Lesson one
If you want to chase a girl, of course, you must first know the phone number of the girl Hai, and then you must have that meaning to her.
Send a message: I enjoyed chatting with you last time. Can I invite you out to chat again?
Note: If the girl agrees, it will take some thought to find a place, which can be a quiet bar, and don't go to the restaurant for the time being.
Lesson 2
Don't forget to send a short message when you get home from the date: Nice talking to you and looking forward to seeing you again. Good Night!
Let her know that you are a sweet person. You can send her an interesting message the next day. For example:
1. This is the panda's birthday. He was asked what his wishes were. The giant panda said: I have two wishes in my life. One is to find a Chinese doctor to get rid of my dark circles, and the other is to take a color photo.
2. I am Yuanmou from Yunnan, and you are from Zhoukou, Beijing; I hold your furry hand and bite it gently. Love, let's walk upright.
Let her know that you are a humorous person.
Note: Don't make dirty jokes!
Lesson 3
Girls are vain. You can send some messages like this at ordinary times:
1, I think what you are wearing today is very special and cute.
2. Seeing your beautiful skirt today will make my eyes fall.
Don't be stingy with your description of beauty, be as beautiful as you want.
Lesson 4
I've been in contact for a while, and it's time for you to present your treasure. Please the girl you like with your short message.
1, (hint) If there is an afterlife, let's be mice, love each other stupidly, live stupidly, snuggle up and be silly together.
2. (Warm reminder) Are you busy? Nothing, I just want to tell you that I miss you in a way that doesn't bother you. I hope that when you receive my message, you will have a smile on your lips and let your friends around you know that you are happy.
3. (Ask her to answer the question) Do you know what I am doing? Give you five choices: a, miss you; B, I miss you very much; C. I miss you very much; D, don't think that you can't; E. all of the above.
4. (Issue weather forecast) Tomorrow's minimum temperature 1 degree and maximum temperature1degree. Let me tell you: caring about the weather means caring about you. Don't forget to add another dress (XX, yourself).
Lesson Five
The advantage of texting is to say what you usually dare not say to your face. Even if she is sour, girls like sweet talk and care about others. But pay attention to the following matters:
1, the number is small, girls should not like the boys in their mother-in-law's house, are you tired of being around you all day?
2. Don't always send short messages copied online, but use your own thinking.
3, occasionally it rains for three days and dries the net for two days, playing hard to get. After repeated SMS bombardments, I suddenly stopped texting for a day or two. When your message becomes a part of a girl's life, she will wonder why you didn't send me a message today. When she sends you a text message, no matter what she says, you're halfway there.
4. After giving you enough SMS care, the first message a girl sends you is often complaining, such as I'm bored to death, I'm about to collapse, I'm depressed, and so on. Hey, hey, what are you waiting for? Girls need success most, so encourage her quickly: in fact, the sky is blue, clouds will always disperse, in fact, the sea is not wide, this shore is even the other shore, in fact, tears are sweet. I want you when your heart wants it.
How do boys chase girls?
It's too easy for boys to chase girls. After reading this article, you will become an expert.
Don't say anything until it's ripe. Some boys have only dated people a few times, and then they propose to establish further relationships. Nine times out of ten, this will spoil the soup. The beauty of love is that you don't have to say anything. Clear, clear, but not beautiful. Originally, people were willing to come out and talk to you alone, indicating that girls have a good impression on you. But sometimes you can't even say it yourself, but you are eager to point it out and destroy this hazy beauty, so don't blame others for staying away. Look around at the love that died before it started. Many of them are caused by boys not mastering the temperature.
Put your fist away for a better attack. What if the girl refuses? Some people say that we should pursue hard and persevere. Actually, it is not. Unless you are a person who doesn't care about anything, it is hard for you to bear the dirty eyes of girls and the mocking eyes of peers. Why don't you stop and take a break? This not only protects your dignity, but also leaves a way out, thus creating opportunities for future counterattacks. Let her wander in the crowd ... >>
Question 2: What should I talk to the girl I just met? Many times, chatting with people will face the problem of how to find a topic. When women start to compete for you, a woman will even be deeply proud that you finally chose her. When a woman starts to be jealous, she suddenly finds herself afraid of losing you. It is also mentioned in the classic article "Bad Boys Tell You How to Attract Girls". I have to mention here that if you have a girlfriend, you will undoubtedly label yourself as "love rat". Therefore, you also need to grasp the scale.
