First, if you have friends who like to complain, you will often hear such words from them. Why am I so unlucky? Why is there nothing satisfactory? I think life is about trying to live according to your own mind. I think people live to enjoy happiness. Generally speaking, life is not very good, because the real life trajectory is not a straight line. The real road to life is a rugged mountain road. As long as you live in this world, you will encounter setbacks. Setbacks are like mud pits and stones dug on mountain roads. It exists in this mountain road itself and is an integral part of this mountain road. They just made a choice of their own will, there is no right or wrong.
Second, we live in social relations. It can be said that our life is dealing with different people. But everyone has their own ideas and wishes, which means that what you think is not necessarily what others think, and what others think is not necessarily what you want. You can't stop your neighbors from singing songs you hate, and you can't decide that the people you work with have the same temper as you. It is very common that we often backfire in interpersonal relationships. You live in the south. In March, you watched the water flow out from the walls and floors, dried your clothes for a week, and became more and more agitated. You felt that you had gone to live in the north, and found that the cold in the north was worse than expected. You caught a cold several times a month, and you couldn't wait to move back to the south immediately. Life is not transferred by human will, and it has irresistible aging. One day, when you comb your hair in the mirror, you find that baldness is no longer a distant word for yourself. No matter how hard you exercise, you can't resist the unification of abdominal muscles, and the cosmetics on the table can't smooth the traces of years around your eyes. You said that life cheated you because life didn't live the way you liked, but it was a chicken feather, and a chicken feather is the true face of life.
Thirdly, I found that my parents have a strong ability to resist the blow of life. When you think the sky is falling, they don't even lift their eyelids. No matter what happens, they always look so calm. When I was a child, I fell on a stool and kicked it hard in the back. When we grow up and encounter so many setbacks, should we kick hard to vent our anger? When you have experienced enough things, you will gradually understand and accept life. Don't take setbacks as a serious matter. Maybe it's just a stone in front of you, or a pit. When you ride over and stare at the car, you will bump at most, but this will not affect your enjoyment of the distant scenery. This will help you learn to control the direction more skillfully, observe the road conditions in advance and learn to avoid risks. These setbacks may really make you sad for a while, but if we look farther, we will find that many setbacks are not worth mentioning, or it is because of setbacks that you become tenacious. People whose lives are getting better and better often understand very early that the background of life is full of setbacks, so they can learn to manage their emotions, learn to understand and accept, learn to strive for self-improvement and learn to find the meaning of life.