I used to think that I would never forgive her when I was at the bottom, but now, I not only forgave her, but also thanked her, which made me understand what the most painful feeling was and why my friend was so painful at that time.

Talking about people with high emotional intelligence 1 First, a good marriage must be a win-win situation for two people with high emotional intelligence and progress. A man with high emotional intelligence can inspire women's tenderness and worship; A man with low emotional intelligence can force a gentle woman to be unruly.

Second, people with high emotional intelligence are good at praising others, and this kind of praise is sincere from the heart. People who see the advantages of others will make faster progress, and those who always find fault with others will stand still and regress.

Third, it is difficult to be a smart person. My brain is going to become a person with high emotional intelligence, which seems to tear a lot of brain cells. Hang in there for a while. Come on.

Fourth, it feels good to open your eyes and see the world. Learn more knowledge and know more people. High emotional intelligence and hard work are really important things. Of course, there is also a healthy body. Only when you are full of energy can you do the first two.

If possible, who doesn't want to be a person with high EQ and IQ? I want to, but I can't. I also want to hear a few implied meanings from a sentence, but I can't hear them.

6. At one time, I thought others respected me because I was excellent. I gradually understand that others respect me because others are excellent. Excellent people know how to respect others. Respecting others is actually respecting yourself. The higher the level, the higher the emotional intelligence, and the more respect they have. At the same time, a person who knows how to respect others is often an excellent person.

Seven, sometimes the so-called "high emotional intelligence" is greasy and smooth, and I don't want to do anything hypocritical, and I don't want to worship the wine that is unnecessary to drink. Sometimes it is really disgusting to see these so-called "high emotional intelligence" people. It is really tiring to perform with you. Fortunately, this is a free society, and I don't need to be so sad. I don't care who you fly to in the sky!

When will Leo marry me? Leo held a 18 birthday party in Shanghai today. The versatile Leo performed dancing, sword dancing and singing for everyone. The audience applauded, and more female fans confessed on the spot: "When will you marry me?" Leo with high emotional intelligence replied, "I brought my parents to the scene today, so we have met my parents." When asked, will it be public if you fall in love?

Nine, even if you have a high IQ and a low EQ, you can't be perfect in the eyes of others. People with high emotional intelligence will never complain about others, nor will they lose face in front of so many people.

Ten, people with high emotional intelligence dare to do it, do not shirk their responsibilities, encounter problems, analyze problems and solve problems. A person who faces up to his own strengths or weaknesses and dares to take responsibility.

Eleven, independent, rational thinking, distinguish between right and wrong, insightful and decisive, know when to fight, when to stop, and know how to realize your demands. These are the true manifestations of high emotional intelligence, which can make you think clearly in an orderly way in your work and life and grow into an excellent person. With my own strength and high emotional intelligence, I can get a promotion and salary increase faster than others, and my love life is also happy.

12. Emotional intelligence is the sum of people's ability to cope with all relationships, including the relationship between people and themselves, others and the environment: in this relationship map, people with high emotional intelligence can make themselves more comfortable and will not fall into negative energy emotions; Furthermore, a comfortable relationship can be better managed in human feelings, workplace, family and love; Even in a huge group, it can infect others positively.

Thirteen, people with high emotional intelligence do not criticize, blame others, complain or complain. In fact, complaining and blaming are both bad emotions and contagious. People with high emotional intelligence only do meaningful things, not meaningless things. Only when you have a dream in your heart can you see the distance. If you have a road in your heart, you can walk steadily.

Another sign of maturity is calmness. You won't argue over a disagreement. Stimulating a red-faced argument loudly will make you lose more points. On the contrary, it makes more sense to listen to the other person's unreasonable and emotional finish. Even if your point of view is a little flawed. It will also make people more inclined to you because of your calmness. To be a person with high emotional intelligence, you only need to say a word or two when necessary, instead of bragging in the audience!

I wonder why a person with high emotional intelligence can be liked by so many people. Let me start with one of my high school classmates. She is a girl with soft light, long eyelashes, love to laugh and excellent learning. There are many girls who like her, and more boys who secretly love her. Like many excellent people, although she has strong self-control and told herself to study hard and keep her original track, after the college entrance examination, she still fell into the whirlpool of love, but unfortunately she didn't meet the right person. This relationship deeply hurt her, and she was misunderstood by people around her. Sadness flooded her, and she deleted everyone she added, cut off contact with the outside world, and healed her wounds. After a while, she reapplied for a qq number and added friends she thought were credible. Starting all over again, I went to college, a new environment, new friends and a more mature self, and my life gradually came alive. ...

Sixteen, as long as you have hope, anything can happen, of course, the premise is that you are a person with high IQ and emotional intelligence, with a lot of knowledge and perseverance.

Seventeen, like to make friends with people with high emotional intelligence. People with high EQ know how to socialize, how to play in a certain circle and need to learn.

Eighteen, people with high emotional intelligence are full of enthusiasm for life, work and feelings. Mobilize your positive emotions and let good emotions accompany you every day. Don't let bad emotions affect your life and work. Good Night!

Nineteen, and people with high emotional intelligence, they always know their goals in the process of communication, and will never become slaves to emotions.

20. I think the greatest advantage of William Chan is that she is strong and gentle at heart. Persistence and stubbornness in what you want to do, as well as sincerity, delicacy and high emotional intelligence in solving/answering questions are perfect. In fact, I think people with this personality will probably be excellent in any line of work. Just like my signature, I want to be as strong and tough as William Chan, not tough.

