In his early twenties, he is in the prime of life, full of ambition, pointing out the mountains and rivers, making bold remarks and being full of ambition.
When I was 30 years old, I saw that I was no longer young, so I searched up and down and kept patting the railing. Joy and sorrow are together, and passion and depression dance together.
At the age of forty, I began to feel the change of mentality, the great responsibility and new feelings.
With the change of mentality, I often look forward to seeing bloom's flowers fall in front of the court, and the clouds are rolling. Do not accept complaints, have no right to choose their own origins, easily let go of social injustice, can not get rid of the shackles of self. Accept without regret, and don't always remember the missed things, people and opportunities.
It goes without saying that the great responsibility and heavy work responsibility are due to social development, environmental changes and work changes. The increase in family responsibilities has really made "the old and the young" a reality. The old man is ill and needs careful treatment. Children are still young, so pay more attention to them.
New feeling. I used to see other people's misfortunes and treat them with normality, thinking that it was far away. I think teenagers have misfortune. Young people study hard at the cold window and go through hardships. Cultivate one's self-cultivation, be lenient with others and restrain one's desires. Middle-aged people should not have other people's misfortunes. In fact, it is very different from reality. What should come or will come, human physiological and social laws are insurmountable. "The tree wants to be quiet, but the wind does not stop. The son wants to raise and not stay." What he can do is to try his best to do what he should do in the year when his parents are healthy. For brothers and sisters, tolerate and influence with the greatest affection. Do your best to be a good husband and father to your wife and children. For colleagues and friends, we should cherish the fate, treat each other sincerely and work together.
A selection of new views on life in the era of "forty without confusion" (2) When people reach the age of forty, they will reach the age of no confusion. At this time, people should start to understand society, life, themselves and everything.
People who are not confused know that it is normal to make mistakes in life, and it is impossible not to make mistakes. The key is to stop complaining and making excuses when making mistakes, but to admit and correct mistakes when making mistakes and get up when falling.
Only those who are not confused can understand the responsibility of life. Do your duty for the society, let the parents who raised you spend their old age safely, give your other half a warm and stable promise, and train your children to get married.
People who are not confused understand that people should not complain that God is unfair to them and that they should not complain about their bumpy roads. They should learn to be content with the status quo and keep their feet on the ground. As long as they are willing to pay, they will be rewarded.
People who are not confused understand that people should have a broad mind. Difficulties and hardships, ups and downs are the normal state of life, learn to be calm and calm.
In the age of no doubt, people have not spent most of their lives, but have precipitated some calmness and sobriety.
A selection of new views on life in the year of forty without confusion (3) Feel the exchange of four seasons in the life of forty, the brevity of spring, summer, autumn and winter, the eternity of that moment and the solidification of wonderful moments.
Natural harmony, harmonious extension, is an image that will never fade. Ah! Life is like the four seasons in nature. Once you step into the threshold of forty, you will step into the autumn of your life. Yes, it was autumn when the leaves fell. Life at forty years old is a matter of course. Autumn is cool and pleasant, deep and quiet, with a long meaning. Looking up at the blue and clear night sky, I understand what is vast and noble; Looking at the endless Akita, you know what is deep and beautiful! This is the taste of autumn in life.
Looking at the passage of time, I spent forty spring, summer, autumn and winter. Forty years old, I feel a little disappointed. Facing my age will bring fear, pessimism and disappointment. I have walked for most of my life and witnessed forty years of vicissitudes and forty years of journey. What have I done in these 40 years? I admit that I have no success, no career, no achievement and no glory. The only thing that can bring me is sureness and satisfaction. I don't expect too much. I am just a person who is content with the status quo and doesn't want to imagine. Although the imagination is beautiful, but once the real interpretation is quite different, I just want to let go. I never think about age. Age is not a problem, but I won't ignore it. It advances for one second, falls with bloom, and drifts with time.
