The reason is that in recent years, when doing moxibustion for women, it is found that women's physical problems and sexual apathy are common phenomena, which is related to modern people's cognition of health and living habits. Knowledge can be changed through popular science, and wormwood is a treasure left by our ancestors. Moxibustion can help moxibustion practitioners know the temperature of the body and fire for a long time, thus promoting blood circulation and expelling cold evil. This is the physical level, and moxibustion has a very good effect on this kind of modern diseases.
? It's just that our indifference is not entirely physical. What should I do if my heart freezes due to internal psychological factors, life, environment and other reasons?
? In this salon, we also saw that women are very interested in moxibustion and are also taking the road of physical and mental self-awareness. The reason why I am interested in moxibustion is basically that I feel my own physical problems. Generally, I am prone to fatigue, fatigue and cold hands and feet. When asked when women feel this way, most of them are after giving birth. At the same time, mothers also put most of their energy on their children, and most of the topics around them are children.
We can see that they are depressed. For the time being, this can be attributed to having children, and the body is too tired to support when it is old. But these years' experience tells me that children are just a fuse. Women's unhappiness and physical problems are closely related to the fear of survival and family background in the first and second chakras in our hearts, as well as the water element represented by the second chakra, the fire element of the third chakra, our own willpower, personal strength and self-esteem emotion and gender.
This part also involves the harmony of intimate relationship, which is difficult for women in China to speak frankly, but all disharmony will be reflected in the body one day. In recent years, many such experiences have been massaged to the position of the first and second chakras in women's lower abdomen, and their emotions can be felt. And this part will not even be realized by the case owner, or we don't want to see it at all. We prefer to admit that it is the coldness of the body. It is difficult for us to see and face those immobile emotions and love, immobile sex and love between the sexes, and those beliefs stuck in our minds, which make women's charming, mobile and soft bodies stiff and cold today, but they can't speak.
? I think of the white swan played by Xin Ting Portman in Black Swan. She is naive and stiff, and always wants to be elegant, which meets her mother's requirements.
When the director asked her to play two roles by herself, she showed the wildness and boldness of the black swan at the same time, but once the two sexes were rigid, she could not achieve the natural and relaxed sexual charm and various psychological obstacles of a mature woman.
When the director decided that it was possible to change actors, she began to defy her mother's warning, release the shadow she had never lived in and play the black swan.
Finally, she finished her role, broke through the limitations of her mother and ruined herself. The end of the performance is also a summary of her life. The last sentence she said was: "I am perfect."
The black swan in the play is the natural side of mature women, passionate and sexy from the inside out. When all this is suppressed, it will naturally become the shadow of personality. Aren't we the same in life? Dare we get along with our true selves and say to ourselves:
? I'm just imperfect. What's the matter?
? I can put the baby down and have a good rest.
? You can choose not to work hard.
? I don't have to finish my beautiful mother.
? You don't have to make do.
? Unaccompanied situation
? I still love myself.
? Put down the shell of family background.
? Seeing that fragile little girl needs love.
? I want to hug her.
? Regardless of age
? Dare to abandon all restrictive beliefs
? Love yourself boldly.
? Let yourself shine.
When we dare not say or do such things that run counter to the truth of our life, the light of life will be dim. We may think that children, family and gender hinder us. In fact, everything in the body is just to wake us up to see life clearly and understand our real needs. The body never lies. Long-term wrong living habits and sitting posture, pain, depression and freezing from childhood to even longer, are all buried in the body exactly like an invisible thunder, always there, just watching when it explodes. Every pain point of the body is actually a story, waiting for you to see it and dissolve this layer of freezing.
? Every woman in the salon has been crushed once, but in fact, some women are distressed. Those deep tendons, stiffness and anger hid the injured little girl below. Beneath austerity lies helplessness, responsibility, fear and deep sadness. When these injured parts are not seen, accepted and understood by ourselves, they turn into pain, tension and contraction of the body, hoping to remind us to see all this.
I was deeply impressed by the two women in the salon. One is stiff. As soon as you press your back, you feel good, and there is a lot of anger hidden in your body. Ask her about her daily status. I know that she knows herself very well, has attended many classes, has a certain understanding of her body, and will go to see The Origin and the Death again. It can be seen that she has received a good education, and at the same time, education has bound her thinking.
? When it is constantly operating at the spiritual level, it is actually difficult to completely connect with the reality of our bodies. Through intimate relationship, family background, parents and children, various external pressures and previous wounds, we are afraid that the pain of being a woman will be reflected on the body, leading to physical rigidity and inability to relax. The magic of moxibustion is that it can make people feel at ease. Through the warmth and temperature of moxa fire, the moxibustion master can know the person being moxibustion, apply moxibustion at specific points and conduct it to the whole body. Without words, people will naturally relax their tired bodies. After the body is relaxed, with the cognition and stability of body and mind, we can also clearly see that our needs are hidden under our anger. When we don't persist in seeing the pain of Origin and Fate, we will find that the external image that we can't let go is actually guiding us to look at ourselves internally, and anger contains great power. If the two sides of energy are transformed into one side, it can be transformed into great compassion. In just two hours with the client, I felt her strength and saw her compassion.
The other woman is a good mother. It's hard to take care of two children, and her postpartum recovery is not good. Not much to say, but the whole process can feel that she has her own ideas. The next day, we also made an appointment to make a case and use moxibustion to recuperate the body. In the process of doing it, I also learned something about what she experienced, and I felt her strength. At the same time, I also suggest that through my understanding of her body, I should put down my child and start paying more attention to my body, instead of being a good mother. In fact, there are countless psychological fears hidden in the problem of fear of the body that we need to face. After moxibustion conditioning, I found that her complexion and relaxation have changed a lot.
Then tell her she can draw the angel card again. We can discuss other topics, instead of staying at the physical level, and feel that the unspoken intimate relationship is what makes her very tired and unhappy now. Encourage her to draw cards according to this question and see our true subconscious. Seeing is the first step. Through moxibustion, we really want to see that to change our mentality, the two are in harmony with each other in every conditioning. It is also a long way to know, explore the true self and live it completely. I hope that all women walking on this road can use moxibustion as a convenient method to adjust their bodies, adjust their hearts and bloom bravely.