Chapter one: Four secret recipes for treating psychological impotence.

Chapter two: Psychological adjustment methods of psychological impotence.

Chapter 3: How do experts teach you to treat male psychological impotence?

Psychological problems are very serious and will affect physical and mental health. Especially now, many men will have psychological impotence, which will not only affect the life of husband and wife, but also affect their health. So what about psychological impotence? How to treat psychological impotence? Next, Bian Xiao wants to recommend some wonderful measures to treat psychological impotence. Let's see how to learn.

Four secret recipes for treating psychological impotence

Consultation: My husband and I have always had a good sex life, but recently, because my husband's phone suddenly rang, my husband couldn't get hard after answering the phone. My husband thinks he can't do it. He is unhappy all day and can't have sex every time. I looked up some information and said that my husband had a psychological fistula. What should I do if my brain is soft?

Analysis: If it is psychological impotence, then this treatment needs the wife to do it together. According to different psychological reasons, there are the following solutions:

1. Actively adjust mentality and improve feelings. Patients with psychological impotence often lack self-esteem and self-confidence, full of inferiority and depression, and should learn to relieve themselves.

2. Actively deepen the relationship with your partner and communicate more; Relieve the fear of partners and women.

3. In order to improve his bad feelings about sex, he often accepts many feudal traditional views from family or society in the process of socialization of his life experience, so he holds a negative and negative attitude towards sex; In addition, it is the fear of failure. Secondary impotence is more common in fear of failure. I have been worried that I can react normally as before, such as anxiety or depression caused by premature ejaculation.

4. Actively face other negative emotions, learn sexual knowledge, get rid of the wrong understanding of sexual concepts, don't pay too much attention to sexual performance or even adopt an attitude of watching and examining, and devote yourself wholeheartedly; For psychological impotence caused by iatrogenic influence, such as the inappropriate comments of doctors in male vasectomy make patients doubt their sexual ability, they can choose psychologists for consultation; Don't be overworked and stressed.

Psychological adjustment methods of impotence

The so-called psychological impotence actually refers to the difficulty of penis erection caused by psychological factors. As the saying goes, "heart disease still needs heart medicine." For impotence caused by psychological reasons, it is of course necessary to start treatment from the "heart" and restore confidence in sexual ability.

Psychological characteristics of impotence

1) impotence patients may also have the characteristics of "inhibitory" constitution. The demand for sex is not very urgent, and the frequency of sexual life is relatively dull.

2) Extremely passive, mostly extremely quiet and docile, rarely sulking and unable to actively seek excitement.

3) The woman is required to have a passionate sexual response, but when she can't satisfy it, her erection is weak, which is an unsatisfied psychological response.

4) People who have had abnormal sexual life (for example, contact with the opposite sex may cause impotence.

5) too much worship and reverence for the woman, restraint but not enthusiasm when sharing the same room.

First of all, whenever you realize that you have erectile dysfunction or have an imagination containing such content, you should resolutely abandon them, fight against them and reverse this concept, and boldly admit that you have a problem, but now you are undergoing rehabilitation training and believe that you will recover your erectile ability soon. Secondly, imagine the best erection when you are with your intimate partner several times a day, just like watching a movie, including inserting, feeling relaxed and comfortable, feeling the pleasure contained in the vagina and relaxing convulsions.

Experts teach you how to treat male psychological impotence?

According to the latest Durex Global Happiness Index survey, only 42% of China people are completely satisfied with their sex life. One of the main reasons for dissatisfaction is the difficulty of male erection. 12% of men said that they could not erect or had erectile weakness; 22% people say they have persistence problems. Experts suggest that clinically, about 85% of erectile dysfunction is caused by psychological factors.

Injection brewing bitter wine.

Probably because both of them have experienced the trauma of marriage. Li Jin and Mei Lin can understand the rarity of meeting and the preciousness of loving each other better than ordinary couples. So when they remarried, they didn't do much publicity, but invited their parents to get together and have a reception. When the relatives dispersed and there were only two of them left in the new house, Li Jin couldn't help hugging Mei Lin, but then, the worried eyes of his ex-wife suddenly flashed in Li Jin's mind. He knelt on Merlin like a sudden collapse, and deep guilt welled up in his heart. He choked out his inner secrets and pains: "I'm sorry, please forgive my concealment." It turns out that Li Jin has always had some problems in sexual ability, sometimes showing premature ejaculation and sometimes showing insufficient erection. When I went to the hospital, the doctor said it might be caused by psychological stress.

Although his wife Mei Lin showed tolerance and patience, Li Jin deeply blamed herself for her incompetence on sexual issues. Not long after, Li Jin began to use the injection commonly known as "brother needle" after being introduced by the clinic doctor. This is a prostaglandin injection for cavernous injection, which makes Li a "macho man" in sexual life.

