The first batch of post-90 s mothers are almost 30 years old in a blink of an eye. Unbelievable, but it's true. Many post-90s mothers are complaining about their mother-in-law's problems. However, many people can't imagine what it would be like to become a mother-in-law after 20 years. Is it not as good as their mother-in-law now?

Being a mother-in-law after 90, these four things are similar? Are you sure? Every generation has its own characteristics, and so does the post-90s generation. Through the performance of this group of people now, we can know that these four things are similar when they become mother-in-law after 90? Are you sure? Yes

1, resolutely live differently.

Now after 90, I don't want to live with my mother-in-law after marriage. Then, 20 years later, after I have a daughter-in-law, how can I be willing to live with her? Therefore, in this regard, they almost resolutely disagree. Even if you rent a house, you want to have your own life after 90.

2. If you can pay, you won't contribute.

Secondly, the concept of the post-90 s mother-in-law is that if she can pay, she will not contribute. People born after 1990 are Buddhists, especially those who have struggled for decades. If their son's child is born, they want to help as much as possible within their limited ability, but they also want the child to be independent and don't want to be trapped by their grandchildren in their later years.

3, barren

The post-90s generation is under pressure to have children, so after 20 years, if their children get married, they will definitely not have children. How can the post-90 s who suffered from it impose this idea on their children? Especially in such an enlightened era, Dink is normal. It's your decision to have a baby. This is everyone's understanding of the family, and it is a personal matter. There is no need to interfere.

4, young couple, can't interfere.

In addition, once the children get married, they will basically not interfere with the lives of the young couple after 90, and try to enjoy their old age as much as possible. As long as their son and their young husband and wife don't interfere, they will never interfere. If you don't enjoy life in your later years, it seems boring to fall into these troubles.

After 90, my mother also has her own ideas. Netizen 1: I will be a mother-in-law in the future and give him everything I should give him. We old couple go out to travel everywhere, and I don't care about the young couple. It doesn't matter whether they have children or not, even if they don't. We don't need to carry on the family line, so they are happy.

Netizen 2: If my son and daughter-in-law are willing to live with us in the future, then we will live with him. If the son and daughter-in-law don't want to, let them move out, see their own ideas, and insist on being casual. With this, there will be fewer contradictions in the future.

Netizen 3: If my son gets married, I will retire by then, and they want me to help him with the children, then I will help him. If they don't want to, then I will enjoy life, ok?

In fact, if you become a mother-in-law after 90, you will be more casual and will not force your child to do anything. In many ways, you will get along better with your children, but the real situation will not be known until 20 years later.