First of all, we must create a safe and inclusive atmosphere for our children. After the child is frightened, he may cry, lose his temper or not talk. These reactions are normal. Parents can respect these expressions, spend more time with her, and let her feel concerned and dependent. At this stage, don't force the child to speak, and don't let the child feel pressure because of silence. Just let the child feel at ease.
Secondly, when the child feels safe, parents can start to pay attention to her words and deeds to see if the child is ready to express his feelings. Here, some children like to say directly, "Mom, I'm so scared ..." This phenomenon is very good, reflecting that children are not very depressed. Parents can encourage their children to express their feelings to the fullest, show respect and understanding for their feelings, don't rush to evaluate, just listen carefully.
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However, some children don't like talking at first. They have their own expressions, such as games, paintings, building blocks and so on. Parents can play with her and ask her at the right time: "What does this mean? Why use building blocks to smash puppets? " Suppose the child answers, "Puppets bully people!" The topic can be developed slowly.