1, dare to prepare for change
Mature people dare to challenge, they can jump out of their comfort zone and maximize their growth opportunities. However, many people are afraid to change themselves. Relevant data show that most people with mental illness dare not change themselves. When a person lives in a comfortable environment for a long time, their skills will stop and will not be improved more effectively.
2, can be flexible
Mature people will have flexible thinking, but also challenge their own inherent thinking, dare to find new ways to solve problems, look for gains in the case of being hit, and argue with another self psychologically. Mature people will not put any negative labels on others, because they will only look for the advantages of others, ignore the shortcomings, and only look for places where they can learn.
3. Keep a positive and optimistic attitude.
Optimistic thinking will make people healthier, work more efficiently, study better, and have a lower chance of suffering from depression. The reason why people with mental health are optimistic is that they will pursue valuable goals and then actively strive for them, which will also have a negative side. As long as this negativity is taken as the driving force, when they encounter difficulties, they can concentrate on the controllable range. Optimistic people can have a strong and mature heart because they will change adversity in difficulties and will not veto themselves because of a mistake in life.
4、? I can control my emotions more and more.
I still won't say a hurtful word when I am extremely angry and disappointed, and I won't make any decisions on impulse. I know my mood will calm down, but I can't take it back if I hurt someone. I didn't realize how painful it was until I was deeply stabbed. Don't do what you don't want others to do to you by jumping around to scold the person you love, which will only make you feel sad and regret afterwards. Those outsiders who annoy you need to do something more practical than meaningless abuse.
5, more and more understand that there is no so-called should in this world.
More and more understand that there is no such thing as "should" in this world. Helping you is good, but not helping you is human. Even parents are good to you for a reason, especially in families with many children, parents can't be completely fair.
6, no longer obsessed with eternity
Understand that everything in the world is constantly changing. I belong to no one, and no one belongs to me. The emotional storm comes at the quietest and most beautiful moment you think. When I love, I spare no effort to live up to my heart. It is the two of us who are sad after breaking up, and he should be the only one who misses me. There is no so-called sunk cost in feelings, only people who care too much about gains and losses.