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In life, we often meet some poor people who feel pity from the heart.
However, as the saying goes, the poor must have something hateful. When our eyes show pity at this moment, who asked her what decision she had made for her present situation?
The aunt next door is black and blue these two days, especially her eyes, which have turned into panda eyes. Needless to say, she must have been beaten again.
This aunt is often abused by domestic violence. Speaking of her husband, it's really not a good thing. She is a sloppy person with a rough face all day. He is also a big alcoholic, who often drinks. Every time he drinks too much outside, he stumbles home and fights with his aunt.
Sadly, the aunt seems to be normal about all this, got a beating and continued to serve her husband three meals a day the next day.
Aunt struggles in despair every day. Sometimes, this desperate look is contagious and makes people feel really tired.
According to community insiders, this aunt is married for the second time, and she also had an enviable family when she was young. But later, because of my own mistakes, I finally got divorced.
Aunt's previous marriage, family conditions are very good, the family runs a slaughterhouse, there are several meat shops in the city, and aunt's ex-husband is also a business material, running back and forth between the meat shop and the slaughterhouse every day, taking care of the business very well.
During that marriage, my aunt had two sons, and she took care of the children's families at home every day, without worrying about food, clothing, housing and transportation. Her husband is also very generous, and the money at home is at her disposal.
The couple and their son are very happy together, and their lives are quite comfortable.
Later, the child grew up, both of them went to school, and the aunt was idle. She fell in love with playing mahjong all day, from killing time at first to being possessed later.
In this way, the aunt dramatically embarked on the road of decadence.
When the ex-husband comes home, he will never see hot bath water to relieve fatigue, and the children will never have hot meals after school.
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Aunt plays mahjong every night, but her family says she doesn't listen, so she steals away and concentrates on playing mahjong. Her ex-husband even offered an ultimatum to divorce if he gambled again, to no avail.
After gambling with her pocket money, the aunt stole her man's money to gamble. The deeper the bet, the less worthy her man is because his money has been stolen. In this way, the relationship between husband and wife is getting worse and worse.
Until later, menstruation's ex-husband finally couldn't stand her life any longer. In addition to gambling every day, it seems that in her eyes, she has no husband, no children and no home, so she simply divorced.
After the divorce, neither of the children wanted to follow their mother. In this way, the two children were eventually raised by their father, and the aunt became a loner.
Later, introduced by a friend, the aunt married the widowed and rude old man.
As the saying goes, remarriage is better than never getting married.
A man who married his aunt is simply a man who doesn't know how to be warm and cold. All the disappointments in life were drugged by alcohol, and all the anger in my heart was vented on menstruation by alcohol.
It's not that my aunt hasn't thought about divorce, but she thinks that she may not meet a good man after divorce. The important thing is that she doesn't have any ability or skill. Without a man, she has no money, no capital and hope of survival.
Aunt has been numb, physically and mentally exhausted, and she has lost confidence in life, living one day at a time.
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When a person can't bear his own fault, he often chooses a shortcut to escape.
Sometimes, this shortcut to escape will make people struggle in despair every day, and this desperate mood continues. Aunt's eyes and body are full of this despair. Despair is so thorough. No matter how strong the desire for happiness in life is, when despair strikes, it is impossible to disperse.
Recalling the good times, regretting what I did, and seeing the present situation, the only mentality has become impatient and helpless to life.
Aunt's life is so pitiful? Is it worthy of pity? If it is not self-restraint, why should it be reduced to this point?
The happiness that her ex-husband once gave has now turned into tears of regret, casting her heart every day.
Aunt chose the most helpless way. Since she can't change it, she can only choose to endure it.
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I once told such a story in the law lecture hall of No.2 Middle School. A woman is a teacher, an old public company, very kind and loves this woman. There is also a three-year-old happy crystallization son, and the family is very happy.
But after a long time, the woman felt that life was dull and boring. In order to pursue spiritual stimulation, she went to the gym to get along with a fitness instructor.
Later, after this incident was discovered, the husband divorced without saying anything, and the custody of the children belonged to the husband. When the school learned about it, it expelled her. It never rains but it pours. This woman went to her parents' house because she was desperate, but she was also a smart person. She knew her daughter was wrong and didn't accept her.
She had to rent a house outside alone. Later, when I missed my son, I went to meet my husband. With permission, she took her son to the park to play.
The tragedy happened at this moment. The woman paid no attention to her son, who fell into the lake and drowned. Faced with this scene, the woman instantly despaired of life and jumped into the lake to try to die. As a result, she didn't die and was saved. Finally, the court convicted her of intentional homicide and sentenced her to three years.
If you don't die, you won't die Poor people must have something hateful.
We are all adults, and we should know that we should consider the consequences of our actions and pay the price for our own affairs.
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In this world, some people are out of breath because of their busy lives, and some people are depressed because they are too idle. People, who have the happiness envied by others, are not satisfied with their own comfort. Even if they live a poor life, there must be something hateful about poor people.
Sometimes we think that our present situation is what we have done. You worked hard to make money when you were poor, but today you have a car and a house. When you are healthy, you waste your youth for today's illness, regardless of your health; When you smile like a flower, playing with others' sincerity has become love rat now.
When we reap the pity of others with today's tragic situation, can we first examine whether our hearts have a clear conscience?
Life can't be arranged by others. We must fight for it ourselves. It is not easy to find happiness. Similarly, we have to go through hardships to get rid of them.
I hope everyone can learn to be satisfied with a comfortable life in their hands, even if they are stupid, don't lose themselves. Don't let the past shake our hearts for the rest of our lives like a knife because of our own mistakes.