There are more and more older men left. In the past, it was thought that older women were a social problem, but now older men have become a problem that needs to be faced. When you live in Beishangguang, you will find that many buddies are in their thirties and still single. They may have loved each other, but they didn't get married in the end, leaving them alone.

Brother Hui is 40 years old this year. To outsiders, he is still an excellent person. He has his own two houses, his own car and his own career. It stands to reason that such an excellent man should be pursued by many women, but in fact he is still single. I learned from talking with him that he is not an unmarried family, but really wants to have his own family and a considerate woman to take care of him.

The more prosperous the city is, the more lonely people are. There are not a few men like Brother Hui in the city. Why is this happening?

1, busy with career, neglecting marriage

With the development of economy, people's desire is increasing, and the pressure of men's life is increasing. Many people insist on the idea that career is more important than feelings, and work hard when they should enjoy love. It is only after they are 30 years old that they realize that it is a misunderstanding. A 30-year-old man may have some careers, many of which are still very ordinary. This is inevitable. Most people are mortal, and successful people are few after all.

Because I was busy with my career, I neglected my feelings. Looking back suddenly, I found that there were very few girls around me who were suitable for me, and then I began to pursue my own love. The chances of meeting a girl who suits you at an inappropriate age are not high. Year after year, the days continue to consume, and I am still single and become an older man.

It took many years to recover from emotional injury.

It is said that women attach importance to feelings, in fact, men are the same, but not as common as women, but once men move their feelings, it is more difficult for them to recover after being injured than women. Many older men stay because they once loved a woman deeply. After being hit, they have been depressed and confused for many years.

Since then, he has no interest in other girls, immersed in the pain of the past and gradually recovered after many years. At this time, I found that I had become an older man, and there were few like-minded girls around me.

I was too picky when I was young.

Some men are relatively good in their own conditions, but they are very picky about the other half. When I was young, there must be many girls around me, but these men always hold the idea of only falling in love and not getting married, and don't give girls a promising future. The girl reluctantly left, and the man didn't feel sorry, just felt that there was no fate.

In this way, I repeated the story over and over again until I was in my thirties, only to find that there was no intimate person around me. But I always have a sense of superiority in my heart and don't want to lower the standard of mate selection. Girls with better conditions can't pursue it themselves, so I have been living alone.

The formation of older leftover men is a problem worthy of our deep thinking. Men should not only support their careers, but also plan their love. Life is actually very short, how happy it is to have an understanding woman around you. Older men who are still single, work hard.