price. Please note that double compensation should be paid to your family, not money. " I vaguely remember a news report that an eight-year-old girl wrote in her composition My Police Dad: Police Dad, if you don't go home, I will grow up. Just like the voice in this little girl's composition tells our parents in this book that you missed a certain growth stage of your child, even if you earn more money, you may have to come back to make up for it. It's too late. Your company must not miss his attachment period before he was 6 years old.

Second, the formation of dangerous personality is often related to family upbringing.

The book tells us from many real cases that criminal personality and defective personality are closely related to family rearing patterns. The former is often due to lack of parenting, while the latter is often due to doting on parenting. If a child has never been loved while growing up, how can he know how to love others? If a child is spoiled by the people around him since childhood and grows up, it is equivalent to his ability to resist the wind and rain outside. Just as an eagle has never experienced flying down from a cliff, how can it survive in the cruel nature? A spoiled child, in the face of a complex real society, can he still move forward independently on the road of life? Therefore, raising a child must be balanced, so that he can neither lack love nor overflow love, prevent the formation of his dangerous character and prevent him from endangering society.

Third, psychological education needs kindness as well as kindness.

The book says that psychological education needs both kindness and elegance. It is true that in the process of raising a child, you have given him "sweet" psychological nutrition, and you should also give him "salty" psychological nutrition accordingly. Praise in time when praising, and criticize in time when criticizing. Don't say that you can't bear to scold him, which makes the child's psychological endurance extremely low. When you grow up, we will face thousands of setbacks in society. Still can live well?

Psychological education is a brand-new concept of parenting. In the process of raising children, parents should not only pay attention to whether their children have enough food and clothing, their height and weight, and whether they are lively and healthy, but also pay attention to the mental health of infants and adolescents. Li Meijin, a psychologist, conveyed the idea to parents in his book Psychological Nurturing: Psychological nurturing is more important than material nurturing, and it is worth studying hard by all parents or prospective parents in today's society to make your children grow up healthily and happily!

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