The charm of men-1. A confident and graceful man should manage himself with care, which is reflected in his thoughts and self-cultivation. Self-confidence is the most important quality of a man. A confident man is like a seagull fighting in a storm. All the seagull has to say is "let the storm come more violently" because it is fearless. A confident person can always infect others, whether friends or enemies. To make others have confidence in you, you must first have confidence in yourself. A confident person can overcome all difficulties. A man with grace is like the sea, not refusing every drop of water, but also containing rivers. Manners make men more popular, so that they can see the world without arguing in front of them and benefit from giving to others. As the saying goes, "the prime minister can punt in his stomach." A man with a heart like the sea doesn't know how many boats can fit in his stomach! Charm makes men look smart. Second, get into the habit of reading and writing. In the process of interacting with others, men can conquer others best through conversation and cultivation. A knowledgeable person must often read books, and a smart person must often write. No matter how busy you are, take time out to read and write articles. Because it can change a man's thinking and behavior. The first thing a person should do to change his mind is to read a good book. Reading is like making a good friend, who can help you go your own way. The life of reading is the most colorful and the time of writing is the most enlightening. Men who like reading and writing will certainly cultivate a good attitude. Because the ocean of knowledge and wisdom is boundless, but men who like reading and writing can pursue it persistently. Pursuit is a man's thought and action. Never give up pursuit and always inspire men to fight. In this kind of battle, one can experience the baptism of wind and rain and grow into a towering tree. Reading makes one calm and writing makes one mature. Third, try to discover the truth, goodness and beauty in life. Men should learn how to face life. What is "real"? Nowadays, men are more and more confused. That's because men are impetuous. They don't know what is "real" to live. "Truth" means seeking truth from facts. Don't lie to yourself and don't lie to others. "Truth" means honesty, doing things honestly, and honest people are the most lovely. "Kindness" naturally means kindness. To be kind to others is to be kind to your own life. "Kindness" is actually around us. Don't embarrass others, don't dig at others, and don't insult others. This is kindness. Sometimes your little kindness can produce good results and make your life happy. The philosopher said, "There is no lack of beauty in life, but the eyes that find beauty." Yes, so is life. Don't dwell on your misfortune. Doing so will only make your life more unfortunate. You feel "unfortunate" because you can't face life optimistically. Life is always full of hope. As long as you keep looking up at the sunshine, you can feel the warmth. Optimistic pursuit of a better life in warmth will naturally lead to beauty. Fourth, make friends with thoughtful people. A man should choose his friends with a purpose. Social connections are very important, and your circle of friends will have a great impact on your life. Men should make more friends, make more friends, and not make bad friends. The so-called friends are those who are helpful to you, and these people are often excellent themselves. Making more friends is very beneficial to one's life and work. But true friends are not easy to make, because such friends need you to pay great sincerity and sincerity. A thoughtful friend, he knows very well whether you regard him as a friend or not. If you are just using him, he won't treat you as a friend in his heart. Making friends sometimes has no purpose. You just think this man is thoughtful and worth seeing. But it is often these considerate friends who lend you a helping hand when you are in the most difficult time. Friends are one of the most important elements in a man's life. If a man wants to live like a real man, he must make many friends. Fifth, we must get rid of our bad habits. Bad habits are formed, and so are good habits. To cultivate good habits is to get rid of bad habits. If a man still has such bad habits after he reaches the age of marriage, it is a very bad thing. These bad habits will hinder the development of your life, you will lose a lot of brilliance in your life, and it is difficult to achieve greater success in your career. If you still love to sleep late, the first ray of sunshine in the morning will never shine on your smiling face. If you always put off until now, you will never be able to lead your life. If you don't face life positively until now, then your future can only be a bleak gray. I believe that no man wants a gray life, and all men expect to have a colorful life. Therefore, in order to make your life colorful, you must start by getting rid of bad habits. Sixth, learn patience and tolerance. Men must learn to be patient and tolerant. There are often many things in society that you can't accept, but when you have to accept these things, you need your patience. To tolerate others is to tolerate others, and a man who can tolerate others will be very generous. Successful men are often men who can bear humiliation. A man who can stand loneliness is never unwilling to be lonely, and a man's patience is for a better outbreak. Say "I am a fool" to those who say we are fools, and make them feel at a loss! Don't argue with those who accuse us for no reason, because it will only make you angry. It is better to forgive others than to hurt them. Tolerance is the best panacea for treating other people's wounds. 