A selection of new views on life in the era of forty without confusion (4) People of this age will have some feelings more or less! This is the success or failure of life after the storm! Think about it carefully, maybe it should all be dissolved in a cup of turbid wine, a cup of green tea or a cigarette. At this time, we have a deeper understanding of society, life, value and concept, which can't be seen or learned in didactic textbooks.
In this era when things are transformed, people can gain more experience only when they speak with strength! Many things in the book are only arranged for the needs of the ruling class, and there is a certain amount of water! Real life still depends on time and practice to get the truth.
When a person is over forty, he will reach the age of no doubt. At this time, people should start to understand society, life, themselves and everything.
Only those who are not confused can understand the responsibility of life. Do your duty for the society, let the parents who raised you spend their old age safely, give your other half a warm and stable home, and train your children to get married.
People who are not confused know that people should not complain about the unfairness of God and the bumpy road. They should learn to be content with the status quo and learn to be down-to-earth, as long as they are willing to pay; I worked hard; Only let it go!
People who are not confused understand that people should have a broad mind. Difficulties and hardships, ups and downs are the normal state of life, learn to be calm and calm.
In the age of no doubt, people have not spent most of their lives, but have precipitated some calmness and sobriety.
In this undoubtedly year, it is necessary to attend wine fairs frequently. Be sure to weigh, listen to your heart, and control your alcohol consumption. This age is not a stage of sacrificing health for feelings. Too reckless behavior will not give extra points to feelings, friendship and affection. On the contrary, his suffering will implicate him or her; Bring some unnecessary trouble.
In this undoubtedly year, we should talk and laugh. There is a kind of "flower" in the world that will not fade, and that is a smile. Regardless of the four seasons, men, women and children, as long as there is a crowd, it is open. The nobler the thought, the more beautiful the smile. ...
We have reached or passed the age of no doubt, and more often, we no longer care about gains and losses, nor are we as excited and motivated as we were in our twenties! More often, it is "watching the flowers fall in bloom before the court and watching the changes of the world coldly". Sometimes I secretly persuade myself not to look too deep! A "too thorough" life will lose some color and meaning. As the saying goes, life is hard to be confused, which means life is unnecessary. Don't live too well! We should take "quietness, elegance, lightness, stability and stability" as the criterion, and face the storms of life with a calm and peaceful heart, and the world will rise and fall! ……
Perception of life
1, I think one day, I will go to a place where you want to go most and do what I want to do most.
2. If you can't find a reason to persist, you must find a reason to start again.
3. This life is complete only if you have really cried, despaired, suffered and silently repented.
4. Remember four words: stick to it no matter how hard it is, be indifferent no matter how good it is, be confident no matter how bad it is, and save more.
No matter how beautiful tomorrow is, you will come today. No matter how brilliant yesterday is, it can't change today.
6. You only need to be kind to two kinds of people. One is a person who is willing to be kind to you, and the other is a good person who cherishes you.
7. Life is a bumpy road. Even if you keep falling, get up and stick to your dreams.
8. Men should have a mountain-like backbone that can withstand hardships and blows. As long as life is still there, everything can start all over again.
9. No matter what happened in the past, people are on the journey, love in their hearts, face life with a smile, and write life with true feelings.
10, there is often only one reason why you are confused, that is, you think too much and do too little at the age when you should be working hard.
1 1. Four tragedies in life: too poor to do bad things, too mature to be a couple, too hungry to know what to eat and too sleepy to sleep!
12, the height of the fountain will not exceed its source; The same is true of a person's career, and his achievements will never exceed his beliefs.
13, no one will always be smooth sailing. May you be stronger, and then one day, you can smile and say those moments that make you cry.
14, some people, no matter how good you are to them, will not pay attention, because in his life, you seem so insignificant.
15, it is better to admit that you are not as powerful as you think, and you don't want to be so invulnerable. We just want to be hugged warmly.
