After getting married and having children, it became the watershed of Ma Bao's psychological breakdown. /kloc-everything will be fine after giving birth to a baby after pregnancy in October. Unexpectedly, there are many more problems than during pregnancy. Children need to spend a lot of time to take care of and raise, wait on their husbands and do housework. Stay-at-home mothers are often regarded as a kind of "cheap labor".

Facing children and families every day, they are almost out of touch with society and lose their ability to make money, while their husbands are growing in their careers, the generation gap between husband and wife is widening, and they are less talkative, and they will be disgusted with asking for money.

Full-time mothers are envious of having an old man who can help the whole baby without so much effort. However, the situation of each family is very different, and some people laugh and others worry.

Zhang Li is a post-90s mother. She was introduced by her relatives and met her husband. They are both only children. Soon after, they gave birth to a son, who was attended by her mother-in-law. When she was born, Zhang Li's mother asked her mother-in-law, "It's hard enough for you to give birth to Lily. I will take care of the children in the back. Anyway, I have nothing to do after retirement, and I have enough time to take care of my children and make them work hard to make money. There will be a lot of money to spend in the future

Mother-in-law politely refused, on the grounds that it was not easy for Zhang Li to be raised by his parents, and the old couple had just retired, so they could not always bother others.

Since the daughter-in-law is married, she should be treated like her own daughter and take care of her grandson. Other families are like this, let the neighbors laugh.

Zhang Li was in trouble when she saw the two old men at daggers drawn, or her husband had an idea and told his mother directly: Mom, grandma hasn't seen her grandson for a month, and she misses her grandson. You must grant her this wish!

The old man listened to his son's words, and it was not good to talk about it any more. Anyway, it's for the good of the children, no matter who takes it. I'm kidding. We agreed that you can only take it for a month. It's my turn to bring it then, and we'll change it later.

Because her mother-in-law was witty, she made several people present laugh.

There is a mother-in-law relationship called Eva Huang and her mother-in-law.

Eva Huang's mother-in-law seems to be serving a family, but in fact she is a wise person. Someone asked her: Whose daughter-in-law is better for her mother-in-law? The old man thinks that several daughters-in-law are good, and if they have to be singled out, Yi Sheng will be better.

As a daughter-in-law, she did something that other daughters-in-law would not do, helping her mother-in-law wash underwear and take a bath. How pleased the old man should be that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can reach this level.

My mother-in-law came to see her grandson. Andy was very happy with her arrival, told her to sit down, and told her to pay attention to her health when she was old, and not to eat anything cold.

The old man kept talking about where Yi Sheng had gone. Andy called his wife quickly, but he never got through. Judging from the old man's expression, he was a little lost. Andy sat down and continued to call, but he still didn't accept it. He said to himself, this is fresh air. Where did it go?

Yang's mother is kind-hearted, looks very kind from the face, speaks very well and has a warm feeling. The first feeling is that the old people with good quality are not only polite but also enthusiastic to the younger generation.

She is a traditional woman of the older generation. She has lived with her family all her life, thinking more about her family and less about herself. Many daughters-in-law are willing to get along with such an old man. As a "middleman" between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, Andy is also "a set" to coax her mother to be happy. It can be seen that her emotional intelligence is very high and she can coordinate the relationship between two women well. No wonder the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is so good

A good relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has three characteristics.

1, mother-in-law has a kind heart

Some mothers-in-law think that their daughter-in-law should be given a duel as soon as she has just passed the door, so as to establish her "authority", and as a result, an issue has been forged between her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

There is a daughter-in-law ready to enter the door. The wedding hasn't been held yet because the new underwear has made everyone know. It was a small matter. The two sides are like crossing a "single-plank bridge". If one side can make concessions or take a step back, the situation will come as scheduled, but both sides are "hard bones" and will not give in to each other. As a result, the marriage really divorced.

There is such a "farce", which has created a gap. Can the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law be handled well? I don't believe it!

It can be seen that the goodwill and tolerance of both sides are very important. As a mother-in-law, if she is kind and devoted to her daughter-in-law, I believe that her daughter-in-law will not deliberately cause trouble, nor will she look up and see her head down. Only an idiot will give her trouble.

2. Daughter-in-law is full of tears.

Daughter-in-law, as a junior, can't treat her mother-in-law like her own mother, such as playing princess temper, sleeping late, keeping up with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and so on. For example, the mother-in-law in the neighborhood will give her daughter-in-law living expenses every month, and you should let her give it, only more than others. Maybe the reality is that your mother-in-law has no income to help you bring up a baby. Neighbors' parents are businessmen and are not short of money.

A stay-at-home mother said: I really envy my baby mother having a mother-in-law to help me take care of the baby. I would appreciate it if she had a mother-in-law too. Unfortunately, my mother-in-law died, so I have to face the reality.

In fact, the law does not stipulate that a daughter-in-law has the obligation to support her mother-in-law, nor does it stipulate that her mother-in-law has the obligation to take care of her children. If the old man is willing to help you, he should at least be grateful. Don't get fat, and I'll help you turn your back on your baby. This is called ignorance and immaturity. You can't set a good example for your children. If you have a son, be your own mother-in-law

3. Men are vertical and horizontal

If the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is compared to a "Libra", one is the mother-in-law and the other is the daughter-in-law. How to balance the two ends of Libra depends on the "support point" of men.

Often a man with high emotional intelligence can handle the relationship between the two, instead of being a "microphone" in the middle, aggravating the contradiction between the two sides. He will be a "filter" to filter out the unfavorable voices and make the two sides friendly.