Someone asked: Is it a personality problem that people don't get along well from childhood?

Teacher Qiu Zi replied:

The ancients said, "Do whatever you want, do whatever you want."

People are social people, and they have to deal with people in society every day. Whether it's family, friends or other people in society, as long as you are in contact with them and have all kinds of contacts, you are not alone. So the people you meet are all part of your life activities. No matter the information you receive or the living people, you can't escape them. This is people's social integrity. Therefore, when you associate with them, you should not only consider your own feelings, but also consider each other's feelings. Only when you are in sync with each other's words and deeds and consciousness information field, will you be balanced and both sides can better accept each other's information and communication. If you find that you don't get along well with others and always get along with others within the normal range (legal and moral range), you should examine yourself, learn to find reasons from yourself, find your own shortcomings, and immediately correct them, including whether your "three views" are correct, whether your emotions are always normal, whether your words and deeds are reasonable and legal, whether your frame of reference is narrow, and whether you judge people and harmony. This is called "things are not done right, seek fortune for oneself."