16, to know how to converge, to know how to precipitate, to know how many people can really stay with you for a long time, and to know that daily necessities are more important than romantic.
17, people sometimes suddenly become fragile, suddenly unhappy, suddenly caught by a certain detail in their memory, and suddenly fall into deep silence and don't want to talk.
18, the most terrible thing in life is not that the eyes are out of sight, but that the heart has lost its direction. Happiness is that as long as you hold your right hand, even if you lose your direction, you won't be afraid anymore.
19, women must have their own careers, regardless of your looks and family background, you must firmly remember that you must have your own independent work and financial resources.
20, time flies, the years are long. The more you know, the more you see through, and the less happy you are. I miss those years, the future is far away without shape, and we simply have no troubles.
2 1. No matter when you finish, it is important not to regret it after you finish. You gave your thoughts to the TV, your contact to the mobile phone, your legs to the car, and your health to the pills.
22, the same eyes, different views; The same ear, different listening methods; The same mouth, different statements; The same heart, different ideas; The same money, different consumption patterns; Same people, different lifestyles.
23. Be friendly to people. Being rejected in life is often because others are wary. If you show goodwill at an appropriate time, talk about friendship sincerely and extend a hand of friendship, you will naturally have more friends and less estrangement, and your mood will naturally become calm.
24. A long time ago, lies and truth bathed by the river. Wash the lies first, put on the real clothes and leave, but the truth refuses to wear lies. Later, in people's eyes, there were only lies in real clothes, but it was difficult to accept the naked truth.
25, life is like water, water has a countercurrent, but also downstream, so life also has joy and pain. Mental fatigue refers to people's heavy psychological load, great mental pressure and complicated and disorderly thoughts. Mental fatigue is the exhaustion and burnout of the mind, which will make people suffer from inner pain and harm their physical and mental health.
26. The things we have experienced and the people we have met, whether they have kindness or enmity, whether they are injured or painful, will leave a shadow in our memory that will never be erased. When the appearance becomes more and more vicissitudes, all grudges and enmities will turn into a little dust, blowing in the wind.
27. When people reach a certain stage, life will begin to do subtraction for you. Bring a few of your friends and let you know who your real friends are. Take away some dreams and let you know what reality is. When you can watch yourself busy and become a bystander in life, you will find your own rhythm.
28. There are too many encounters in life, but they are all passers-by, not home. Passing by, that's fate, and staying is fate. Follow the inner call, live seriously, and let every day see joy. There is not only one answer to many things. Even though everything is changing, the only constant is that we are still moving forward.
29. In fact, youth is like this. You don't listen to advice, you fiddle, you enjoy happiness, you suffer, you play with tickets, you hit a wall, you struggle, you are tired, only to find that you have turned a big circle, but you have returned to the original place. However, I never regret or complain, because I may never know where I am if I don't turn this circle.
30. Life is a kind of practice, but practice is actually a kind of spiritual practice. Small heart, big things; Big heart, small things. Big heart, let the things of the world; Empty your heart and enjoy the beauty of the world; Sneak into their hearts and study the principles of the world; Keep a correct attitude and deal with the changes in the world. Only by looking down on gains and losses can we accommodate things, and we can make a qualitative change if we have a beautiful mind, a conscious mind, a calm mind and a growing wisdom.
3 1, the highest state of life, but with an old man, watching a room full of old things, leisurely counting a period of old times. There are too many things I have to avoid. I don't know whether a fish has to avoid water all his life or a tree has to avoid the sun all his life. Time flies, passing by me gently, watching the world of mortals is always easy to get emotional.
32. EQ is not tactful, but modest, tolerant and confident, and the pattern after virtue is enough. Maturity is not from simple to complex, but from complex to simple. Consciousness is not indifferent to everything, but openly accepting things that are powerless. Success is not pursuing the best in others' eyes, but doing what you are best at.