I remember many years ago, when I was still studying in college, my young friend fell in love with a school goddess. This goddess is an art major. She is not only amazing in appearance, but also versatile. Unfortunately, when I met her, she already had a boyfriend.
However, I didn't have much scruples at that time. Just in an accidental meeting, I held the goddess' hand tightly. At that time, the goddess was not disgusted with me. I thought I was secretly promised and immediately confessed to the goddess.
So, like many familiar endings, the goddess said, I have a boyfriend and we can still be friends.
When I was young, I was at a loss and had to leave in anger.
Learn from a painful experience and think that this is the end with the goddess. It happens that the goddess has a girlfriend around her, and the relationship is not bad. In my spare time, I chat with her online. One to two, the goddess girlfriend hinted that I could have dinner together when I was free. Although this girlfriend looks worse than the goddess, Amigo has nothing to do, so she immediately agreed.
Unexpectedly, when I had dinner with the goddess' best friend and talked and laughed together, I met the goddess who missed me so much. At that time, I just said hello casually and went back by myself.
But then things turned around unexpectedly. Just half an hour later, I received a message from the goddess. Today, after 10 years, Amigo still clearly remembers the content of the short message: "I found that I like you."
Of course I was in heaven, and that night I found the goddess. That night, the goddess officially became my girlfriend. He also said that he would be separated from his senior boyfriend.
At that time, I just lamented that there were many good things, and I didn't understand why the goddess changed so much. It was not until many years later that I was immersed in dating science and culture that I woke up the dreamer with a sentence: "jealousy is the shortcut to attraction, and pain is the medicine of love."
Recently, I have always participated in many social circle activities organized by training camps. Participants in these social circle activities are all my offline students. After the course, such internal activities can help students better expand their female resources and pick up girls in social circles. And I am often the organizer of these activities.
We can't skip the topic here.
And whenever I take part in such activities, I often bring my real girlfriend.
However, although there is a girlfriend sitting on the side, it does not seem to prevent some stories from happening. I always get the glad eye or positive hints from some girls around me.
For example, at a party, a Chinese-Russian mixed-race beauty suddenly leaned her head on my shoulder when her girlfriend was away. After her girlfriend came back, she deliberately defiantly fed me in front of her. Of course, I'm not stupid enough to respond.
For another example, at a party, a female fitness instructor with a figure of * * * secretly took me to the balcony and said to me, "Actually, I liked you at first, but it's a pity that you have a girlfriend now." Then he looked at me expectantly.
At another party, a girl whispered to me, "Every time you come out to play, bring your girlfriend. We'll have fun without a girlfriend next time. " Of course I know what she means. Until another party, when the atmosphere of the party reached hi, the girl pointed to her best friend and whispered to me, "Monica and I have a good relationship and have always wanted to try flying together." Will you come with us tonight? " In the face of such a direct and hot invitation, Amigo, who has been through many battles, is also somewhat impatient. ......
There are countless similar situations about how to find a topic when chatting with people.
In social circles, I always have my own way of pursuing girls. In social circles, such as ktv parties, knock-on parties, cocktail parties and nightclubs, it is easy to build attraction. For details about the operation of social circles, you can pay attention to my article two years ago.
......& gt& gt
Question 3: How to chat with the girl you just met? As a girl, my empiricism proves that when a girl praises a boy for being cute, it proves that the first feeling is good, so you should be positive. For example, send her a WeChat greeting when you are free. Nothing to say. Can I invite you to dinner? Are you busy? Wait, wait, wait a series of words. Of course, you can also find some interesting things around you to tell her, such as what you did today (girls will think you are so stupid and cute, at least they won't associate you with the word pervert). Of course, the most old-fashioned but useful method is that you search some funny jokes online (I didn't ask you to search colorful jokes) and then send them to her on WeChat. I heard a funny joke today and shared it with you. Usually, girls will reply to you, and then you can take the opportunity to continue to open the topic. It is also important to say some sweet words often. At the beginning, you can evaluate her dress taste or something (girls laugh and flatter). Next, you can praise her. I think you are the simplest and kindest girl I have ever met. At the stage of being friends, you can often introduce topics intentionally or unintentionally. I think who can marry a girl as good and kind as you? It's really a blessing to marry you in the future (don't be too disgusting, girls like to listen to disgusting words) ......................................................................................................
Question 4: When is the right time to chat with the girl you just met? Before, the famous girl Tango mentioned in Bad Boys: How to chat with a girl you just met? Chatting is an important step in establishing contact. If you have a good chat, it will be smooth sailing. Maybe the next girl will let you do whatever you want. If you can't talk well, you can only be rejected or even slapped by girls. If you want to be a man who attracts women, you must learn how to chat skillfully.
