Social ability means being able to live in harmony with people around you and being willing to take care of others.

Children are taken care of at home, and "loving the young" is the main theme of many families. Children who grow up in this environment are unwilling to take the initiative to take care of others and even get along with others is a problem.

In the early news, a newly graduated college student applied for the front desk of a big company. Since she went to work, the front desk has been clean and tidy, and beautiful green plants have been added. With her bright smiling face, the whole company came alive. The boss thinks that even a small position can produce excellent employees.

A person who is willing to care for flowers and plants loves others even more.

At home, parents should encourage their children to participate in family life, assign them to do housework and do their own things. Outside, parents should create more space for their children to make friends and help them integrate into more friends.

2. Independence and self-reliance

The independence mentioned here refers to the dual independence of life and spirit. In other words, you can not only take care of yourself in life, but also be independent and confident in spirit.

"Ma Baonan" and "NEET" are buzzwords in recent years. The failure of this kind of education is not that the child has not received higher education, but that he has not been weaned mentally. He has always been a hungry baby. The birth of the giant baby itself is the failure of family education.

The relationship between parents and children is to watch their children drift away. The so-called reluctance is a spiritual imprisonment for children. Family education is a process in which parents keep letting go. Let go of your hands slowly and let the children walk by themselves. This is not only the needs of children, but also the wisdom of parents.

Step 3 control yourself

Cultivating children's self-control is much more difficult than cultivating independence. Self-control requires children to restrain themselves, proceed from the overall situation and sacrifice the ego, which requires strong consciousness.

My friend works in the customs. He often laments that the new college students are too Buddha. Whenever I work overtime, I don't take the initiative The first sentence is, why should I work overtime? I have something to do. May I go first?

There is no overall concept, no concept of self-sacrifice, and everything is centered on loving me. This is a terrible thing. After entering the society, children need a little sacrifice. Too much conceit will soon be marginalized.

4. Toughness

Never give up when you encounter problems. This resilience is a must for children. In family education, parents should consciously cultivate their children's brain ability and find ways to solve problems by themselves.

We can also have a "100,000 Why" with our children. Parents ask questions and let them find the answers. If possible, practice and test the correctness of the answer.

Parents should not rush to help their children with their problems. Let the children think about how to solve it first. Try again and see if this method works.

In short, as far as cultivating children's adaptability is concerned, it is most undesirable to arrange everything, so that children can save their brains, not to mention practice.

5. Brave personality

Courage here is different from recklessness. As the old saying goes, doing things with your brain is to cultivate children to be calm when they encounter problems and make the right choices.

Anyway, there are adults at the bottom, and some children are used to being unscrupulous when they are young, and they are unscrupulous when they grow up. In recent years, the example of "My father is Li Gang" is not uncommon.

In family education, parents need to constantly guide their children and solve problems with their brains. Think of the right way, and then try bravely.

Step 6 have a positive attitude

An optimistic child, even if the future situation is not so good, his life is sunny. Isn't that what our parents want?

In daily education, children should be encouraged to see the good side of things. Accept what cannot be changed and actively change what can be changed.

Not only that, parents should also be themselves. Don't stare at the child's shortcomings, look more and talk more about his advantages. Examples speak louder than words. Your optimistic look is the best example for children.

In addition, we should cultivate children's interests in many ways. With more interests, children's lives will be richer. In this way, the social circle will be wider in the future. It is difficult to be depressed because there are many people in contact.

Summary:

A child is a blank sheet of paper from birth. What kind of background color life can have lies in family education. Parents' education will affect what kind of person their children become. The cultivation of these six aspects is the foundation of children's sound personality.

The ultimate goal of cultivating children is to cultivate children into people who have love in their chests, light in their hearts, happy families and benefit the society.