33. From today on, be a simple person, practical and pragmatic. Don't indulge in fantasy, don't make much ado about nothing. Be happy, cheerful, tenacious, enthusiastic and sincere to people. Sincere, calm, generous, tolerant and normal. Always full of hope for life and smile at difficulties and hardships. Read more books and watch more. Eat less and eat good food. Have a dream, even if it is far away.
34. Don't be too kind, generous and capable. After a long time, people will think that everything you do is right. Even if one day you are tired of crying, no one will love you. Because in their eyes, this is what you want. Sometimes don't be too kind. Don't think of others in everything! Others will not consider your feelings and difficulties. They will take everything for granted.
35. We often live for others and stare at how others live. So, we put on a mask for ourselves, even if our hearts are bitter and tired, the mask is still inlaid with an eternal smile; When we see smiles on other people's faces, we always suspect that they are wearing masks. In fact, happiness is your own, never take others as a reference, others can't do you, how can he know the road you have traveled and the joys and sorrows in your heart?
36. The faint days passed so indifferently. Life is like water, life is like tea. No matter how good the tea is, it will fade over time. Perhaps it is flat edges and corners, perhaps it is mature and steady, the pace is getting more and more practical, and the days are getting more and more dull. Life has entered another realm, indifferent. Gain and loss, success and failure, meeting or parting, although they are equally eager for everything to be good, they can also accept that everything is not good. Indifference is a growth of life.
37. Life is always joking with us, and what you expect will be farther away from you; The person you are attached to will suffer the most. You don't have to look ahead and look back, and you don't have to be too persistent; Learn to let go, let go of unrealistic expectations, and let go of perseverance without results; Look down on everything, see through everything, everything is lost, and the last second has passed; Nothing can be left, so don't look back, only happiness and happiness now.
38. The way to be a man is 1. Being popular is a blessing, and being popular is the greatest practice. 2, the gentleman is the purpose, and the villain is the purpose. 3, should be tolerant, should be straightforward. 4. Appreciating others is solemn. To forgive others is to be kind to yourself. 5, people are good, although the blessing has not arrived, the disaster is far away; Man-made disasters, although disasters have not yet arrived, blessings are far away. 6. Take a step back and love an inch wider. 7. Changing yourself is self-help, influencing others is saving lives.
39. Life is to trudge through fatigue, and life is to struggle through contradictions. When you are sad, find a quiet corner, let a tired heart stop for a moment, gently dock your heart and give yourself a vacation; When you are happy, spread a bright smile, raise the sail of life, take the real road and let everything bathe in the deepest part of life. Calm down, give your heart some relief and move on. Although I don't know whether there is a bloom or a full moon ahead, your heart is there and your dream is there!
40. Correct observation It is most important for each of us to observe life from the depths of our hearts. Life cannot be collected. Happiness can't be gained from experience alone. You can't even own, earn, wear or consume. Happiness is a spiritual experience: every minute exists in love, gratitude and satisfaction. You can't expect success. This treasure is in your heart, just find it and dig it. The secret is to turn the life of collection into a life of celebration.
Understand the sentences of life
Learn to enjoy in life: enjoy the happiness of work, the laughter of friends, the warmth of family, the happiness of creation and the sweetness of fruit.
I don't know what I am doing now is right or wrong, but I didn't know this until I finally died of old age. So what I can do now is to try my best to do everything well and then wait to die of old age.
3, life will inevitably encounter setbacks, after the storm is a rainbow; Life is hard to avoid suffering, and after the storm, there will be sunshine.
If you want to know whether a person loves you or not, it depends on whether he is energetic and unhappy when he is with you. If he is, he loves; If he is not, he doesn't love.
5. "Losing is a blessing" is not only a life strategy, but also a life wisdom. Eating small losses can not only win people's admiration, but also learn great wisdom in life.
6. Life is full of dialectics: busy work means that you haven't lost your job, failed competition means that your ambition is still there, frustrated love means that you are still pursuing, and going astray means that you are still running.