7. Keep a good attitude and pay attention to your health. Men should learn to adjust their mentality and pay attention to their health. The body is the capital of the revolution, and the mentality is the money detector. If a man wants to get more wealth, he must have a strong body. If a man wants to be the richest man for a long time, he must have a positive and optimistic attitude. Pay attention to diet, exercise regularly and get enough sleep is the guarantee of good health. Don't be swayed by considerations of gain and loss, work hard and let your mind decide everything. You don't have to go jogging every day. In fact, it won't take you long. All you need is perseverance and perseverance. But you must always exercise your body. Walking is a good choice and will make you full of strength. It's no big deal to take a bath without cold water in winter, because I persisted for a winter. But always wash your face with cold water in winter, which can not only prevent colds, but also keep your head clear. You can fail, but you should always keep a winning attitude. If you defeat yourself, there will be no enemies. 8. Always smile and make politeness your business card. Always smile. Smiling at people shows that you are a kind person, and all people are willing to deal with kind people. Don't write depression on your face, it will only keep others away from you. What kind of person you are is judged by whether you greet him with a smile. And this kind of judgment plays an important role in your impression in others' hearts. People often say that "details determine success or failure", and this detail is often reflected in whether you are a polite person. A polite person knows how to care about others. Others will give you a chance to succeed because of your courtesy and concern. A man's business card is a smile and courtesy, and it is a passport for a man to achieve his career. 9. Pursue a woman you really love, and you will never regret being single-minded in your life. This is a very normal thing. Don't suppress your feelings, but don't promiscuous. The stupidest and cutest time for men is when they fall in love with women. When you fall in love with a woman but don't know if she will fall in love with you, you must choose a suitable time to confess to him. Whether he chooses to accept or refuse depends on the fate between you and your efforts. But men must understand that what women want most is a man who loves her deeply and says to her: I love you. Love can't be forced, men must understand. Don't let your's friendship be easily lost just because you can't get your love. It is a rare good thing to be friends with the woman you once loved. Love is sacred because it is the most willing choice of people, and it embodies the respect and trust between people. Therefore, a man must respect the choice of the woman you love and believe that her choice is a decision made for her own happiness. As long as you pursue the woman you really love, you will never regret it. Ten, pay everything for the cause, you must work hard for the cause. The most important thing for a man is his career. A man without a career is not a real man. A person's career may not be vigorous, but he must be proud of his achievements. A man with a strong ambition is also a man with a strong sense of victory and responsibility. A person with a strong desire to win will never be content with mediocrity. A person with a strong sense of responsibility is never afraid of difficulties. Men become taller because of their successful careers, thus gaining the respect and trust of others. As a man, you have to give everything for your career. To succeed, you have to give, and giving means you have to lose something. If you don't want to pay any price for your career, you will only lose more and get nothing in the end. 1 1. Love and career can be shared, and efforts should be made to achieve a double harvest of love and career. It is often said that when a man chooses love, he loses his career; when he chooses a career, he cannot get love. I don't think so, but I think the sweeter love, the more successful my career. Actually, love and career are two different things. A man who loves vigorously will not hinder his career success at all. A man nourished by love must be more mature, attractive and determined to do something than a man who doesn't know the taste of love. Never believe what those extreme people say. Love is mutual understanding, mutual encouragement and mutual support. Help each other in life, help each other in career, and make love and career double harvest. Twelve, try to do better than women, try to do better than women. Even in some things that can't be done better than women, we should try to do as well as women. This is not to say that men should be born better than women, but that men should be born better than women. Because women can easily surpass men as long as they work hard, it is natural for men to know that it is better to work hard than women. In today's society, women's status is getting higher and higher, and women have the right to choose men for the first time. So if you, as a man, can't be better than a woman, why should a woman choose you? Women often say that "women hold up half the sky". Now, in some fields that belong to men, women do better than men. Therefore, men should not only do very well in their own fields, but also do well in women's fields. Learn to be brave and shoulder the responsibility on your shoulders. Learn to be brave and shoulder your unshirkable responsibilities. It is a man's responsibility to be filial to his parents, love his wife and children and achieve his career. Men's responsibilities are nothing more than family and career. These responsibilities are really heavy, but as a man, you must shoulder your own shoulders to bear them. There is no reason, just because you are a man. Men also have the right to cry, but they have no right to cry. Men also have the right to cry, but they have no right to cry in front of their parents, wives and children. Men also have the right to give up, but they have no right to give up family and career responsibilities. As a man, you have no choice but to bear it with your shoulders. Fourteen, never give up on yourself, believe that you can do it, and never give up on yourself. Others give up on you because you gave up on yourself first. I believe that as long as you don't give up on yourself, no one will give up on you or no one can give up on you. Believe that you are the source of strength for a man to overcome everything. A person who doesn't believe in himself has no reason to succeed, because his feet have crossed the failure. There is a slogan that says, "Believe in yourself, strength is in your heart". There is also a slogan that says "I can". Yes, I think, I also believe that as long as everyone can believe in themselves, you can do it.