Things come in line, but the future doesn't. At that time, I didn't mix, I loved too much.

"Things come in line, but the future doesn't, so it's not mixed up, and it's not love." This is the wisdom of Zeng Guofan, the first perfect person in all previous dynasties, which makes people realize and be suddenly enlightened.

That is to say, everything should go with the flow, face it calmly, don't care too much about what hasn't happened in the future, don't miss and entangle what has happened, but do nothing, do a good job in the present and live in the present.

This sentence hit the nail on the head and pointed out the root of the troubles and pains in the current world: first, not letting go of the past, indulging in and clinging to the past that has become illusory; The second is to worry too much about the future and always worry about things that haven't happened yet.

You know, no one's life is carefree Those happy people just have a smart life and an open-minded and transparent heart.

Let go of the past, face the future calmly, let nature take its course and grasp the present.

Only by letting go of the past can we embrace the future.

The famous director Wong Kar-wai once said: A person's biggest trouble is memory.

Do you always let go of the past and past grievances, tormenting and gnawing at your heart every night? I can't let go of my past love, making you toss and turn like a maggot at every lonely moment; I can't let go of the past glory, and my vain heart is lost and anxious; You can't let go of your mistakes, making you miserable and regretting. ......

Obsession is the most grinding knife.

You can't let go of the past, it will only make you miserable day by day.

However, time will never go back. If you linger, don't give up, struggle, persist, suffer, hate and persist, you will end up with nothing. You will only burn yourself and miss today's happiness.

Just like Zeng Guofan in those days, when he was in his most brilliant time and when the army he commanded was the most energetic, he was ordered by the emperor to be sent back to his hometown and take back the Xiang army he founded, just like his own children. For a long time, he was unwilling, full of resentment, unable to let go of his former glory, unable to swallow this tone and stayed at home all day.

Either lose your temper with your family, or complain bitterly that the court is unfair and you can't sleep at night. Not only did it make everyone in the family feel insecure and fearful, but it also hurt my body. My hair turned white, my eyes were almost blind, and I was more than ten years older.

Until one day, when he was traveling in the mountains, he happened to meet an expert and suddenly realized that the past could not be repeated. If you persist and care, you will only hurt your health, love your family and miss the present time. It is useless. Let go of the past, grasp the present, take this opportunity to recuperate, improve yourself and cherish the time with your family.

That's why he later had a peaceful mind. Even if it is re-opened, he is calm in his life and has become a rare generation of strange people who can keep his head.

Letting go is wisdom. Let go of the past and there will be a future.

Letting go is a kind of transparency. Letting go of others is actually letting go of yourself.

Therefore, it is better to let go of the past and grasp today's happiness than to be stumped by the past.

Once you put it down, you will feel at ease.

Only by worrying about the future can we grasp happiness.

The famous writer Lin Qingxuan once said:

In fact, many of our troubles come from thinking too much about the future.

It's good to plan ahead, but worrying too much about the future, worrying about things that haven't happened yet, or even probably won't happen, is just wasting your energy and brain cells and asking for trouble.

As the saying goes, nothing is difficult in the world.

A famous American psychologist once did an experiment called "Trouble Box":

He called a group of experimenters and asked them to write down all the things they would worry about in the next seven days and put them in a box called "worry box". Then, three weeks later, he asked the experimenters to open the box and check whether what they were worried about had happened. As a result, they found that 90% of what they were worried about did not really happen.

Then, he asked everyone to throw those real 10% "troubles" into the cardboard box again. Three weeks later, the experimenter opened the box again and found that even the remaining 10% troubles were no longer troubles, because they all had the ability to deal with them.

It turns out that many troubles in life are nothing more than worrying too much, imagining too many obstacles, and imagining too much pressure.

Those troubles are only for themselves, not for things.

Therefore, instead of wasting time in the unknown future, it is better to live your present and cherish every day, every vivid and tangible today.

Conclusion:

Let nature take its course and cherish the present is the true meaning of happiness.

Really, let bygones be bygones Holding on will only be futile, hurting yourself and missing the present.

For the unknown tomorrow, don't worry too much, don't put too much pressure on yourself, no one can tell what will happen tomorrow, and living in the present is the right solution.

Life has its own Qian Qian knot, and life is a state of mind.

Let go of the past and the world will be broad; If you are calm about the future, you are fearless; Grasp the present, and there will be no regrets.

Finally, I hope that everyone who has experienced or is experiencing confusion, persistence and anxiety on the road of life can let nature take its course, let go of the past, not be afraid of the future, cherish the present, and let us meet a better and better life and ourselves.

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