State-owned enterprise finance, 30 years old, whose family is a prefecture-level leader of a city in the mainland, bought a house at the customs, with a monthly income of not less than 1W, 1W2- 1W5. I like drinking, but I don't like going to bars and night shows. What I like is to take beer out of the refrigerator when I get home from work. Less hanging out in all kinds of night shows, occasional lewdness, and occasional pickup.

When we met in the last two years, I asked, "Did you find it?"

Give him a brilliant wry smile. "Where can I find it?"

The other party immediately continued to smile. "You are the same, just bored at home."

After talking, he was tired of it himself, and many people were tired of it. As far as marriage is concerned, he is a good match. However, in this city, people with a little economic level, who will get married just to get married?

I know his experiences several times. Last year, a little girl from a city hospital talked for three months and broke up. There is a big age gap and a serious generation gap. Most of the time, she doesn't know what the other person is saying. Many times, the other person's behavior is incomprehensible. Ask a financial person who is nearly 30 years old (please think about financial thinking) to accompany her after work every day?

He gave a wry smile. Go ahead. Anyway, I am a good person, but I am lonely occasionally. Oh, it's okay, just occasionally. ...

B jun

Chaozhou people, a hardware seller in Huaqiang North, is 29 years old and handsome. It is estimated that the annual net profit is about 20W (the actual income should be about 50W), and chaozhou people usually gets married earlier. He should be an alien.

It happens every day. This gentleman should be a typical one who can't find a suitable partner because of circle problems. In the early years, money came quickly and teenagers liked to play. All night shows in Shenzhen should have their footprints. Miss Bubble, looking for ONS, time has just flown away.

He was introduced by his family, and none of them liked him. He belongs to the second generation with a certain degree and doesn't like the tradition of continuous marriage in Chaozhou. He keeps telling me that he wants to find a woman in another circle, but unfortunately, all I see are nightclub girls in another circle. Or occasionally some mall salespeople. Speaking of salesgirls in shopping malls, I'll tell you a wonderful story later. )

Nearly 30 years old, he found that he didn't buy a house, and the money was donated to the entertainment circle in Shenzhen. He didn't buy a car because he didn't have time to study. . . . . . Started to panic.

In recent years, I have been busy with some new business, found several suitable projects, devoted myself wholeheartedly, and basically spent every weekend on the construction site outside the customs. Falling in love? I'm afraid there is no time.

He told me faintly, "I'm not interested in dating." The last time I fell in love should be at school. In recent years, I feel that I am mating and mating in order to volatilize hormones. "

When I first arrived in Shenzhen, in order to gain a foothold, I learned skills from my fellow villagers and interspersed among those counters, delivering goods, taking goods, collecting money and repairing them. ...

After a period of stability, I began to consider opening a shop, looking for suppliers, finding a home, keeping accounts and delivering goods every day. ...

The space where people come and go is full of customers and fellow villagers. They go to work at 9 o'clock every morning and get off work at 6 o'clock. After taking a shower, they can pay to see the opposite sex in addition to going to nightclubs. What choice do they have? I once saw him fall in love with a very nice woman in a nightclub. At that time, the public price of that nightclub was about 1K5, and the young lady was a little scheming, 2K, 3K, and she couldn't hold on. Men all have some desire to conquer. He didn't feel bad about spending money at that time.

"5K, go upstairs and get a room."

Miss also followed. ...

After that, he was very happy. He said to me, Brother N, I kind of like that woman, from Hubei. She took me back to the house she rented and felt a little different from other ladies. She invited me to her house for dinner in the evening, and she would cook for me.

I am speechless.

His so-called relationship lasted 1 month. For a month, he bought her about 1W of various things.

One day, we were drinking in that nightclub again. She was ordered to leave. He found her and invited her to our room for a drink. Thirty minutes later, the woman asked him for a tip from 300 yuan. He threw the money on the ground and said, get out. ...

He is 30 years old this year. I wish him find his own happiness as soon as possible.

C female

My friend's MBA classmate, 32, divorced. No children.

When I was young, because of my father, I worked as a department manager in the largest state-owned enterprise in Shenzhen at the age of 26, and it was smooth sailing. At the time of marriage, the other party was an official of a municipal government. At that time, I thought I must be very happy and happy.

29. I found that my beloved half has been pestering her for a long time. Some women have no room for any sand in their hearts.

We talked calmly, and the man said:

"In front of you, I think we are equal, and I love you very much, but more and more, it is a feeling caused by time span. In front of her, I think she needs me to protect her, take care of her and love her. "

Divorced. Quit your job, leave your old work unit, go to school, meet new friends and try a new life.

Not all rich women spend money on men. I'm sure she doesn't know. I talked to some of them. When we chat, we occasionally ask, "Why don't you bring your man?"

She smiled and didn't answer.

In fact, I know that the other person is not from their circle, and she is still young, and she can't define whether she is using money for a relationship.

Doesn't she want to find a man with similar circle, age and income?

Yes, but the other party doesn't want to. Men in the same circle are basically married, and men with the same income like young people.

In my memory, it seems that there were two or three men in her life, but none of them stayed.

I'm over 30 years old, and I haven't tasted the joy of being a mother, so I spend about 3K time regularly going to a club for ovarian maintenance.

What a small world. Once I was drinking with a friend in a Starbucks in Shenzhen, I looked back and saw someone who seemed to be her. I can't recognize it because of my bad eyes. After we got up and left, I deliberately approached. Hey, it's really you.

She smiled. "I was waiting, but I didn't see you."

I smiled. "Come and have a drink with some friends. I won't bother you. "

While speaking, a man appeared beside us, looking honest, carrying a bag, with dark skin and a simple and honest smile. Did she wait? Or is it another unlucky fate joke?

They left, and I saw her hand and shook his.

Friends, remember to be happy.