I remember when I was in college, my parents retired one after another. Mom retired early and did something outside to make a living. I stopped doing it when I was old. She took a pension, stayed at home, played around, played table tennis and played Tai Chi. She was exposed to all kinds of entertainment and she was very happy. Not many of them can stick to it slowly, but the fixed activity that has become the norm so far is singing. Professional singing teachers are hired in the park to teach the old people who like singing. Because of the loud voice, my mother was chosen as the lead singer, which means to lead everyone to sing together. When the teacher is away, she is equivalent to a teaching assistant, leading everyone to review original songs and becoming an indispensable figure in the singing organization. During this period, we should also coordinate various relationships between teachers and classmates, print song books, choose songs and other daily work. Because singing can exercise breath, vital capacity and so on. And it is also very helpful to the body, so she is becoming more and more healthy and optimistic while enriching. Every day when I go home, my mother hums a little song at home. It is conceivable that the atmosphere of the whole family is quite relaxed and happy.

Dad is also in his fifties and retired early for physical reasons. He used to be the leader of a well-known enterprise. After retirement, the whole person is behind the times. At that time, it would take several years to apply for medical retirement. I remember those years, he was in a poor state and didn't want to talk. He is very closed and depressed alone. The whole person is like a bomb. Whoever touches it will explode. Now think about it, because of the long sick leave, it is estimated that there is no income, which is a difficult thing for a man to face. I was still young at that time, and I was puzzled by a person who was full of negative energy and would easily take it out on me. My heart is full of dissatisfaction and complaints, and I feel puzzled. My father was in great need of care and love. Unfortunately, my mother doesn't know how to alleviate this situation, and I don't know what happened. My father and I often drift apart because we can't communicate with each other for a little thing. After slowly applying for a pension, he is still very closed and eccentric. He just goes to the supermarket and cleans the house every day, but he can't find value and existence. Because he always spends money recklessly, my mother is on pins and needles because of this quarrel with him.

In this state, my father was taken over by health care products, so I don't need to say more about the sales methods of health care products. I am kind to others, sweet as honey, and various activities and lectures are bombarded in turn. Small favors such as egg flour are exchanged for extremely favorable but still expensive health care products. Old people still feel benefited a lot. The efficacy of health care products is difficult to measure, so it is because you are in good health. If you are in poor health, you will continue to buy them because you don't have enough food. During this period, my father's pension basically contributed all, and there were many useless equipment at home, such as bottles, mattresses, quilts and other ridiculously expensive magical products. My mother always quarrels about it, but my father's mood is much better than before. I don't know what to say when I go back. I know he has no social activities. He made many friends in these activities, and the side effects of what he ate seemed to be not great. He turned a blind eye, but still worried. Soon, my business here is not good, and I can barely maintain it. Dad also understands that all the money for health care products is saved to help me buy some household items. I'm glad he hasn't fallen into it yet. After a few days, my life became stable. Through years of understanding and experience in health care products, he decided on a health care product selling vinegar. The brand is not convenient to disclose, but I know that vinegar is good for the cardiovascular system (dad's cardiovascular system is very bad). His body is very strong, and I'm glad to see that. At least this vinegar looks much more reliable than other products. In the later days, my father became more and more healthy and became the core figure in the vinegar circle. When he helps to promote sales, he often gives speeches on stage to popularize the daily health care campaign for cardiovascular and cerebrovascular diseases. His circle gradually expanded and became an old man in many people's minds. Some old people who didn't buy vinegar became friends because they got along well with their fathers, and went out to chat and travel together. He often calls many people excitedly, helps to book tickets and goes out to play together. He is very busy.

In this way, day by day changed all dad's states. Now he is full of energy, strong and optimistic. He often goes to the suburbs to pick them, goes out for meetings in other places, and sometimes gives feedback on some health care products. He even wants to buy a lot of furniture for my mother and me. I think my father's confidence is back. His spirit and body are good, and he is very happy.

As a child, I gradually understand the emotions of many parents, especially when I think of their previous bad state. Children always feel that their parents are not good enough, understand enough and support enough, and they will fall into various living conditions and need help. We are used to their selfless dedication, but we turn a blind eye to their situation. People will experience some gullies in their life. There are beautiful days, but also helpless, confused and painful days. Parents may be really at a loss or helpless and unable to take care of their children. This is also my greatest understanding recently. Although I have no children now, I can't understand my parents' mentality, but I already know how much my parents love me. Maybe their own situation is too bad to take care of us. Maybe they can't handle life and take care of us, but their love for us will never change. Please believe that they have done their best to love us.

I love you, too, my parents!