Xiaofeng insisted on a divorce. After two years of marriage, I suffered from domestic violence for the first time, and I couldn't stand the cruelty and cruelty of my husband. It all originated from a small matter.
Her husband is eight years older than Xiaofeng, and the conditions of both families are very average. After graduating from college, Xiaofeng went to the society alone, from a novice in the workplace to a foothold in society, largely thanks to her husband's support and help. Before getting married, they respected each other, were simple and happy, and their affection for each other gradually deepened until they had the idea of getting married.
However, love can only enjoy a relationship with good feelings, but once it enters marriage, the details and contradictions of life often test the feelings of husband and wife.
Xiaofeng's husband is an "affordable person" and he is good at living. All the expenses at home are arranged very properly, so he has saved enough down payment for the house after working for many years. After everything was ready, Xiaofeng and her husband finally got married. Xiaofeng was still very happy two months ago.
The young couple are very clever. They won't bother anyone to take care of their children. Xiaofeng resigned as a full-time wife, and her husband concentrated on making money to take care of the family. But just a few days ago, Xiaofeng, who had no experience with a baby, caught a cold and only got better these days. The country mother-in-law was so distressed that she went to town to see her granddaughter the next day.
After all, my mother-in-law is 70 years old this year. Xiaofeng knew that her mother-in-law was going home, and specially informed her husband to take a half-day off to meet her at the station. But as soon as I got home, my husband began to get a little unhappy.
"Mom, you have a strange smell. Aren't you afraid to transmit germs to your children when you go home? I told you, the child has recovered almost, and he still has to find something to run to the city. " The husband said.
At this moment, the mother-in-law has neglected her son's nagging. Of course, it is important to see her granddaughter. When she was happy, her mother-in-law reached out and hugged her child. Xiaofeng's husband immediately refused and swore.
"Mom, you are sick, the more you live, the more confused you are. Do you still want to have children when you are dirty? Dream on, hurry home, the child is too young to withstand the tossing of strangers. " The husband scolded his mother again.
A man's ability to deal with feelings is really obvious in his attitude towards his mother. So advise those women who are going to get married: If you really love a man, you should be responsible for his marriage. Even if you have the cheek, you should go to your boyfriend's house to see his attitude towards his family. Maybe you will judge whether he has the ability to love you.
My mother-in-law was sad and scolded by her son. She turned away with tears in her hands. But Xiaofeng really can't stand it. My mother-in-law is old, and the old man just wants to see her granddaughter. Besides, even if the child is delicate, can you be polite as a son? Xiaofeng quickly caught up with her mother-in-law with her child in her arms, and her mother-in-law took her child for a stroll in the shade of the community for a while.
When I got home, my husband changed his face and pointed at her nose and insulted: "What are you?" Really don't treat me like a man in this family? It's just right that the child is ill. You bring my mother home at this time. I think you did it on purpose. Do you care? If you think about it, live it. If you don't want to, leave this house and get a divorce! "
After that, the husband picked up the remote control on the coffee table and smashed it on Xiaofeng's forehead. She seems to be more awake in pain and her marriage can't be settled. What she can't stand most is that as a man, she is so unfilial to her mother, she doesn't know what love is and what relatives are, and she can't learn to be considerate of others.
The words of her husband's beating and cursing gave Xiaofeng the courage and determination to divorce completely.
I always believe that a man who can't even handle his family well can't manage a good marriage. The attitude towards feelings is often irrelevant to people and does not know how to be filial. How can you understand true love and dedication? Is a man who doesn't know how to pay still qualified to run a marriage? Therefore, whether a man can give his wife happiness depends on whether he understands the truth that filial piety is the first virtue.
At the same time, for a domestic violence husband, the wife's good practice is divorce.