I don't want to say more about the starting point and the ending point. Life dies, but all roads lead to the same goal. If we see through life in this way, life is meaningless. However, the meaning of life still exists. Being born and living better is the greatest meaning of life. Although the prince and the farmer may be basking in the sun under the same sky, the prince is basking in the sun, but the farmer is often helplessly roasted by the scorching sun. You say, can that be the same?
For successful people who go out in the countryside and finally return to the countryside, it means that people have capital and can enjoy their old age. They are optimistic about the dull and slow life in rural areas, the mountains and rivers in rural areas and the good air in rural areas. They grow some pollution-free vegetables and enjoy the happiness brought by easy work and healthy food. They have enough savings or wages to maintain a high quality of life. Growing vegetables is both enjoyment and leisure. So their work is relaxed and enjoyable, and they enjoy it.
However, for the old farmers in rural areas, it is necessary to grow vegetables and grain. They have to grow grain and vegetables to solve their living problems. In addition to eating, they have to rely on their own vegetables and grains for meager income to meet other necessities. Therefore, there is no happiness in their labor, but more helplessness and no enjoyment at all. If they don't work for a period of time, they may have no income and can't survive. Therefore, their labor intensity, for successful vegetable farmers, is quite large, far from each other.
So it seems that all the rural areas grow vegetables, but the mentality of labor is different and the intensity of labor is different. One is leisure and the other is fatigue. One is enjoyment, and the other is helplessness. Therefore, it is very necessary to work hard when you are young if you want to live a well-fed life when you are old. People should not be negative. We must face life positively. Although we are all born to die, we must live better. People have rich savings or high retirement wages, medical insurance and food and clothing. If you don't go out to work hard, you will always live in the countryside, not only living very hard and tired, but also where to find a decent way to support the elderly when you are old? So, while you are young, work hard and work hard.
The two are completely different. Successful people go back to the village to build houses and grow vegetables, which means retiring after success, with millions of funds in their hands and thousands of pensions and medical insurance every month. They have no worries about food and clothing, return to rural scenery, and live a healthy holiday life. Villagers of the same age make a living by farming, go out early and return late, and have a hard time, and their material and spiritual life is relatively scarce in their later years. Children are unfilial or one of them dies first, which leads to statelessness and lifelong loneliness of the elderly, especially those in the central and western regions who have no other income. Although the state subsidizes the elderly farmers a little now, they can only buy some oil and salt. If you don't have savings, you can't afford to get sick.
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Ten years ago, Li Tao, a contractor who worked hard in Beijing for 30 years, returned to his hometown. I thought he would live in the city, but I didn't expect to rebuild his old house and start living in the countryside.
According to neighbors who work with him, Li Tao works as a manager in a construction site. After working hard in Beijing for 30 years, he has saved at least tens of millions. He is definitely a rich man.
However, he didn't show off because of his family precepts, nor did he live a lavish life because he became rich, nor did he spend money like other rich people, and he always lived a normal life.
After I went back to my hometown to build a house, because the land had been contracted to others, I had no land to grow, so I opened some wasteland in front of and behind the house. Because his home is on the edge of the village, he made full use of whatever he could grow and planted all kinds of vegetables on the land.
Li Tao had a hobby since he was a child, that is, he liked to keep dogs for hunting, so he kept a local dog at home. Because there is no land at home, it is impossible to feed the dog. Although the family has money to buy dog food, he thinks it is not easy to make money. Therefore, every wheat harvest and autumn harvest, he will go to the harvested fields to pick up the grain that has fallen in the fields.
Because he is used to eating rice cooked in an iron pan, he dried the branches that were not used for cutting trees and collected them, and piled them in an open place. He burns branches all year round. Boiling water, cooking, making soup and steaming steamed bread are all made of wood.
For Li Tao, he was used to eating simple meals since he was a child, and he remained so after becoming a multimillionaire. His means of transportation is a 70-year-old motorcycle, a worn-out bicycle, and his life is flat and light, just like ordinary people.
Many villagers felt incredible when they saw him picking up things in the fields. Many people also say behind his back that he can't live, he doesn't know how to enjoy, he only knows how to suffer and live a normal life.
In fact, Li Tao couldn't eat all the vegetables he grew, so he rode his bike to his son's house and his daughter's house 50 miles away. Neighbors who have no food can choose and don't care about their own labor.
A person's word of mouth is a sign of being a man, and it is also a standard to measure a person's quality and ideological accomplishment. As long as anyone is in trouble, as long as there are casualties and happy events in the street, we must inform him first and use his contacts to act. Everything was done satisfactorily.
People's growth is inseparable from their parents' education. It was his parents' family education that made him an ordinary person. It is said that his father was very strict when he was alive, and it is even more convincing to educate his children.
Li Tao is a successful man. He came out of the countryside and became a rich man after years of hard work. But he did not forget that he was the true nature of the working people, went back to the village to build houses and grow vegetables, and lived a dull farm life like a farmer.
Successful people go home to build houses and grow vegetables, but rarely. As long as they go back to their hometown, I feel no different from farmers. This is my personal opinion. I don't know what you think, please comment in the message area.
Thank you for your attention. I am lucky, a farmer, and I will take you to see more people and things in the countryside.
The nature is the same, the essence is different, and different pay may be different returns, because pay and return are directly proportional. People who invest heavily reap more and return more, while ordinary farmers have limited investment, which is the reason why farmers' farming output efficiency is not high.
Sages and successful people return to the village to grow vegetables and live a dull life like the villagers. They seem to be the same. Actually, it's very different. Very different.