7. See if a person has connotation, the dialogue inside and the clothes outside. You can also read and write. Talking can reveal a person's knowledge and accomplishment. Dress can tell a person's taste, and writing can tell a person's character.
8. If you look forward to tomorrow, you must be realistic first; If you want to be brilliant, then you must stick to it.
9. In life, people keep leaving or entering. So, what you see, what you can't see; Remember, forget. In life, there are gains and losses. Therefore, the invisible see; Forgot, remember. However, does invisibility mean non-existence? Remember, will it never disappear?
10, although the road of life is tortuous, it is beautiful. As long as you watch carefully, you can enjoy the beautiful scenery along the way.
1 1, if the function of the mouth exceeds that of the ear, it is the result of your ignorance; Don't delay your life with lies, and don't ruin your life with truth.
12, think about the good things in life, and the troubles of life will easily leave; Think about success, not to mention setbacks in life; Thinking about relatives and friends, the strength in my heart will surge; Thinking about the ideal, the pace of progress will be more firm; Remembering heroes will increase the courage to overcome difficulties; Recalling the motherland, the enthusiasm for work will multiply.
13, life is only a few decades, so don't leave any regrets for yourself, laugh happily, cry if you want, love when you should, and it doesn't make any sense to suppress yourself.
14, what's the charm? Charm does not lie in beauty. Beautiful women may not attract me, but I like dignified and elegant women. So you don't have to worry about not being beautiful enough.
15, men become bad when they have money, yes, many men do, but men who have money become bad, even if they have no money, are not much better.
16, life is only a few decades, so don't leave any regrets for yourself, laugh happily, cry if you want, love when you should, and it doesn't make any sense to suppress yourself.
Do you love him? Love tells him why he should hide the pain of missing in his heart. Afraid of appearance, status and identity mismatch? Don't be afraid, it is beautiful to love someone.
18, only by making your self-abased mind confident can your bent body be straight; Only by making your weak body strong can the bound steps take off; Only by broadening one's narrow mind can one broaden one's short-sighted vision; Only by making your stupid mind smart can you abandon your stupid fantasy!
19. Being hurt in life can temper your mind, being cheated can increase your knowledge, being abandoned can teach you the ability to stand on your own feet, and being criticized can fuel your wisdom.
20. Dull is true, yes, but it should be dull after passion, then passionate and then dull. Passion should appear alternately in waves. What's the point of living a dull and passionate life? As long as you really love him, you will have passion until you die.
2 1, failure does not mean that you are incompetent, and sometimes setbacks will lead you to success; Victory doesn't mean that you are superior, sometimes success will tempt you to slide into the abyss.
22. Take a step, no matter how long the road is; Stagnation, no matter how short the road, is difficult to reach.
23. Everyone has potential energy, but it is easy to be covered by habit, blurred by time and consumed by inertia.
24. Maybe some people are hateful and some people are despicable. And when I put myself in his imagination, I realized that he was more pitiful than me. So please forgive all the people you have met, good and bad.
25. Life can be noble, but not shameless; You may not be great, but you can't be mean; You may not be smart, but don't be confused; You may not be knowledgeable, but you must not be ignorant; You can not make friends, but you can't be lonely; You can be pessimistic, but not world-weary; You can be generous, but you can't hurt others; You can not pursue it, but you can't be jealous; You can not make progress, but you can't go backwards.
26. There is no smooth road in life, there is no smooth road in the world, and the road is always uneven, so don't complain. You think the road is uneven because of the uneven heart, and peace of mind can make everything smooth. Only by keeping a free heart can we follow karma easily.
27, no selfish distractions, only know how to love each other. And the love in the future is not so pure. Innocence is the most precious thing in the world. It is her that we long for.
28. In this impetuous world, I can do nothing about the impetuousness of the whole society. I can only try my best not to be impetuous.