Many people met beautiful MM by chatting up, and left each other's phone numbers in a hurry, but they didn't know how to further communicate and understand, so even if they left their phone numbers, it was useless and a waste of energy. Some people take the initiative to send messages and make phone calls, but because of the wrong method, the opportunity is wasted. So how to strike up a conversation and chat with a girl you just met?
Because the sense of security established by the person who strikes up a conversation will not be very high, it is definitely not advisable to enter the pursuit procedure immediately after knowing each other.
Before talking about the correct SMS chat mode, list some wrong SMS chat modes:
1. Household registration management type: "Hello, my name is xxx, I work in yyy, from zzz. Nice to meet you. " It's not like a person, it's a computer program. )
2. Cut to the chase: "Are you free for dinner today?" (Too anxious, no bedding, girls generally don't like it, of course, there are also very manly people who will be willing. )
3. Be caring and attentive. "Tomorrow the lowest temperature 1 degree, the highest temperature 13 degrees. Caring about the weather means caring about yourself. Don't forget to add one more dress. " Do we know each other? )
4. Joke: "Chimpanzees accidentally stepped on a bench pulled by gibbons. After the gibbon cleaned it gently and carefully, they fell in love. When asked how they got together, the chimpanzee said with emotion: ape dung! It's all ape dung! " Forwarding humorous news is a low-level performance that makes everyone laugh. )
5. Narcissism: "If one day you feel tired, as long as you turn around, my blessing will be by your side. No matter how far away, no matter how many years, this blessing will turn into a blue star, flashing in the morning, flashing in the sunset and flashing in every corner of your life." (mental derangement! )
6. Ask endlessly: "What should I do?" (Watching TV) "What program are you watching?" (If you are the one) "Is it interesting?" (Not bad) "What should I do after reading it?" (... the woman finally stopped answering her text messages)
What's more, it drags English: "Hey, what are you doing now? Close your eyes and I will be by your side, thinking of you day and night!" " (I don't comment)
If you have done these stupid things, please read on.
When it comes to how to send text messages to unfamiliar girls correctly, we must first understand the differences in thinking between the two sexes.
Sasha and Fangfang are together
Sasha: "I saw a skirt in Xidan yesterday. It was beautiful."
Fangfang: "I saw a windbreaker in Dongdan the day before yesterday, and I like it very much."
Sasha is with her boyfriend.
Sasha: "I saw a skirt in Xidan yesterday. It was beautiful."
Boyfriend: "How much is it?"
For millions of years, men have been quietly waiting for prey in the grass, and women have been chatting with children in caves. Men and men cooperate because of a clear goal, and then start to act silently after consultation. It is normal for women and women to get together because of the common situation and talk about each other's state and feelings. Therefore, men are projection thinking and women are mapping thinking. Until today, we will see that two men can go fishing without saying a word, but they can squat by the pond for an afternoon; Two women go shopping, even if they don't buy anything, they will talk all day.
Look at the examples of Sasha and Fangfang.
Sasha: "I saw a skirt in Xidan yesterday. It was beautiful." (where to see something, this is the state; What is particularly beautiful is the feeling. )
Fangfang: "I saw a windbreaker in Dongdan the day before yesterday and liked it very much" ... >>
Question 5: What is the topic to talk with the girl you just met? How to chat with girls? What are the topics of chatting with girls on qq? Bad boy college-helps you quickly master dating skills and make the girl you like like like you! Many brothers have asked this question, and it is nothing new. Since there is demand, it means that everyone has not mastered it, and the second pulse of Ren Du, who is chatting with his girlfriend, has not been opened. Then, I will give you some thoughts today, which is also grounded. If you feel good, you feel top-notch. Just praise it:
1, how to chat with girls?
What are the topics of chatting with girls on qq? As long as you have read the content on this topic, you can basically find the idea of chatting. First of all, you should sound out what she is interested in, and then expand her interest points. Don't always try to find a topic, because when you run out of topics prepared in advance, you will be embarrassed. The above methods are applicable to 70% girls, because people are diverse and girls are diverse. Some girls still can't find a girl after you have exhausted all the methods in college. This is not to say that the method of picking up girls in the cheats is useless or that you are not attractive, because communication must be both sides. If you have been stirring up the topic of chat, and she has been indifferent and has made no substantive progress, it still won't work. If this happens, change your goal decisively.