2 1. EQ is an art that needs long-term study. Thank people with high emotional intelligence in life.

Twenty-two, talk with people with high emotional intelligence in the middle of the night. I feel that Jia's emotional intelligence has been very low since the incident, but it's good to have you!

Twenty-three, high emotional intelligence seems to be easy for many people to say smoothly, but people with low emotional intelligence really envy those who are born with high emotional intelligence, either intentionally or naturally, which is really useful in life.

24. I really found that people's emotional intelligence is high, and you will be comfortable only if you show it to people with emotional intelligence. For example, after you ask a question, you can say, "I don't know if I made it clear this time." If you think this is a high emotional intelligence, people will understand. Some people will only answer "What did you say in that place?" They especially hate the excellent quality given to me by higher education, or call me dad if you really want to play. What Buddhism department is popular now? I want it.

25. Some things are really difficult to balance. When I can't control my emotions, some people say that people with high emotional intelligence need to learn to control their emotions. When I control my patience, some people say that you need to have some temper, so that no one dares to bully you. When you are emotional, some people say that it is difficult to achieve great things with such emotions. When I am rational, some people say that you will be more lovely if you are emotional!

Twenty-six, people with high emotional intelligence keep a good mood every day, get up every morning, give themselves a smile, encourage themselves, tell themselves that they are the best, tell themselves that they are the best, and friends around them like themselves very much.

Twenty-seven, don't quarrel with your partner, or those who know how to ease the relationship quickly after quarreling are all people with high emotional intelligence. But I am unlucky to meet such a fool with low emotional intelligence!

Twenty-eight, drinking is a romantic thing. Having a few drinks with people with high emotional intelligence is enjoyment, and being drunk by people with low emotional intelligence is torture.

Twenty-nine, you should learn to be stupid, not too smart. People with high emotional intelligence and wisdom like me will inevitably be influenced by external factors, so we must learn to be stupid!

Thirty, watching the male god live the WeChat business, I found that the WeChat business is better than pyramid schemes. I always thought that he was a person with high emotional intelligence, but he eventually degenerated, and he was discounted in my mind. In fact, his life has nothing to do with me. Naturally, someone cooperated with his performance. ~ I'm just saying ~

Talking about people with high emotional intelligence II. How do people with high emotional intelligence say goodbye?

1. Don't say hurtful things when breaking up.

When breaking up, no matter how wronged and angry you are, don't say anything embarrassing to the other party. On the one hand, during your time with him, he must be very kind to you, so you should still be grateful.

On the other hand, saying something ugly will make you look low. When you mention this to friends around you, you will inevitably use the same tone, and friends will feel embarrassed. It is not appropriate to agree or disagree with you.

Now that we have broken up, just accept it.

2. Simply breaking up will not have a good result.

It is human nature to miss each other after breaking up, but you would rather bury that miss in your heart than take the initiative to talk to each other, because it is meaningless and not mature. I believe that at the moment when you both agree to break up, you should be ready to live alone.

Forgetting someone is a painful process, but if you don't get through it alone, you will never grow up and you will never really get out of that relationship.

3. Don't return what the other party gave you when you break up.

I don't know whether TV drama imitates real life or real life is reflected in TV drama. Many couples will give back what the other party once gave when they break up.

They think that they are doing this to get rid of the relationship with each other completely, or to leave no way out for themselves, but in fact it is very unworthy and inhuman.

Second, the way men with high emotional intelligence break up

1. Two people together, just torture each other. We should learn to let go and live well.

Of course, maybe two people didn't know each other that well before they got together. At this time, they may be full of expectations for each other. At this time, their feelings are also very good.

But when two people are together, they will gradually get to know each other better. At this time, two people can find that this relationship may not be suitable for each other, and being together is just a kind of torture.

Then at this time, a woman with high emotional intelligence will not take the initiative to break up, and if this woman breaks up, then this man will let go decisively, so that two people can live a little easier and better.

2, reflect on the feelings between two people, reflect on yourself, see where you are doing badly, and correct it in time.

Everyone will have their own feelings, and they may have their own attitudes and ideas about feelings, so maybe when two people get along, something unpleasant will always happen.

Many times, women are impulsive in their feelings, so they may break up because of small contradictions between two people.

Then at this time, those men with high emotional intelligence will reflect on the feelings between two people and see where there is a problem. If it is his own fault, he will reflect on himself and make himself do better.

Third, people with high emotional intelligence know four common ways to break up.

1, reduce demand

Your relationship after breaking up is a kind of ordinary friend. If you want to get each other back, you don't want them to hate you more. The best way is to reduce your desire for each other.

Reduce the need for love with each other. It is best to really treat him as an ordinary friend, not very active or indifferent. Reduce your concern and dependence on each other, put your time and energy on yourself, and enhance your attraction.

2. Rebuild secondary scenic spots.

Many people break up. It must be that two people are disappointed in each other. Facing a person full of shortcomings, they really can't accept it. They really can't see a happy future, only endless gray memories.

In this case, if you break up, you need to attract each other again, attract two people to fall in love again and get to know themselves again.

3. Establish your own circle of friends.

It is inevitable that you will be sad when you break up. If you want to get back together, you need to make a business card for your circle of friends and make settings for your circle of friends. Although lovelorn, but very progressive.

This relationship makes me sad, but at the same time I also have my own life and relatives. I will work hard and become excellent, but I still can't forget each other. The process of building a circle of friends is so slow! Let the other person see your love for the other person, and the other person can also know your situation from the circle of friends, and then feel that you are getting better and better, attracting each other more and more.