How to live the rest of your life, you can't be careless. It's almost retirement age. If you don't find a way to prepare the necessities for the aged, you will really regret it after 60.

Everything should be prepared to avoid the bleak night scene. People over the age of 50 are prone to encounter the following "four traps" and need to be treated rationally. Keep a clear head, don't blindly pursue the perfection of life, and get rid of the control and entanglement of desire from the bottom of your heart.

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The trap of "true love outside marriage"

Many people realize that there is no true love outside marriage only after divorce. Husband and wife are still a good match.

However, why is extramarital love so beautiful? Why does it make many people tempted? Actually, this is an illusion. When a person encounters an extramarital affair, he actually starts a new love. Although it is not as beautiful as first love, it is really much better than getting married.

When you are in love, two people can talk a lot of nonsense, and they will not be tired or tired. No matter what kind of trouble you encounter, you will not complain to each other, but discuss with each other and shoulder it together.

Marriage is different. The old couple's life is very dull. When it's not dull, it's when you quarrel. "I'm really bored, and I really want a divorce." This idea keeps popping up in my mind.

Some people say, "Marriage is the grave of love."

Love is definitely better than marriage. However, at the age of fifty, can you still meet true love? Extramarital love is often a flash in the pan, often with the nature of deception.

My fifth cousin is 56 years old this year. 53 years old, divorced because of extramarital love. I thought it would be better to form another family, but the other party has been reluctant to marry him.

A bachelor's lover, a divorced woman with children in her forties. Because children need a lot of money to go to school, she pestered her fifth brother to give him money.

In recent years, the fifth man has given tens of thousands of dollars to his lover. The more he thought about it, the more wrong he was, and he broke up with his lover decisively. Of course, money can't be returned, and it can't be returned to the family.

A 50-year-old man who lost his family is likely to have a bleak evening scene. Don't think that "yellow love" is reliable, and don't think that people who keep saying "I love you" are not greedy for money at all.

"Young couples always keep company" is an old saying, but it is really useful. The noisy days passed quickly, and from the age of 60, it is happiness to grow old together.

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The trap of "being unsociable is a blessing"

"Being alone is one's pleasure", are you fascinated by this sentence? A person who has time to read can live a quiet life. In a bustling city, you can still be alone or even go your own way.

Reality tells you that loneliness is temporary, not eternal. Truly happy people are gregarious, have high emotional intelligence and are good at dealing with people.

At the gate of the community where I live, there is an old man, Uncle Wang, who lives alone. Uncle Wang's wife has been dead for many years, but he is not alone at all.

Uncle Wang has a fruit shop downstairs, and the owner is a middle-aged couple. When uncle Wang was bored, he went to the fruit shop to help, free of charge.

Now, Uncle Wang regards the fruit shop as his home, and his life is busy. Of course, this couple is also very kind to Uncle Wang. Last winter, Uncle Wang was hospitalized for a month because of a recurrence of an old injury, and they were all taking care of him.

Since Uncle Wang was "busy", his son has lost a lot of worries, and he is much more at ease when he goes out to start a business.

Uncle Wang also joined an erhu band and often went to group activities. He is also very cheerful and has many friends.

Blind pursuit of "unsociable" is not a good thing. Old people often get together with three or five friends, and being greeted is a blessing.

Therefore, it is also a trap for people over 50 to pursue unsociable. People need to live in groups and be taken care of by others. It's hard to die alone.

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The trap of "money makes the mare go"

Some people say, "when people are over 50, it is not reliable to raise children, or to rely on houses, money and wives."

Many people take money seriously and think that with money, they have everything. So at the age of 50, it is common to work hard, start a business hard, work overtime and stay up late, and it is also common to accompany customers to drink hard.

In fact, health is the greatest wealth when people are over 50. A person who loses his health loses everything.

"Snakes swallow elephants", greed for money often makes a person lose himself, get carried away, and even do something whimsical.

Give up the desire for money, keep healthy and exercise, and you will be happier in your later years. A rich man in a wheelchair is certainly not as happy as an ordinary runner.

What's more, in order to make money, some people fall into the trap of "greedy for small and cheap, eating big losses", which is really worrying.

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The trap of "resignation"

Fifty people know the destiny. After 50, fate is a foregone conclusion. Even if you try to change it, there is nothing you can do.

More and more people believe that "everything is life, and nothing can be helped by people". In fact, for fate, many people "only know one thing and don't know another."

One should accept one's fate, not resign oneself to fate, but recognize one's own destiny, find the crux of its development, adjust one's direction in time, and then try to change it.

Seeing fate clearly is to change it, not let it go. For a 50-year-old man, if his fate is still bitter, then he should try to change it. It's not too late from now on.

Pushkin said: "If life deceives you, don't be sad or impatient!" " ! Melancholy days need peace: believe in it and happy days will come! "

From the age of 50, it is definitely too late to prepare materials and money for the elderly, protect and take care of their families.

Life, understood by conventional thinking, will often come to a deadlock, break the routine and keep a clear head, and any difficulties can be solved.

Author: coarse grains in cloth.

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