? Those who hurt others without thinking, I really doubt that you have a brain? Is that brain you grew for seeing? The so-called verbal hurtful person will confess when he touches his bottom line. People who speak without thinking are making excuses for hurting others. If you always forgive her, she will think it's okay to hurt others. Anyway, I have a "talk without thinking, so you can't blame me", so once you forgive her, she can make mistakes again.
? I'm not saying that they are all sensible people. Others can do it. They can know what they should say and know that what they say will hurt others. Just because she doesn't know, why is it so special? I think it is disgraceful to live a few years less than others, or to tell you to do so after reading a book, or to tell you to hurt others with one mouth.
In my opinion, it's unintentional to hurt someone once or twice, but if you keep doing this, you have to wonder if you did it on purpose. In my impression, only those mental patients will speak without thinking. Otherwise, why is it so special that everyone knows to think about what to say, but you don't know?
I once met a man who spoke without thinking. She speaks without thinking, hurting others and attacking others. When others say that she is straightforward, please don't insult the word straightforward. Others didn't say much even if they were angry after her words were attacked. At that time, my girlfriend had a bad temper. Once she spoke, which made my girlfriend angry. The girl said that she spoke without thinking, and begged her to forgive her. Girlfriend said directly that since she didn't talk. He also said that if you don't talk to me and my friends through the brain in the future, I have to wonder if my fist will touch your brain without going through the brain.
? Since then, she has never said anything "brainless" in front of me and my best friend.