Aunt Wu, 60, doesn't think so. She thinks that now that the children are married, she has nothing to worry about. She just wants to find a wife to spend the rest of her life with.
Knowing that she was looking for a wife, many people came to introduce her to someone, but she said that if these five conditions could not be met, she would simply live alone and would definitely not look for another one.
0 1, there is nothing serious physically.
Aunt Wu feels that there is nothing serious wrong with her body, which is the first condition, because she just wants to find a wife to live a good life for life, not to be a nanny for others. There is nothing wrong with her health. Of course, she just wants to find someone who is healthy and can accompany each other.
Good health is the most important thing. If you get married, you will find that his health is full of problems. I'm definitely not in such a big mood to live with such a person.
02, have certain economic strength.
Second, economically, Aunt Wu has a pension. She thinks that the other party must have certain economic strength, not necessarily money. But the two people are evenly matched economically, as long as they have enough money. She doesn't want each other's money, but she doesn't want to spend too much money on each other. She wants to find a wife who can spend the rest of her life with her, but she doesn't want to be an idiot.
03, after marriage, I hope I can live alone and don't want to live with my children.
Aunt Wu believes that if you marry each other, you should live alone. She has an independent house and hopes that the other party can have an independent house, so that she doesn't have to live with her children.
No matter whose children they are, they don't want to live with them. Because everyone has his own life, even when he is old, he has his own independent life. They don't want others to disturb them, let alone. And no matter which side's children live with, the other side's children may be suspicious, so there are many things. This is asking for trouble for yourself, and you can't spend your old age at all.
04, the other child can't treat her as an outsider.
Now that I'm married, I want to live a good life with each other. Otherwise, I wouldn't be so old and would choose to find myself a wife. After marriage, I don't want the man's children to treat her as an outsider.
If she is an outsider, there will be some bad feelings, so even if she wants to live a good life, the man's children always make trouble, and their lives will be very bad and troublesome. She gets along with people sincerely. Of course, I hope that the other party will also show this sincerity, and I hope that the other party's children will also show the sincerity of a good life.
05, after two people are together, something must never leave.
Aunt Wu thinks that although two people are not the original match, it is fate that they can come together. When you get old, no one can guarantee that something will happen to anyone. Maybe she is ill in hospital, or maybe the other person is not feeling well. If something goes wrong, we must never leave, and two people will face it together.
If the other person is hospitalized and needs medical treatment or accompanying her bed, she will devote herself wholeheartedly and hope that he will recover soon.
If anything happens to her, I hope the other person will do her best as well. Aunt Wu means that you can spend your last life with each other well. Two people share happiness and spend the rest of their lives quietly. If they have difficulties, of course, they need to face them together, just like their original life.
It can be seen from these requirements of Aunt Wu that she is a very considerate old man, which also means that the old people are more relaxed now. Even if you spend the last stage of your life, you should find a suitable person. If they really can't find it, they would rather spend it alone.
Everyone must not think that people of their age are demanding, nor that they have too many things to do.
In fact, they are the most reasonable people, which is also the performance of being responsible for their own lives. They won't just find an old man to live with. An aunt who is over 60 years old can still have such an attitude in her marriage and emotional life, which is to set a good example for young girls. Little girls who have never been married, when looking for a partner, must choose carefully and be responsible for themselves.