Let's talk about how to chat with girls on the ideological level with grounded gas: note that this is very practical, just like science and engineering and liberal arts, you need to operate here instead of memorizing.
First of all, how to chat with girls? Psychologically, let yourself not be afraid to talk to girls.
It's nothing. You see how hot people talk to girls. You can do it. You must believe that this is the first step to success.
Secondly, how to chat with girls? Here's how to talk to them.
If you meet MM online, take the initiative to say hello: OK, hehe ~ ~ and so on, it depends on the situation and the object. A polite person will reply and ask: What are you doing? What are you playing? Let's see how she responds. If she says she is playing games, chatting and watching movies, you can use the message she gave you to put forward your ideas, such as "Hey, you like this, I like it", so that both sides feel that they have something in common! !
Then put forward your own views. If it happens that she is also interested, it means that you are half successful! ! After surfing the Internet, I will take chatting with her as exercise. After a while, I will have experience. I will talk to other girls slowly (if you have a girl you like, use this trick). If you still want to ask: how to chat with girls, hehe, I can only help you stop, I wish you a long road in Xiu Yuan ~ ~
2. What are the topics of chatting with girls on 2.qq?
This section tells you the topic of chatting with girls on qq. Many people want to know how to pick up girls, but they want to pick up girls and can't chat. This is a big failure. Mastering the topic of chatting with girls is very helpful for chasing girls. A man who really knows how to chat with girls must be a master at picking up girls.
What are the topics of chatting with girls on qq? For example:
(1) greetings. Start your qq chat topic with an initial greeting.
There are four seasons in a year: spring, summer, autumn and winter. Every season has different characteristics and different environments. There are too many greetings and topics.
(2) Identity
According to the local identity characteristics, qq chat topics will be launched. If the other person is a student, then you can talk about things like going to school, and the campus-style love story begins. . .
(3) Interest
Interest is the best teacher to pick up girls. When you have the first two foundations, then you probably know TA's hobbies. At this time, taking the initiative to talk about your common topic is a kind of collusion.
(4) Keywords
How to chat with girls online? How to chat with strange women in QQ? If you know each other for the first time and don't know anything, if you know each other, but because you are really lazy, you don't want to explore chat topics and learn chat skills, then you should pay attention to girls replying to your messages and extracting keywords from them. A keyword is a qq chat topic.
What are the topics of chatting with girls on qq? The topic skills of chatting with girls can actually be seen in the previous article. The qq chatting skills of dry goods and girls-six-style bad boy college-help you quickly master the dating skills and make the girls you like like like you! ...& gt& gt
Question 6: How to chat with the girl you just met? What should I say? Ask her what her hobbies are and what she likes to do at ordinary times, and then you say that I am the same, so good at fate and so on.
Question 7: What should a girl you just met talk to her? First of all, you should know more about her, such as where she goes to school, what her major is, what her hobbies are, what activities she likes at ordinary times and so on. Find a common language, and there will be a topic of chat. For example, if you go to school in Nanjing, you should find more topics about Nanjing.
Secondly, find some latest news, even if it is health, beauty, clothing and other topics that girls care about.
There is also taking her to participate in activities, such as parties, travel, movies and so on. You can give full play to the topic according to the content of the activity.
Anyway, the most important thing is to know more about her, and you will know more about natural topics. You can also take the initiative to talk about interesting things in your work and life, and collect more novel jokes and brain teasers. Say a few humorous words when you are free, hehe. There are many ways, and I can't think of anything at the moment. As long as you get along with each other with your heart, you will get better. I wish you success!
Question 8: How to chat with the girl you just met? Take the initiative to ask others, this is a question of masculinity, don't feel embarrassed, you look calm in front of girls, and people still appreciate you a little. On the contrary, you said that seeing the girl you like blushing or speechless will only be looked down upon by others. Be generous and everyone will respect you. I believe you can overcome this psychological problem! Come on! I support you!
Don't ask about your figure, age or job.
Tell me what she likes. For example, she likes literature. Just talk about what you saw today (of course, you could have seen it a few years ago), and then you have to stop and let her talk. A real expert speaker will listen, you should lead others to talk, and then you should listen carefully. )
Face to face, shake hands at first, and then talk about what she likes. You can talk about your understanding of this hobby first, and then she may say. When you listen, you should smile occasionally. Don't be afraid of your ugly smile. No one will refuse a friendly smile. Look at him kindly. Listen carefully. Especially don't shake your legs.
