Children are the source of happiness for every family, and their education is a headache for every family.

We want children to run as fast as rabbits, but forget that children actually have only snail-like bodies and need us to wait for them to grow up slowly.

Keep children as snails and you will understand their difficulties.

I saw a beautiful article and shared it with my anxious parents: Walking with Snails. God gave me a task to take a snail for a walk. I can't walk too fast, the snail has tried to climb. Although only a little at a time. I urged it, I bluffed, I accused it. I saw the snail look at me apologetically, as if to say, "I have tried my best." I pull it, I pull it, I even want to kick it. The snail is hurt. It's sweating, panting, crawling forward ... very strange. Why should I take a snail for a walk? "Oh, my God! Why? " The sky is quiet. "Well, maybe God went to catch snails." All right, let go! God doesn't care anyway. What do I care? I stopped to let the snail crawl forward. I sulked in the back. Huh? At this time, I smelled the flowers. There is a park here. I feel the breeze blowing. The wind at night is so gentle. I also heard birds singing and insects singing, and saw the stars all over the sky, including how bright. Huh? Why haven't I had these experiences before? Did I do something wrong? It turns out that God asked snails to take me for a walk. Educating children is like holding a snail. With children, walk through every moment of children. Children's perspective is unique, and we should also learn to look at the world in TA's eyes from the perspective of children.

Scientific research shows that the brain is mainly influenced by the prefrontal cortex and limbic system. They are like two little people in children's hearts: one is in charge of eating, drinking and having fun; One is responsible for controlling the operation. When children are young, because their brains are not fully developed, play always trumps reason, so they muddle along on things other than play. Only when parents slow down can children get up and dawdle quickly, which is a necessary stage in the process of children's growth. Children need time to develop, explore, think, understand and learn. Instead of urging, it is better to change the way:

If you don't know how to practice, you can try the following methods:

1, accept the children's fooling around?

Raising children is a slow and gradual process. Respect the law of children's growth and be more patient and tolerant. ?

2. Help children establish the concept of time?

Use tools such as watches and alarm clocks to "visualize" the time in children's eyes. Help children to establish specific concepts of one day, one hour and one minute. ?

3. Learn to assign simple and clear tasks to children?

Children are still young, and their memory and understanding can't keep up with adults' thinking. Therefore, it is important to give clear instructions, because the child's reaction is not "I want to hurry", but "What should I do first, and then?" ?

4. Improve children's concentration?

Do some small games, puzzles, building blocks, ball games, etc. , is conducive to improving concentration. Train children's visual attention and gradually change the habit of dawdling. ?

5. appropriately let children experience the "consequences" of dawdling?

For example, if you are late, you will be criticized. If you are late, you have to wait in line for a long time ... Children know the importance of punctuality and will naturally get up soon.