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speak You may be afraid to talk to strangers. You are also a handsome boy. But if you don't, you're wasting an opportunity. There are not many good opportunities in life, are there? What are you worried about if this guy is too weird?
How? Or too boring, too quiet, too noisy, too masculine, too weak, or not your type. But you should still find a starting point for the dialogue. You'd better find him, for example, you can't breathe.
Come on, let's keep talking about his mother and his ex-girlfriend, instead of spying on your first date, so that your chances of screwing up in the end are less. If he looks at you like a monster, then you can smile and say to him:
I'm leaving. Take your time!
Approaching the target. If your conversation is pleasant, you can say: Nice talking to you. Can I talk to you again? You can even invite her to see you next time. Of course, this is limited to the situation that you have already communicated with him. In this way, if you want to see if he is as good as the first time you meet him, you can make an appointment and take some time to further observe.
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If you are too nervous to speak normally, get to the point! Don't say hello, don't follow instructions, just call! Should there be some opening remarks? . ! ! But if he's really sexy,
So what! ! It doesn't hurt to try, does it? Show yourself some respect! Don't be too rude, and don't make people suspicious, or you will only be rejected! As long as you are sincere enough, just call.
A lame sentence can also succeed! You can say: I like your T-shirt.
May I know your telephone number? Or: What are you doing? Can you leave your phone number? Hehe, isn't it bad, but unless you didn't take a shower today, I think it should be ok.
In addition, pay attention to your appearance: wear clean clothes, brush your teeth, get enough sleep ... don't make yourself look haggard and tired.
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Last resort: before you leave, give him your contact information, stay and run, and don't let him have time to refuse. Let him reflect on what just happened. Just in case, you are afraid before you have said a few words to him.
This is a mistake. If you are a cripple, don't just leave your phone number, change it to QQ or email address, and it won't be too much trouble in the future. If you find that he has noticed you, be brave.
Go up and say, here is my phone number, in case you want to ask me out one day. Or: When are you going to ask me out? In the restaurant: ask the waiter to take a message for you after you leave. The note can say: When shall we go for coffee?
Or: I like your hair.
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Another trick, tell him: you look like my college classmate. Ask him if he can take a picture together so that his friends/mothers/brothers and sisters can see you, a classmate who has not seen you for a long time. Ask him QQ and WeChat number when taking photos! So that you can further contact and understand him through social tools! Let's call it a day!