29, the road depends on your own legs, and it is definitely not far to borrow others as crutches instead of legs.
30. There are many detours, paths, dangerous roads and dark roads in the journey of life. Only those who are determined and never stop can hope to reach the distant place of victory.
Famous words of life sentiment
1, don't say you like me, if you still like many people. Don't say you love me, if you love others at the same time. Don't tell me to grow old together, if you have promised others. I only like to be single-minded, like what I know how to cherish, and stick to the oath that is really worth upholding. Everyone likes to meet, not romance, but the return of the prodigal son. Love several people at the same time, not love, but estrus. People who express their sincerity to many people are not sentimental, but anthomaniac.
2, don't work hard, get quick success, and in the end only boast for a few days, which is always embarrassing. zhen banqiao
It is only a moment that determines a person's life and the whole destiny. -Goethe
4. Some people love your body, some people love your mind, and some people love your soul. You are like a shining diamond. People love you in different ways, but they all love you. So it doesn't matter what others love you, what matters is what they are willing to give. Some people are willing to pay money, some people are willing to pay romance, and some people are willing to pay for a lifetime. Love is a choice. Don't choose the most expensive, choose what you want most.
5. I have never provoked you. Why do you provoke me? Since you started it, why did you give up halfway?
6. You smiled at me without saying a word. I know I've been waiting for a long time.
7. For you, I may not know many things, but I am studying hard.
8. When you are angry, count to ten before you speak. If you are very angry, count to one hundred. Jefferson
9. Anything that makes you feel heavy, makes you feel bad about yourself and hinders your progress, throw it away. Anything, if it just takes up space, has no positive contribution to your life. Throw it away. It takes you a long time to weigh the pros and cons of anything, whether to throw it away or keep it, or worry about something wrong, then throw it away.
10, don't think there is something better, because what you have now is the best; Don't give up because the distance is too far, love can travel with you; Don't give up because the other person is not rich, and work hard to make yourself rich; Don't give up because your parents object, you will find that giving up love for this reason will be a lifelong regret. In fact, for love, the simpler the happier.
1 1. Sometimes, it's not that the other person doesn't care about you, but that you take the other person too seriously.
12, hold your hand and teach you a dance quietly.
13, the saddest person in the world is that he has no advantages to show off, but covers up his poor inferiority with annoying arrogance and boasting.
14, people suffer because they pursue the wrong things.
15, when I am more and more polite to you, we may become more and more strangers.
16, the most terrible enemy is that there is no strong belief. -romain rolland
17, when marching, people are always retired, defeated, decadent and defected. However, as long as it does not hinder progress, this team will become a pure elite team in the future. -Lu Xun
18, feelings for a long time, it is not love, but dependence; Losing the battle is not pain, but giving up.
19, recognize the world and love it.
20. People should control their own desires, not be controlled by them. It is human instinct to pursue comfort and enjoyment, but we should also be temperate. Desire is like water. When it is right, it will overflow. The reason why we live tired is often because we mistake our desires for our needs, making ourselves exhausted and getting deeper and deeper.
2 1, loving someone and being loved by someone is very happy, but things in the world are so fair, there are gains and losses. Just like you love someone, you get him, but you lose the feeling of mysterious yearning. You can't have him, but you have the freedom to let your mind imagine. Therefore, when you fall in love with someone, you must think clearly about what you should do to be the most perfect and least regretful.
22. The story of meeting is like a meteor. It's just you and me, with our eyes and our bodies.
23. Learn to be quiet, immerse yourself in your mind, and slowly reduce your desire for things. Always zero yourself. Every day is a new beginning. there is no age limit. As long as your desire for things is properly reduced, you will win more chances. Everything will be fine in the end. If it's not good, it's not over yet.
24. Huge buildings are always made of one stone and one wood. Why don't we kill one stone with one stone? I often do odd jobs, that's why. -Lu Xun