Wilde said, "Only shallow people don't judge a book by its cover." No one has a second chance to make a first impression on others, so if you meet someone who doesn't look like a good person at first sight, it may really be a bad person. Trust your instincts.
Tell me about an express driver I met today. When it rains in the morning, go out and call Didi "Express". Because my home is located in a special community, I need to bypass the overpass, and many drivers can't find it. I called the driver after he took the order. Because my phone bill is monthly, I usually can't use it up. Calling the driver is also to save the phone bill of the other party, and it is also out of kindness. The driver answered the phone with impatience and said angrily, "I'm on my way ..."
I have to say: Oh, I want to tell you that I have been waiting at the door.
The driver is an uncle with a serious expression. He really doesn't look like a good man. Early in the morning, seeing such a fierce face made the whole person feel uncomfortable.
After leaving, he was a little hesitant which way to take, so I instructed him how to bypass the overpass, but he kept silent.
When I arrived at my destination, I asked him if he had an invoice, and he said "no" (I took the express train on my return trip, and the driver told me that there were electronic invoices and paper invoices, and told me how to submit an invoice application. The same driver, the difference is really big).
I was going to pay by taxi, but I couldn't find the payment interface (I haven't taken the express train for a long time), so I was a little embarrassed to ask him: Where can I pay?
He said, "I don't know. Get off the bus and study for yourself. " And drove away.
I got off and studied for a while, then it suddenly occurred to me that I had used the express train before, set up the automatic payment function and paid the final payment of the order. The express driver received nearly 2000 orders. He must know that there is "automatic payment", but he won't say a word.
I'm a little angry. I think he has no service spirit at all and his attitude is very poor. Too "treacherous"! No wonder they don't look like good people. Talking about taking a taxi with my colleagues around me, my colleague said, "He may be angry with his wife at home and in a bad mood ..."
Lincoln once said, "A man over forty should be responsible for his appearance." The express driver looks almost fifty years old. He doesn't know what he has experienced in his life, so his appearance and behavior are just like that. That's what the so-called "heart is connected" means.
Why are some people not good people at first sight? Because that person is really not a good person.
If you have seen countless people and trust your intuition, you will know that it is reasonable to judge a book by its cover.
Ding: Columnist, book reviewer, former human resources director of a chain enterprise. The new book "You are only one step away from better" is selling well all over the network. WeChat official account "Ding is Ding (ID: DSD555555).