The little dolphin woke up after a nap, gently stuck it on my face and gently called her mother. Father Dolphin said, "Mother is not feeling well and is resting." She put her finger to her mouth and said, "Shh ... Mom is too lazy to rest."
At this time, I woke up and patted her back with my hand to express my gratitude. When she saw me awake, she looked wronged, frowned and pursed her lips and said, "Mom is fine. Mom is not feeling well. See a doctor. "
I said, "Mom feels much better now. Thank you for your concern. Mom is very pleased that you can take the initiative to let her see a doctor. " And grin at the child, indicating that he is really in good shape.
When the child saw it, the tension disappeared and a smile appeared on his chubby little face. He said to me gently, Mom, you look beautiful when you smile, just like flowers in spring.
Simple children, every sentence is so sweet. She is not only my sweet little cotton-padded jacket, but also my honey pot.
In an instant, I was moved by the child, tears swirled in my eyes, and my heart was filled with infinite touch and warmth. I held back my tears and held the child in my arms.
This chubby little man is beginning to know how to care about me. Since then, there has been another person in the world who is kind to me from the heart.
Just as our mother and daughter were deeply in love, Dad Dolphin came with Jianweixiaoshi tablets. The child saw it and took it and put it in my mouth. After observing for a while, she began to take the second tablet, and then took the third tablet and put it in my mouth.
Take Jianwei Xiaoshi tablets, three times a day and three tablets at a time. I'm really afraid that she will keep eating them like this and then put the whole tablet in my mouth.
So, I said, "honey, thank you for caring so much about your mother." Your behavior today is a sign of deliberation. My mother is very touched and feels very warm. " But the doctor said not to take more medicine. Three tablets is enough. Can you still be mom's little helper and give mom medicine after dinner? "
The child nodded seriously and answered firmly: OK, Mom.
I know that there is love flowing between me and my children at the moment, and the parent-child relationship is closer. This kind of care from blood relationship, especially the touch brought by a child less than 22 months old, is particularly wonderful.
Love is not a state, but an ability, and my child has enough energy to love me and express her love in words and actions.
At this moment, a voice in my heart reminds me to pay attention to the problem of stomachache, so that I can have more energy and time to accompany my children to grow up slowly.
In the morning, the little dolphin put on his pants by himself. Halfway through, she found two pairs of trousers tucked into one leg at the same time. She said to herself, put it on again.
After that, I took off my pants and put them on again. I saw it, but I still didn't put it on this time. The child was a little anxious and showed an impatient expression. I encourage children to try again.
After two trial and error, the child finally put on his pants and stood up and lifted them up.
Parents should give their children plenty of time and encouragement in the exploration and trial stage. Don't think that children are too slow to replace them, so that children will lose many opportunities to explore and try, weakening their independence.
At noon, the dolphin father plays with the children, listening to children's songs and playing on the swing. He was having fun and the music stopped. She said to her father, Dad, the music is over. Let's have another one.
Her request is very reasonable, and Father Dolphin will carry it out at once.
Father Dolphin told me with a little pride that his daughter is becoming more and more logical. I agree it's true: once, while we were watching Qiao Hu sleeping on the projector, Qiao Hu first appeared on the wall. She said that Qiao Hu came and came out for the second time. She said: Qiao Hu is coming again.
She said such a thing as soon as she opened her mouth. On the one hand, it is influenced by her parents, on the other hand, she pays attention to the use of these words when listening to stories.
Father Dolphin told me that the child is now in a language sensitive period, with strong learning ability and likes to imitate. We should regulate our behavior, pay more attention to what we say and set a good example.
I agree.
Children are copies of their parents. Even for a child over 22 years old, her parents' behavior has a great influence on her.
Father dolphin has strong logical thinking ability. I often ask him questions. Many times, he didn't tell me the answer, but inspired me to think and led me to say what I thought and why I thought so.
My usual sentence pattern is, because ... therefore. ...
One day, the little dolphin was naughty and deliberately pinched me, so I asked her, why did the baby pinch her mother?
The little dolphin said: Because …, so …
Children use this model to test my bottom line and tell me why. It seems that she has a reason to pinch me. Although I had to tell her how I felt afterwards and told her that it was wrong to do so, from another perspective, I was surprised that my child learned the sentence pattern of saying reasons, and I was secretly happy.
April is the reading season, especially suitable for hoarding books. Father Dolphin bought more than a dozen novels on Dangdang. He looked serious when he received the book on the weekend morning.
The little dolphin was very excited to see that his father had bought so many new books. One of them was taken down from the bookshelf locally and began to turn over the books.
Every time she opens a book, she turns to a page and begins to tell a story. Once upon a time, there was a mountain. There was a temple in the mountain. There was a fat monk in the temple. ...
Then change a book: Once upon a time, there was an old man who planted a radish in his yard. ...
Once upon a time, there was a little tadpole who could not find his mother. ...
......
The children read book by book, told story by story, and had a good time, while Father Dolphin and I read our own books.
Suddenly, she put the books on the shelf one by one and told her father to study hard. Turned around and walked up to me and said, mom is with dolphins, mom doesn't read books, and she puts my books on the table and drags me to play.
I discussed with my children whether I could let my mother watch this passage for a while and have some fun. She nodded in agreement and stayed with me. Suddenly, he pointed to the author on the cover and shouted, Grandpa, Grandpa is laughing. I looked at the cover and it turned out to be the author, Steven Covey.
I told my children that grandpa was encouraging his mother to finish reading this book and giving her full positive energy, so grandpa was laughing. Grandpa hopes that the little dolphin can also study hard, so grandpa will be happier.
Hearing this, the little dolphin went to the bookshelf and took a picture book, saying, I want to read it with my parents.
When parents influence their children with practical actions, children can naturally feel a kind of heartfelt strength, and they can imitate and learn from their parents without too many words. In this way, under the subtle influence of parents, good habits have been formed.
Recently, I bathed the little dolphin and found that she was very concerned about whether we were sitting on a stool or not. After several verifications, I know that the child's behavior is the performance of the sensitive period of order.
Every time I put her in the bathtub, she reminds me: Mom, sit on the stool. If I don't sit down, she will be unhappy and even cry. She will be very happy after I sit on the stool. Then the attention will shift to other things, such as playing with the boat in the basin seriously and rubbing bubbles on the body seriously.
In addition to letting mom and dad sit on the stool when taking a shower, she also has certain requirements for the placement of items. She will be unhappy if the items she put are moved or misplaced.
A sense of order is a child's need, and when it is satisfied, the child will have real happiness.
Therefore, it is necessary to satisfy children in their sensitive period of order, regulate their behavior here, give her ample opportunities to arrange toys and articles, cultivate their order and help them establish an orderly environment.
After raising children for more than 2 1 month, it is increasingly found that raising children is like solving a seemingly difficult but actually interesting math problem. In fun, as parents, we need to pay painstaking efforts and energy.
We should recognize and thank the children for their good performance. Observe children carefully, find their bright spots, and give more encouragement and help even if there are shortcomings; It is necessary to understand the growth law of children, satisfy their curiosity and let them explore; At the same time, we should standardize our own language and behavior and create a warm and harmonious family environment for our children.