Text/Xue Shu
Start with strangeness, get familiar with each other, end with intimacy, and finally walk down the red carpet. But how can the understanding stage shorten the process and quickly enter the intimate stage? A good way is to treat each other as relatives.
1, as a brother and sister in your life, it feels different. From an early age, it is necessary to know how much the elder brother cares for the elder sister and how the elder sister is attached to the elder brother. As a brother, it is natural to take care of my little sister, and it is also natural to be the feedback of my sister and the care of my brother. Love is abstract. To concretize love is to care about the little things in each other's lives, encourage each other's spiritual feelings, appreciate each other's advantages, tolerate each other's shortcomings and understand each other's differences.
2. Relatives, not only brothers and sisters, but also parents and grandparents. How to care and care about your parents, how to care and care about your lover. If you are not with your parents, you will always care about your parents. How are you? How about eating and drinking? Did you work out? In a good mood? What have you been up to recently? Similarly, greeting these little things in the days when we don't meet each other seems nothing new or trivial, but isn't life made up of trivial things? Falling in love, the topic can be Chun Xue, collision of ideas, or going to Ba Li to talk nonsense, but it is as warm as the winter sun.
The most important people in this world are relatives. Lovers are people who will spend their lives together in the future. Since they will become relatives sooner or later, when they get along, they are lovers in relationship. But if they regard their lovers as relatives, they will psychologically draw closer, increase intimacy, relax tension and improve naturalness. Just like how to look at happiness. Today's life, I think I am happy, I am happy, I think I am unfortunate, it seems that I am really unhappy. Therefore, what kind of mentality is very important.