A year later, Mei Lin became pregnant. When she went to the hospital for routine check-up, she truthfully told the doctor about her pre-pregnancy situation. The doctor pointed out that this kind of injection contains some hormones that may lead to baby malformation, which is not conducive to eugenics. Finally, Mei Lin had to accept the doctor's advice and have an abortion.

Six factors lead to impotence.

Psychological factors leading to impotence mainly include the following aspects:

Lack of sexual knowledge

When they were growing up, they did not receive the necessary sex education, lacked sexual knowledge or even knew the anatomical characteristics of male and female organs, and often suffered psychological trauma because of the failure of the first sexual intercourse.

psychic trauma

Occasionally sexual intercourse fails, leaving mental trauma, causing fear and anxiety about sexual life, and being influenced by strong inferiority and guilt, impotence is getting more and more serious.

The relationship between husband and wife is not harmonious

The woman's excessive fear of sexual intercourse or lack of trust in the man. There are also mental trauma caused by the woman's weakness, indifference, lack of patience and cooperation in sexual life, or divorce and widowhood.

Social interpersonal relationship is not harmonious.

Excessive work pressure, frequent fatigue, inadaptability to changes in social environment and working conditions or improper handling can also affect sexual function.

Sexual life is inappropriate.

For example, poor living conditions, fear of others peeping.

Iatrogenic factors

Occasionally, patients fail to have sexual intercourse, and doctors are easy to make a diagnosis of impotence, which increases the psychological burden of patients; Excessive care of family members and relatives will also increase the pressure on patients.

According to experts, the failure of sexual intercourse will seriously hit the patient's self-confidence, lead to an increase in fear, cause a vicious circle, and eventually lead to impotence. Impotence is a disease that hurts men's self-esteem. Patients will feel guilty because of this, and will try their best to restore erection during sexual life, but they are unable to do so.

The main factor that determines erection is not willpower. Subjectively, the more you want to get an erection, the less you can get it. On the contrary, it will aggravate your anxiety, loss of self-confidence, psychological imbalance, and bad mental factors will promote the deterioration of impotence.

The key is to eliminate psychological barriers.

Psychotherapy is mainly used to treat psychological impotence in medicine, and the key of psychotherapy is to eliminate the psychological obstacles of patients.

The implementation can be divided into three steps: the first step is not to blame each other for problems between husband and wife; Treatment requires the joint participation of both husband and wife, and the wife should take the initiative to share the responsibility, instead of putting it all on the husband. This is an effective way to improve the sexual relationship between husband and wife.

The second step is to give more positive affirmation. A wife can give hints to her husband in her own language or expression skills. In sexual activities, in addition to affirming the husband's sexual ability in language, he should also show a positive expression in expression. At this time, the husband will relax his anxiety, impatience or depression, and then he will trust his wife's "judgment."

The third step is to learn sexy.

Psychotherapy can also adopt hypnotherapy and physiological feedback therapy.

As the saying goes, "heart disease needs medical treatment", that is, psychotherapy and alleviating psychological unhealthy factors are the primary methods to treat psychological impotence.

As long as patients with impotence can successfully complete several sexual lives, they will gradually eliminate their mental anxiety and anxiety, and their mental state will turn good, and impotence will gradually recover.

Injection therapy should be cautious.

In addition, for patients with psychological impotence who have been cured for a long time, sometimes doctors will take drug injection therapy in the corpus cavernosum. Most drugs are vasodilators, and the principle is that the penis will be congested and erect in a short time after injection. But it only treats the symptoms, not the root cause, and has some side effects and complications.

It should be reminded that this medicine must be used under the guidance of a doctor, no more than three times a week or no more than 1 time in 24 hours. If the injection is improper, it will lead to persistent erection of penis and serious symptoms such as penile necrosis, testicular swelling's pain, urethral bleeding and abnormal ejaculation. Therefore, patients should never rely on this medicine for a long time.

Self-treatment of impotence

Urine accumulated in the bladder is used to stimulate peripheral nerves, improve the excitability of sexual nerves and enhance erectile ability. Therefore, you can leave some urine before sexual intercourse;

Taking advantage of the characteristics of natural erection of penis in the early morning and proper training, it is easier to have sex in the early morning;

When the erection is not firm but can be erected, sexual intercourse can be carried out in a position suitable for semi-erection to relax the tension of sexual life;

Take ginseng royal jelly, leek and onion to increase sexual function and sexual desire;

Pressing the vein at the root of penis with tight condom will make the front end of penis congested, the feeling of glans penis will be more sensitive, and the erection and stiffness of penis will also increase.

Conclusion: These recommended secret recipes for the treatment of psychological impotence are very effective. Male friends might as well give it a try. Having a healthy sexual psychology will add points to your husband and wife life. (The article originally contained "Chinese Health", serial number: 2065438+February 2002, by Shao Shijie, and the copyright belongs to the author; The purpose of reprinting is to convey more information, which does not mean that 360 Common Sense Network agrees with its views and is responsible for its authenticity. Please contact us as soon as possible if it involves content, copyright and other issues, and we will delete the content as soon as possible)