Sages, successful people and retirees are all proud of returning to their hometown. Money, pension, medical insurance. Returning to my hometown is to find a quiet, quiet and leisurely happy life in my later years. Growing vegetables and flowers is a pleasure.
And can the old farmers compete? I dare not spend my 100 yuan pension, but I have to get up early and go home late to do farm work. To get married for my son, to go to school for my grandson, and to see a doctor. Praise Qian Laodong!
These two kinds of people are not on the same level and cannot be compared.
However, now the countryside has also lived a life without food and clothing.
Don't compete, people die than people.
Put yourself in the right position and be content! Happiness is self-aware.
I heard such an interesting sentence recently, which is very suitable for use here. Successful people eat green vegetables and eat less oil, which is called health preservation; Villagers eat green vegetables and eat less oil, which is called shabby. These are two completely different concepts.
Successful people return to the countryside and live an ordinary life like villagers every day, with great differences in mentality.
Successful people and villagers live in the same village, and their schedules, life patterns and even basic necessities are similar. They look similar in appearance, but in fact they are very different in essence. The biggest difference lies in the material basis.
Successful people never worry about material life at any time. Now I am going back to the countryside, living a simple and carefree life, away from the troubles of the city, and my family background is relatively rich, which can be said to be carefree.
What about the villagers? In order to live a busy life, work at sunrise, rest at sunset and never stop. Many people are questioning why rural people have to work every day, even if they are only teenagers.
In fact, this has a lot to do with people's growth environment and family environment. It's not that old people are willing to do it. Who doesn't want to sit at home with his mouth open and his clothes stretched? But few people can do it.
The mentality of villagers farming is completely different from that of successful people.
Most villagers grow vegetables to make daily necessities and exchange their energy and time for the fruits of their labor. Originally, their income was not high, and they didn't have much money to buy, so they saved money to live.
Most of the vegetables grown by the villagers themselves are self-sufficient. Because the dishes of all ethnic groups in rural areas are naturally grown, have a long period of time, and are particularly common at the same time, this makes the price of vegetables difficult to go up, especially cheap, and many rural areas are reluctant to sell them.
Successful people grow vegetables purely for entertainment and enjoy the planting process. As for the result, they don't care at all. Planting is self-sufficient and it is not easy to spend money. These are two completely different mentalities.
Like villagers, if they can't finish eating fresh vegetables, they will try to make pickles and dry them, and then take them out to solve a rainy day when the vegetables are off the market. Successful people generally don't do it, because it takes too much time and energy, and they are often willing to buy some ready-made ones in the market, which is much easier.
People with different mentality have different understandings of the problem of growing vegetables. Some people live for life, others live for life, and the result is very different with different mentality.
Successful people go back to their hometowns to build houses and grow vegetables. It seems that they live a dull life like the villagers. There is absolutely no difference between the two.
First, the sources of income are different.
Successful people go back to their hometown to build houses and grow vegetables, instead of farming for a living. All their homework on the land is for pleasure, and they don't need to support their families with things produced on the land. It is different from the villagers' need to produce things from the land and earn income to support their families.
Second, the feelings for the land are different.
Successful people no longer need to satisfy their desire for land wealth. Their feelings for the land are joyful and romantic. The villagers love and hate the land!
Third, the mentality is different.
Successful people have experienced hardships in the world through years of hard work abroad, and they are very indifferent to the gains and losses of life. And the villagers, few can have this kind of accomplishment. They still pursue the law of the jungle, supplement the red and eliminate the black, and lack the necessary sympathy for the stupid, deaf and disabled old people.
I once met a villager who complained to me. Said the deaf girl was going to kill her. She lacks the necessary love for deaf girls.
Because of this deaf-mute girl, she is always croaking. When she barked, her yellow dog thought the world was in chaos and barked. As soon as her mother heard the bitch barking and the dog barking, she shouted this and that to stop barking.
After a long time, neighbors have a lot of complaints. Can't stand it. Said she was about to have a heart attack.
However, in the days of living in my hometown, I feel that deaf-mute women have given me a lot of beauty in this world.
Like her most sincere hug.
It is too tight. For many years, I only felt it when my son went to kindergarten for the first time and mother and son separated for the first time.
No one in the village feels this way about deaf-mute women. They said that she was like their yellow dog, a disaster to them.
Therefore, people living in their hometown are absolutely different from villagers.
I went back to my hometown last year. After I came back, I traveled all over the village where the original brigade is now. Forty years really passed quickly, and everyone I met when I was a child was an octogenarian. Those who go out to serve as soldiers, to study and to go out in other ways are all division heads when they are on the job. Professors, doctors, engineers, teachers or other positions have all returned to life without exception. The house has been decorated, and the yard is full of flowers, trees and vegetables. In the evening, they often take a leisurely walk on the country road. There is basically no difference between the villagers' weddings and funerals, and there is no distinction between high and low. I feel that I am a grassroots and live a dull old age.
Ken is completely different. Successful people grow vegetables in a relaxed mood without any pressure and don't have to worry about floods and droughts. Pure entertainment mentality. Villagers grow vegetables and take their children to school and get married. Both husband and wife should support the elderly. Like an ant with a corn cob on its head, struggling. One is pastoral leisure, and the other is subsistence labor. There is no comparability between the two.
There is no comparability between the two. It's like a hungry person cooking, hoping that the sooner the better, the sooner it is cooked, and the sooner it is eaten, regardless of color, smell and taste. When a person is full and cooking, it is necessary to pay attention to the pattern and taste.
In the same way, successful people grow vegetables for fun and for recreation. Villagers grow vegetables in order to earn money to support their families.
The purpose is different, even if the efforts are the same, the inner mood is different.