Question 9: What do you talk to the girl you just met? 1. Start with basic interpersonal information and find a topic. Basic information of interpersonal relationship, that is, personal basic information beyond personal privacy, including name, hometown, school, major, interest, experience, etc. When talking about these topics with others, don't ask and answer like an account, but focus on a topic. For example, when we talk about the topic of hometown, we can learn more about the characteristics, humanities, geographical features and so on.
2, from each other's external behavior, looking for a topic. The external behavior here is appearance, accessories, manners and so on. For example, we can talk about hairstyles, glasses, clothes, backpacks, mobile phones, computers and so on.
3. Start with the occupation and find a topic. Generally speaking, talking about topics related to the other person's career, the other person is generally good at and interested in. For example, if the other person is a college student, talk about some campus topics; If the other person is a soldier, talk about some military life; If the other person is a professional, talk about some workplace topics ... but it should be noted that if you are unfamiliar with related topics, you must position yourself as an open-minded seeker and listener instead of boasting.
Question 10: How to chat with the girl you just met? What are the skills? Tango, a well-known pick-up girl, mentioned in "Bad Boys: How to Chat with Girls I Just Met" that chatting is an important step to establish contact. If you have a good chat, it will be smooth sailing. Maybe the next girl will let you do whatever you want. If you can't talk well, you can only be rejected or even slapped by girls. If you want to be a man who attracts women, you must learn how to chat skillfully.
Many people met beautiful MM by chatting up, and left each other's phone numbers in a hurry, but they didn't know how to further communicate and understand, so even if they left their phone numbers, it was useless and a waste of energy. Some people take the initiative to send messages and make phone calls, but because of the wrong method, the opportunity is wasted. So how to strike up a conversation and chat with a girl you just met?
Because the sense of security established by the person who strikes up a conversation will not be very high, it is definitely not advisable to enter the pursuit procedure immediately after knowing each other.
Before talking about the correct SMS chat mode, list some wrong SMS chat modes:
1. Household registration management type: "Hello, my name is xxx, I work in yyy, from zzz. Nice to meet you. " It's not like a person, it's a computer program. )
2. Cut to the chase: "Are you free for dinner today?" (Too anxious, no bedding, girls generally don't like it, of course, there are also very manly people who will be willing. )
3. Be caring and attentive. "Tomorrow the lowest temperature 1 degree, the highest temperature 13 degrees. Caring about the weather means caring about yourself. Don't forget to add one more dress. " Do we know each other? )
4. Joke: "Chimpanzees accidentally stepped on a bench pulled by gibbons. After the gibbon cleaned it gently and carefully, they fell in love. When asked how they got together, the chimpanzee said with emotion: ape dung! It's all ape dung! " Forwarding humorous news is a low-level performance that makes everyone laugh. )
5. Narcissism: "If one day you feel tired, as long as you turn around, my blessing will be by your side. No matter how far away, no matter how many years, this blessing will turn into a blue star, flashing in the morning, flashing in the sunset and flashing in every corner of your life." (mental derangement! )
6. Ask endlessly: "What should I do?" (Watching TV) "What program are you watching?" (If you are the one) "Is it interesting?" (Not bad) "What should I do after reading it?" (... the woman finally stopped answering her text messages)
What's more, it drags English: "Hey, what are you doing now? Close your eyes and I will be by your side, thinking of you day and night!" " (I don't comment)
If you have done these stupid things, please read on.
When it comes to how to send text messages to unfamiliar girls correctly, we must first understand the differences in thinking between the two sexes.
Sasha and Fangfang are together
Sasha: "I saw a skirt in Xidan yesterday. It was beautiful."
Fangfang: "I saw a windbreaker in Dongdan the day before yesterday, and I like it very much."
Sasha is with her boyfriend.
Sasha: "I saw a skirt in Xidan yesterday. It was beautiful."
Boyfriend: "How much is it?"
For millions of years, men have been quietly waiting for prey in the grass, and women have been chatting with children in caves. Men and men cooperate because of a clear goal, and then start to act silently after consultation. It is normal for women and women to get together because of the common situation and talk about each other's state and feelings. Therefore, men are projection thinking and women are mapping thinking. Until today, we will see that two men can go fishing without saying a word, but they can squat by the pond for an afternoon; Two women go shopping, even if they don't buy anything, they will talk all day.
Look at the examples of Sasha and Fangfang.
Sasha: "I saw a skirt in Xidan yesterday. It was beautiful." (where to see something, this is the state; What is particularly beautiful is the feeling. )
Fangfang: "I saw a windbreaker in Dongdan the day before yesterday and liked it very much" ... >>